"The Four Lessons of Life" says: "I will do my destiny, and I will seek blessings by myself."
The innate destiny cannot be changed, but the acquired destiny and blessings are cultivated by myself.
Character determines destiny, and virtue determines blessings.
People with these three personalities have the best fate; people with these three virtues have the most blessings.
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Three good personalities
- easy-going personality
"Tao Te Ching" says: "The highest good is like water and can be in the square."
Easy-going person looks soft, but contains infinite power.
Easy-going is not inferiority, not weakness, but generous and affectionate.
People like this have many friends, good popularity, broad road ahead, and their lives will get better and better.
Shen Congwen is very easy-going, and when you get along, you feel like you are in the spring breeze.
So, when Shen Congwen encountered difficulties, his friends were happy to take the initiative to lend a helping hand to him.
friend Yu Dafu encouraged him, took care of him, and sponsored him when he was embarrassed.
When he was silent, Xu Zhimo will constantly recommend him and his works in the literary and artistic circles.
In addition, seniors such as Li Lincan , Zhu Guangqian have also supported him to make him stand out.
It can be said that his easy-going personality is invaluable to his ability to grow from a country book generation to a literary master.
The more easy-going a person can go on the road of life.
- Simple personality
Philosopher Hegel said: "The simplest people are the most rare."
The best way is, and the same is true for personality. The simpler the simpler the life, the better the life.
Simple people, concentrate on their work, be calm in their work, and have a open mind.
will not be twisted, do not care about other people's evaluations, and will not be trapped by the world.
Mo Yan won the Nobel Prize in Literature at the age of 557. He had been writing for a full 31 years.
For many years, he has not been anxious or impatient, and has simply devoted himself to creating.
Even if it is not known to ordinary readers, he never seeks fame and profit to cater to the public's preferences.
Finally, he won the Nobel Prize for with a series of high-quality works, making him world-famous. After
won the award, he has not released a new book for a long time, and many people questioned that he had "finished his talents".
But he laughed it off and continued to devote himself to the creation.
After eight years, I returned with my new work " Late-Mature People ", and received rave reviews within a few months.
People with simple personalities know the worldly but not the worldly, live in the world and away from the world, and live clearly and transparently.
- Cheerful personality
As the saying goes, "People who love to laugh will not have too bad luck."
People with cheerful personality always smile on their faces and are born with good luck.
Because they are always full of strength, can be strong in suffering and rise up in setbacks.
No matter how many strong winds and waves encountered in life, you will always be safe and sound.
During the reign of Song Zhezong, old party officials such as Su Shi and Liu Zhi and Liang Tao were successively exiled to Lingnan.
At that time, the climate in Lingnan was hot, and miasma was rampant, and plagues occurred frequently.
After Liu Zhi and Liang Tao arrived in Lingnan, they were not accustomed to the local conditions and died of illness one after another.
Only Su Shi, who is cheerful, can eat and sleep wherever he goes, and is immune to all diseases.
People with cheerful personalities are well-understood and can always adapt to the situation and face the wind and rain with a smile.
They will not be easily defeated, but will become more courageous as they setbacks, the better they live, and the more they live, the more they live, the more they live, the more they are.
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Three virtues of blessings
- Kindness
Wang Yangming said: "People always do good deeds, and there will be good rewards."
Those who love love come back, and those who are blessed come.
Kind heart, speak good words, and do good deeds, and blessings will naturally come.
In ancient times, there was a scholar named Yuan Liaofan. He met an fortune teller while taking the exam.
Mr. 4 said that his county exam was the 14th and the government exam was the 71st, but he would not pass the Jinshi.
Moreover, he will die at the age of 53 and have no children in his life.
Yuan Liaofan didn't believe it at first, but the rankings in the following exams came true.
After being shocked, he was discouraged and felt that he was destined to have a short life and no hopeless life.
Until he met Yungu Zen Master , the Zen Master said to him: "I will always say that I will be worthy of my life, and I will seek more blessings."
So, Yuan Liaofan began to work hard to do good deeds, cultivate himself and accumulate virtue, without any slacking off.
Later, he not only passed the imperial examination, but also had a child, and died in his seventies.
Heavenly Way is impermanent and destiny is unstable. As long as you accumulate virtue in your heart, you will have your own blessings and good luck.
- Humble and low-key
An old saying goes: "Fulling is easy to cause disaster, humility is always blessed."
html will lose money in April, and water is full, overflowing. If people are too full, they will not be able to keep their blessings.
Humble and low-key, lower your posture, and after a long time, blessings will naturally come.
When Zeng Guofan passed the imperial examination for , he was advised and supported by examiner Mu Zhanga .
Since then, he often handed over a message to Mu Zhang'a's mansion to ask for advice.
When he meets him in a sedan chair on the road, he will respectfully come down to pay homage to him and call him "teacher".
Later, even though he was the regent minister, he was humble to Mu Zhang Abdul and never surpassed it.
This not only made Zeng Guofan respected, but also was his secret to his long-lasting prosperity in the officialdom.
" Zhouyi " says: "Humility is the handle of virtue."
Humble and low-key people have outstanding moral character and will naturally have deep blessings and can achieve success.
- Tolerant and atmospheric
" Caigen Tan " says: "You must have tolerance, and virtue will be great."
People who care about everything and have a narrow mind are destined to be very lucky.
Tolerant and generous to others is to cultivate virtue and accumulate blessings for oneself. During the Three Kingdoms, after Zhuge Liang died, the Shu Kingdom was appointed as the prime minister and in charge of the government.
He has a subordinate named Yang Xi . He is introverted and not good at speaking.
Every time Jiang Wan talks to him about the matter, Yang Xi always returns silent.
Someone couldn't stand this matter and said to Jiang Wan: "Yang Xi is arrogant and rude, it's so inappropriate!"
But Jiang Wan was not dissatisfied, but believed that everyone has their own temper.
Therefore, Jiang Wan received more praise and admiration from people and was also called " Prime Minister can hold a boat in his belly ".
Ability can only win for a while; virtue can win for a lifetime.
Being a person with outstanding moral character, tolerance and grandeur will bring blessings!
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