Seeing acquaintances is a kind of empirical talk of the older generations, which is what Xiangyouxin said.
I think that the appearance mentioned here does not only refer to the external features of a person's five senses, but the spirit and spirit that radiates from the inside and outside.
In history, Zeng Guofan , who was hailed as the head of the four great Zhongxing ministers in the late Qing Dynasty, was particularly good at observing people, and his judgments were very accurate.
His friend Jiang Zhongyuan is a loyal man, and his character is honest. Zeng Guofan concluded that he will definitely make a difference in the future, and he will die.
Later, as expected, Jiang Zhongyuan was extremely brave in the battle with Taiping Heavenly Kingdom . He once severely damaged the Taiping Army in the Battle of Diyidu and killed the southern king of Taiping Heavenly Kingdom Feng Yunshan .
Later, when he was stationed in Luzhou, he was attacked by the Taiping Army and was unbearable to be captured.
Not only that, Zeng Guofan also summarized his own skills of observing and knowing people, and wrote a book called "Bingjian" which is widely respected by later generations.
Among them is the four-crossed mantra, which highly summarizes his experience in judging talents.
"Evil righteous looks at the eyes and nose, true and false with the lips; fame looks at spirit, wealth looks at spirit; ideas look at fingers and claws, storms look at hamstrings; if you want to see order, it’s all in language.”
It is precisely by virtue of this unique skill to compare people, Zeng Guofan discovered and employed a large number of talents.
such as Hunan Army Bao Chao, the first fierce fighter,The navy commanders Peng Yulin and Yang Zaifu were born in commoners, and later they all became the most powerful officials in frontiers.
Even today in the 21st century, we will find that in addition to the necessary assessment of the professionalism of job applicants, the interview process is also indispensable for employers in job recruitment.
If there is no distinction between professional skills, a person with a dignified appearance and a nasty-looking person, the employer will of course not hesitate to admit the former.
It can be seen that seeing acquaintances is not purely idealistic and superstition, but is based on long-term observations of people of various colors and obtained targeted conclusions.
So, what does the common saying "puffy face and blue beard can't be crossed, cheeks bend over without flesh"? Does it make sense?
It is very simple to understand literally. The pockmarked blue beard here should refer to a person with a fierce face; and a big bend with two cheeks should refer to a sinister and sinister heart.
I think this kind of view is by no means "facialization" taken for granted, but a hit to the nail on the head. People with pockmarked faces and blue beards are mostly born with full faces, hunky backs, rude behavior, ignorance of etiquette, recklessness, and a serious tendency to violence.
Back then, the famous gangsters in Shanghai enjoyed Zhang Xiaolin , who was as famous as Huang Jinrong and Du Yuesheng, and was well-known in old Shanghai for his good fights. After the Japanese invaders occupied Shanghai, Huang Jinrong and Du Yueche did not forget their national righteousness and refused to take up pseudo-posts in any case.
But Zhang Xiaolin was different. He thought it was time for him to become a gangster. He was willing to act as a traitor, slaying his life for the Japanese invaders, and became an unforgivable national sinner. He was finally eliminated by the patriotic righteous Lin Huaibu .
In real life,There are also hostile "puff-faced and blue-bearded" people who bully the good and run rampantly. Sooner or later, they will be self-destructive for many injustices, and they are cast aside and despised by the world.
For example, the "Brother Dragon" in the Kunshan anti-homicide case a few years ago can be called a typical "hemp face and blue beard". This man with a fierce face and tattoos like dragons and tigers bluffs people, and can compete with those young and Dangerous in Hong Kong.
may be habitually rampant, and will spread anger on others at every turn, especially the honest people who are unfaithful and honest. They do whatever they want, blindly fighting and fighting, but they don’t know that there are gods in their heads, and good and evil will eventually be rewarded. Commandments.
Generally speaking, normal people are unwilling to overlap with them. This kind of person is a horrible person who lives in the dark. But we have a family and a career, and we will inevitably look forward and backward in case of trouble. Who wants to wear new shoes and step on shit?
Therefore, it is better not to have any contact with those who are not good-looking, and do not seek each other in different ways, so as not to make friends carelessly and cause no mistakes.
And "two cheeks without flesh and big bend" is different from "puffed face and blue beard". This kind of person is kind on the surface, but they are secretly stumbled and trapped. If you don't pay attention, you will be caught by him. Calculate.
There is an idiom in history called "Kou honey belly sword", it is the story of Li Linfu , the prime minister of Emperor Xuanzong of Tang Dynasty. Sima Guang said in the "Trace to Zi Zhi Tong Jian":
"Youji literature scholars, or yang and goodness, succumb to the gloom with willingness. Li Linfu is said to have'honey in mouth, sword in belly'. "_P3p
Li Linfu is very good at disguising himself, and always shows others with humility. He is sincere and sincere when he turns around. Turning around is another face. The ruling and the opposition are afraid to avoid it.
To sum up, I think the saying, "Puffy face and green beard are not crossed, cheeks are not fleshy and bend over" is very reasonable, and there is no lack of the wisdom of the older generations, which is worth learning from. With reference.
What do you think about this?
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