Teaching and educating people should be synonymous with teachers, but are we parents also the first teacher of our children?
First, let me tell you a real story.
A little boy didn't want to do his homework because he was playful and didn't want to do his homework. His mother tried every means but failed. Then she drove him out. It started raining at that time. More than an hour later, my mother went out to find him and found him squatting on the ground and was wet in the rain. At this moment, his mother was so desperate and helpless.
Why do you have to force your child to do your homework? Isn’t it okay to give him a good childhood? Is homework really that important?
I want to ask this mother, what would you do if the child was kicked out and lost? What will you do if your child has an accident while crossing the road? When that time comes, will you still care about whether your child does his homework?
Ugly ducklings can become white swans when they grow up because their genes are white swans. If their genes are just ducks, it is impossible for them to become white swans. For example, if your child is obsessed with music and does not like to study, then you confiscate his guitar at this time, can he study? The answer is no. He would rather sit there and stare blankly than study, because learning has nothing to do with playing music. If he likes studying, he will naturally give up everything and things that have nothing to do with learning.
You can urge your children to study, but you must not be extreme, because the more extreme you are, the more rebellious your children will be. Remember one thing: your children will definitely not fall in love with learning because of your strictness!
