Family Style
Listen to the stories my mother told
I wrote this topic just to talk about the topic of family style.
In fact, family tradition is part of family education . It is a family's education and training for future generations, including tangible education and intangible teaching and inheritance. The education and training of parents determines the future of their children, and good family education is particularly important. Mencius's mother In order to cultivate her children, "three moves" made Yasheng Mencius. Although we cannot compare with Meng's mother, we can still raise excellent children if we have a good family tradition and a good education for our children. Speaking of family education, we have to talk about the education and training given to us by our father and mother. Speaking of the education our father and mother once gave us, we must talk about the "stories" our mother often told us.
Story in the village 1.
Send delicious food to parents
We have lived in our hometown in the countryside since we were young. When the children in the village grow up, they get married and have children. After they get married and start a business, they separate and live alone. A filial son or daughter-in-law (or daughter or son-in-law) will send home delicious food to his father and mother. Maybe it's meat-filled dumplings, maybe it's fried fish, or maybe it's stewed ribs. At that time, the living conditions in rural areas were not as good as they are now. You could not eat whatever you wanted like now. You could only eat good food during the holidays. This is why children cooked delicious food and gave it to their parents to express their feelings. Of filial piety. Being filial to children is not only reflected in giving delicious food to the elderly. In rural areas, people used to use firewood for cooking, and children would send good firewood to the elderly. This is also a kind of filial piety.
Story in the village 2
Grain harvesting
There is a family in our village. During the harvest season, one day suddenly dark clouds came over, lightning flashed and thunder thundered. It can be said that "the clouds in the stream are just beginning to rise, the sun is sinking in the pavilion, and the mountain rain is about to come, and the wind is filling the building." A heavy rain is coming. The son of this family hurriedly ran to the field to grab the grain that was being dried at home. This is understandable, but his own grandmotherās food is also drying on the field. The child told his mother, "Hurry up and collect our food. It doesn't matter if grandma's food gets wet, but it doesn't matter if our food gets wet." The mother also praised her child for being smart. But she didnāt know that when she was a grandmother herself, she would encounter similar things in the future. She didnāt know what her own grandson would say in the future. How to do it?
Village story three
Important
A grandmother in the village was ill one year, and her daughter planned to come back to take care of her. At this time, my uncle was also in poor health and needed care. Her aunt's daughter told her: "My father's health is very important in our family. We can live without my grandma, but we can't live without my father." Now that this aunt has become a grandmother, I wonder if she has encountered a similar situation? This reminds me of another familiar story: a father was old and needed care. In order not to drag himself down, the son decided to carry his father to the mountain and abandon him. When he carried his father to the mountain and put him down, he planned to throw away the basket as well. The grandson who came with him said: "Don't throw it away. When you get old, I will have to carry you." The son thought for a while and carried his father back on his back. Home.
The two short stories above are all told in the words of children. In fact, "children's words are unbridled". It doesn't matter what the children think and say. The key is the correct guidance of the children by the parents.
Village Story 4
Warmth
Jingliang is my high school classmate, and his mother is my aunt. The story of his filial piety to his mother was often told by his mother. When my aunt was still alive, every winter, Jing Liang would take his mother to his home in the county town to spend the winter. The home had heating, which was warm and comfortable. When his mother spent the winter at his place, she would not catch a cold all winter, which was good for her health. The next spring came, and when the heating was turned off and the weather got warmer, I sent my mother back to her hometown. Let the elderly live a warm winter, which deserves praise!
Village Story 5
My Friendās Story
When I talk about this little friend of mine, I feel a little heavy. He is a friend I grew up with. We are the same age. He is loyal and a very nice person. We often played together when we were young, but his later growth made people sigh.I heard that he later made friends with some bad youths in society and often did illegal things. However, his mother (his father died early) not only failed to stop and discipline him in time, but also said, "I'm not angry anyway!" because she didn't stop him in time. and discipline, which later became more and more out of control and embarked on a path of no return.
What my father often said in the past was: Ten years ago, it was the father who taught his son, and ten years later, it is the son who respects his father. Yes, only with a good family tradition and good tutoring can we cultivate filial children and promising children. My younger brother once said emotionally: It is my father and mother who have taken care (train, educate, and discipline) us so well and made us adults and talents. I must thank my father and mother! My brotherās words express our feelings as children.
Good family tradition should be passed down!
