"The Book of Changes" is known as "the source of the avenue" and "the beginning of the group classics". Throughout the ages, many literati and mosques, and even thinkers, have always admired Zhouyi.
Confucius's reading of "The Book of Changes" left behind an allusion of "Three Wonders of Wei Compiled" To the ancient emperors, generals, and ministers, Zhouyi is a treasure of governing the world; for literati, it is an "encyclopedia" covering various disciplines; and for ordinary people, it is the wisdom to teach people to cultivate their morals. Classics.
" I Ching " is an ancient book about regular changes. The so-called: "Poverty leads to change, change leads to continuity, and generality leads to long. It is because of God's blessing, good luck is not disadvantageous." Although some people have never read the "Book of Changes" and do not understand 64 hexagrams, they have the understanding and ability. Find out the law in practice, adapt to changes, follow the trend, and become a master in all walks of life.
People like stability and hate change. However, the law is constantly changing in one's life. Therefore, we must learn to adapt and adapt to trends.
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If you are poor, you will change; if you change, you will pass, and if you are good, you will last.
Generally, people who feel uncomfortable doing things will think that it is caused by other people and the environment, or think that they are insufficient and not working hard enough.
They never thought that they could find a way out by changing their thinking.
In the world, there is no difficulty that is more desperate than poverty. However, the law will never go to a dead end. The mountain does not turn, the water turns, and the water does not turn to people. Once it can be turned, everything can be changed.
We have to change our minds and change our thinking: feeling uncomfortable and frustrated is not a bad thing, but a signal that tells you that you should work around.
"Book of Changes": "The bend of the inchworm is to be trusted; the sting of the dragon and the snake is to survive."
Tiny bugs know how to bend their bodies for stronger stretch; the dragon that vacates, knows how to use hibernation to save itself.
Penguins always plunge into the sea before going ashore.
They rely on the buoyancy of the sea to jump out of the sea, the deeper they dive, the higher they jump.
All creatures in nature understand the principle of retreat to advance. The same goes for
people. Rushing is a reckless man, but a man who can bend and stretch.
In France, there is a famous soprano singer named Mar Dimeple. She has a beautiful private garden in the outskirts. On weekends, Dimeple will go to the garden with family and friends. Take an outing, pick flowers, pick mushrooms, or set up a tent and have a picnic together.
However, in normal times, some residents around will also enter the garden to play, making the garden often messy and messy. In order to prevent outsiders from entering, the housekeeper once asked people to put a fence around the garden and erected a wooden sign "Private garden, no entry", but this did not have any effect. People entered as usual, and the garden was still trampled continuously. And destruction. In desperation, the butler had to report the incident to Dimaple. How does
Dimaple do it? She asked the housekeeper to remove the signs prohibiting entry, remove those fences, and try to restore the original appearance of the garden. Then, large signs were erected at various intersections with the following paragraph: If you are bitten by a snake or beast in the garden, The nearest hospital is 15 kilometers away, and it takes about half an hour to reach it by car.
Since then, few people have dared to enter the gardens of Dimeple. The garden is still the same garden, but with some changes in thinking, from blocking to warning, the problem of intrusion by outsiders is solved. This soprano master named Dimaple is very smart and powerful.
When diamonds were not popular in Europe, no one would have realized that a stone used to cut glass would become a priceless jewel. The Oppenheimer family smelled the commercial smell in it early and they used De Beers’ monopoly on the market has adopted tactics to bind diamonds and love, and implanted the concept of "diamonds forever, one forever" in the concept of consumption. From this, the world is eager for diamonds. Oppenheimer The family also made huge profits.
Know how to be flexible, and then be able to be flexible, understand the world, and win the final success.
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People are always in the same place and fall many times, that’s becauseMy own inherent cognition and inertial behavior are making trouble.
Only by changing concepts, will there be actions to change.
When you feel uncomfortable or frustrated, stop, reflect on yourself, and change your mind. Only when your thoughts and cognitions are changed, will there be actions to change.
There is a businessman named Wilson in the United States who specializes in distributing cigarettes. In the past few years, almost no one cares about his products, has been losing money and is on the verge of bankruptcy.
After thinking hard, he decided to change his business method. One day, he drew a large advertisement at the entrance of the store, saying: "Please do not buy the cigarettes produced in this store. It is estimated that the nicotine and tar content of this kind of cigarettes is 1% higher than those of other stores." In addition, it was also red. The big characters indicate "Someone died from smoking this cigarette." This unique advertisement attracted the attention of TV reporters. Through news programs, people learned about this store and came to visit and buy cigarettes.
Some people came to buy this kind of cigarettes from other places, saying: "Buy a pack and smoke, and look at the dead!" Some people come to buy this kind of cigarettes to show their manhood. As a result, the business of this shop is booming, and now it has become a large enterprise with 5 branches and 10 branches.
Wilson's genius lies in his use of people's "rebellious psychology". Just like some novels, the more social reviews, especially the worse the reviews, the more people want to take a look.
corporate management, nothing else. Under normal circumstances, the more an operator publicizes the shortcomings of his product, the more people he will follow. Smart operators, it is precisely to take advantage of this psychology of consumers that they continue to get out of the predicament, and then reap great benefits.
It seems that as long as we are diligent, we can find positive factors in any "bad thing". As long as we can think and act flexibly, we can achieve the purpose of seeking advantages and avoiding disadvantages.
is unable to get out of the misunderstanding of one's thinking, which is equivalent to constraining oneself in the cage of thinking, unable to see the problem from a broader perspective, and unable to explore the problem in a more novel way, so it is impossible to be flexible If the problem is solved, it is impossible to succeed smoothly.
is also like a flexible strategy in solving mathematics problems. Its essence is that when we encounter a problem and it is difficult to solve it directly with the learned formula theorem, the relevant elements or relations of the original problem are converted into equivalent or isomorphic expressions. , In order to achieve better foresight of problem solving. The flexible thinking of
is not completely equivalent to the specific mathematical thinking methods such as reduction and analogy. What runs through the flexible thinking is openness, flexibility, adjustment and flexibility, and find solutions to problems by changing the way of thinking about problems.
Many problems are difficult to get started, because we don't understand the meaning of the questions well. We need to re-examine the conditions and conclusions of the problem by adjusting our angles in order to understand the nature of the problem more accurately. There are some problems with
. It doesn't feel difficult to read, but it is impossible to start. This may be that our understanding and digging of the hidden conditions of the subject itself are not in place. Some questions are lengthy and pass after you read them; some conditions or require the conclusion itself to hide the conditions, but they are not highlighted; some questions use graphics to explain the conditions without being clear; others are innovative or custom concepts, and so on. This requires us to pay attention to a full understanding of the implicit conditions in all aspects of problem solving.
Many problems are compiled with some specific background, either a certain concept or mathematical formula, or a practical problem that has been solved, or the application of a basic idea. Among them, the background of mathematics concept is most worthy of attention and strengthening. The compilation and solution of any mathematical problem requires mathematical concepts. In some specific problems, concepts are not only the basis for deriving formulas and theorems, but also a key to solving problems.
Therefore, for some specific mathematical problems, if you can return to the form defined by mathematical concepts, you can often obtain some essential properties of the problem set, and achieve the purpose of reasonable calculation, accurate judgment, and flexible problem solving. Therefore, to clarify the concept and grasp the definition is the best understanding of the nature of the problem.
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Everyone has different cognition and different behaviors. There are many factors that cause dissatisfaction, and there is only one hidden reason behind it: your current cognition, willingness and direction of action are contrary to the regular direction, which causes dissatisfaction. .
for example: regularTrends run downwards. If you go upwards, it will go against the law and cause discord. There used to be two farmers at
. One day, after finishing their farm work, they picked up two large bales of cotton on their way home.
They each carried a bag and went home, but they did not expect to find the best linen on the way.
A farmer suggested to leave the cotton and go home with burlap.
But his companion was unwilling, so he had to put down his cotton back and put on the linen cloth to go home.
later found several altars of gold on the way, and his companion suggested to leave behind the cotton and linen and carry the gold back home. The
companion is still unwilling to put down the cotton.
He had to carry the gold on his own. As a result, he went to the bottom of the mountain and it rained heavily. The cotton was wetted by rainwater too heavy. The companion of
could not move his back and had to give up. The farmer with his hands and the gold went home empty-handed. If the
farmer who insists on carrying cotton knows how to follow the rules, don't have a stick, and change his mind, he will not miss the opportunity to carry linen and gold, and in the end he can only go home with nothing.
is just like the famous French writer Alexandre Dumas said: "The human brain is the worst prison." This means that if you are not flexible in thinking and obey the rules, the biggest harm is to constrain people's thinking and negative mentality.
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In life, if we are flexible, some problems will be solved.
In the journey of life, there are two magic weapons, one is to advance, the other is to turn. Moving forward requires unprecedented courage, while turning requires clear wisdom.
Life is like walking in the world. There are often mountains and rivers in front of you. When the road is blocked, just go around; when your brain can't figure it out, try another idea.
For good things, let the flow go, and do what you want; for bad things, don’t get into the horns, people will be comfortable, and the heart will be comfortable.
as the saying goes: Straight roads can be used for horse racing, and winding paths can lead to quietness. Those who can advance bravely are strong; then those who retreat bravely are wise.
Buddhist language said: The phase is born from the heart, and the state is changed from the heart. The road is under the feet, and even more in the heart, the heart follows the road, the road is always wide.
If you are poor, you will change; if you change, you will be successful. The world is colorful, with the four seasons changing year after year, and there are flowers blooming every month. The colorful world is always changing. It will not leave a way out for those who follow the rules. Only those who know the truth and are good at flexibility can seek development in it.
The late Adams Rockell, chairman of Sears, said: "If lemons are too sour, make a glass of lemonade ." Lemons are too sour to be called delicious. However, you only need to change your mind a little bit and make lemonade with sour lemon, but it can make it more flavorful than any sweet fruit drink.
Life has a long road, and what really hinders you is often not the road in front of you, but your own heart. To be the helmsman of your own soul, you have the right to choose to persist, or you can choose to adapt.
"Zeng Guang Xian Wen" said: "Careful and so wrong, regress and consider everything broadly."
is a living, the joy of advancement, and the world of retreat.
don't have to stick to the original mindset too much, and change the position a little bit. All new opportunities are waiting for you.
When we have never been blessed by the goddess of luck, we might as well let ourselves go first, or take a step back, or turn a corner, so that we can walk broadly.
Because this life attitude of stopping losses in time is called "fighting again in the future".