In fact, every child has many advantages and strengths. Education is to protect these advantages and strengths and strengths, and strengthen them and strengthen them. Don’t always talk about the child’s shortcomings. If you talk too much, you will feel that you are useless. See more children’s strengths and let them cultivate great happiness from childhood happiness. Just develop good habits with a clear conscience. It is better to do it than not.
"The highest level of education is to let students educate themselves and learn by themselves." "Parents are the most important teachers in their children's lives." So, the question is - how can teachers cultivate children's ability to learn and educate themselves? How should parents cooperate with the school and stimulate their children's ability to educate and learn? Hurry up and see what Teacher Wei Shusheng said in .
01. Education is to keep the advantages of children and then keep the advantages and strengths of children when I teach the first class to them, I often ask them to take out paper and pen and write down their strengths and strengths on them. Those students who study well and perform well may soon write it. Some so-called "poor students" said with a bitter face: "Teacher, I have no strengths."
I will tell them: "Children, why do you have no strengths? You don't want to come to school, but you still come every day, your willpower is so tenacious; your grades are not good, your parents scold and the teacher mocks, but you still sit and listen to the class every day, and your ability to resist setbacks is strong; even if you are mocked by the teacher, you still say that the teacher is good when you see the teacher. What a tolerant mentality... How can you say that these are not your advantages?"
In fact, every child has many advantages and strengths. Education is to protect these advantages and strengths and then hold them, strengthen and strengthen them.
02. If you think your child doesn’t pay attention to listening in class, you might as well try this method
Do you think your child doesn’t pay attention to listening in class? Then try this method - classmates, you can copy the second paragraph of the text "×××" in one minute to see how many words you can write. One minute is here, stop!
, now I will give you a minute to recite the fifth paragraph of the textbook page 122, and start writing in a minute...
Look at those little faces. In this minute, aren’t even those who don’t like to study the most seriously?
03. Let education return to the grassroots and return to the heart, don’t always yell at innovation
Some people, they are angry that Malaysian Malaysian did not find the Malaysian plane, and the Korean captain did not organize the orderly evacuation of passengers, but when they ask about their own affairs, they actually did nothing. Some people want to be the director of the galaxy system today, and tomorrow they want to be the long universe, and they are busy comparing with this and that every day.
I said that we teachers should not bother with these things. will let education return to the grassroots and the heart. Keep the strengths of students, keep the excellent experience, and keep the traditional common sense. Don’t always clamor for innovation. Education is actually very simple and does not have so many fancy innovations.
In fact, education is the same. To cultivate students to better educate themselves, improve their self-study ability, and let them understand that they are not for others, but for their own education, so that they can better enjoy happiness and gain a sense of accomplishment from their studies. If they are just learning for others and become slaves to learning, then their sense of happiness will be reduced.
04. Doing a good job of preview can often achieve twice the result with half the effort
Let children make plans for four stages: planning, preview, summary, and testing, for a lifetime, 10 years, 1 year, and 1 day. With goals and plans, you will have much more motivation to do things.
Previewing is often done twice the result with half the effort. Read thick books thinly and listen carefully in class. Even if you don’t listen carefully, don’t let yourself idle for those 45 minutes. If you feel that you are top-notch, then read books that suit you, write words that suit you, and draw paintings that suit you...
When summarizing and testing, you can encourage your children to produce the papers by themselves. When he had a mid-term or final test, he set the test questions himself, the type, difficulty, etc. He set the questions and did them again. If he couldn't do it, he would change it, and if he knew it, he would consolidate it.
05. Let children do what they can do by themselves
let them learn to take responsibility, cultivate their interests, and thus form habits.
let children do what they can do themselves. My son would wash my feet when he was four years old. At the beginning, he said to me bitterly, "Dad, can you not wash yourself?" I smiled and said to him, "Son, Dad, how good is yours? Look how good you pinch it." He felt that what he did was valuable, and he felt accomplishment, and regarded doing things and taking responsibility as happiness.
Don’t always talk about the child’s shortcomings. If you talk too much, you will feel that you are useless. See more children’s strengths and let them cultivate great happiness from childhood happiness. Just develop good habits with a clear conscience. It is better to do it than not.
Never let your children have a competitive mentality, don’t make things difficult for your children, and don’t ignore them.
Source: Wei Shusheng
