When it comes to making friends, don't ignore traditional advice. But everyone is an individual, including you, which means you have a unique environment and opportunity. Pile 1: The first friend.

The basic formulas for friendship are proximity, time and intensity. When it comes to making friends, don't ignore traditional advice. But everyone is an individual, including you, which means you have a unique environment and opportunity.

You are attracted by this tarot card because the universe has a message about friendship for you. All you have to do is choose the bunch of cards that attract you the most.

After selecting the card, slide down to your card stack

Now let us figure out how to make friends.

stake 1: First friend

Friendship is difficult, but not impossible

In this case your first card is unfortunate, but I think it can explain a lot of your struggles. Here Scepter Nine Reversal means you have overcome the difficulties, but you did it alone. For me, it's a friendship card, as a reversal, and it shows that no one is standing behind you.

Maybe you have moved or have changed in your life and you naturally lose contact with your friends. Or something more unfortunate happened, such as consequences. The result is the same: you no longer feel like you are involved in your friend group as you used to.

When I see this card, I see a tendency to distrust others. You either think your friends will betray you or they can’t build intimate emotional bonds as you want. This will result in you not investing the right amount of energy into the new or existing relationships necessary to build lasting friendships.

Don't be in a bad mood. This is a fairly common phenomenon in the world, especially after the pandemic. This is actually an important reminder that many people are not "attracted" by existing groups of friends, but are willing to build new bonds. Like them, they are no longer used to making friends. So when it comes to social interactions, you don’t have to worry about not being able to do things “perfectly”.

There is a friend waiting for you outside

Luckily, when your second card is paired with your third card, it hints about a happy solution. Here Sword Nine Reversal means you will overcome your social anxiety.

You may find yourself worried, and may even be afraid to approach others. They won't like me , you think, or, I'm too weird to my friends .

Now I meet some very strange people. Blessing a otakus heart, but those strange birds have always been the weirdest people I have ever seen, but many of them have groups of friends or close relationships.

I think what you need is a tribe. Consider how others would describe you if you didn’t hide anything about you and then contact someone with these characteristics. Like books? Join a book club or online forum.

You can try to make friends online first. You may even want to join a local group related to the social media you are interested in and slowly work hard to meet your online friends.

You may take some time to feel comfortable, but I do think that if you try to find a like-minded soul, your fear will fade.

Friends of a lifetime

The last card you spread is Libra full moon, with the smart information of "prediction win-win results". This card makes me think your friend group or new friends will have a similar background to you in terms of social isolation.

This will create a bond that goes beyond your interests, which may create a friendship similar to family. Even if you are separated because of something like work, you can always contact them by phone or chat. Maybe even traveling together.

I do feel that for you, building this friendship is possible for your mental health. This may take some time, but once you start, you will find the process very beneficial.

stake 2: Second friend

Looking for best friend

When your first card is King of the Holy Grail , you may already have friends and want more, or you are looking for more emotional bonds than you currently have. This card is someone who has social skills in potentially dangerous waters.

Even if you don't realize this now, you have social traits that make you a good friend. This means you can go out and make friends with people who are completely strangers.

However, your spread is narrower in focus. Most kings have a queen and I feel like you are looking for a partner to share your life with.

This means you need to look inward and see what you have to offer in such a close friendship. Essentially, you are looking for a good friend who is like family to you.

But this relationship requires a lot of work. I think you can do this work, but when you start touching, you should be ready. You don't want a casual friend. You want a friendship that lasts a lifetime.

look around

your next card, Holy Grail 2, repeat this partnership with more details. For some of you, this friendship is best found in another important person. After all, the important partner is an equal person who may be moving all his life no matter where you go. If you haven't already, be your most important other person's best friend.

But if you are single, or you prefer a platonic best friend relationship, you need to consider whether this partnership will be a bit like a business contract. In fact, if you are going to be in any type of business, you should probably be your best friend with any partner you accept.

The key is that just like lovers on the card, your lives are closely connected. It will be difficult and painful to untie each other. When I say your best friends should be like family, I mean: Even if you have a fight with your family, you won't get out of them in most cases.

You should share something in common to restrain you, but make sure each of you has their own skills, which makes them particularly useful as partners. Marriage is best built on a common ground, but both parties tend to focus on what they manage. Consider the same problem for your best friend.

Maybe you will become the person who provides emotional labor and care, and your friends are logical people. This means that even if it looks like that, you don't want someone exactly the same as your .

Additionally, a platonic friendship or business partnership may be related to the opposite sex or the gender you are attracted to. Just make sure there is a clear line between romantic and platonic feelings!

Your friendly twins

Your last card is Gemini full moon, with the smart message of "The answer you need is coming". I think this card reiterates what other cards mean before, so let's discuss the wisdom message and how it relates to your future friendship.

Now, you don't have all the answers. You may not have considered the right approach, or there are still questions about what you should do. Overall, there is a chaotic atmosphere.

Gemini as a zodiac sign, likes to try the waters. While some people think their behavior is superficial, Gemini likes to determine something before committing to it. This broad vision may cause them to delay their actions for a while, but once they make a real decision, they won't quit.

I think the twins here symbolize your friendship. Now you feel that the existing friendship is not as deep as you want, or you haven't encountered "that". However, your future will not be alone, and within the next few months to a year, you will discover what you are going to do and who you are going to do with.

The basic formulas for friendship are proximity, time and intensity. When it comes to making friends, don't ignore traditional advice. But everyone is an individual, including you, which means you have a unique environment and opportunity.

You are attracted by this tarot card because the universe has a message about friendship for you. All you have to do is choose the bunch of cards that attract you the most.

After selecting the card, slide down to your card stack

Now let us figure out how to make friends.

stake 1: First friend

Friendship is difficult, but not impossible

In this case your first card is unfortunate, but I think it can explain a lot of your struggles. Here Scepter Nine Reversal means you have overcome the difficulties, but you did it alone. For me, it's a friendship card, as a reversal, and it shows that no one is standing behind you.

Maybe you have moved or have changed in your life and you naturally lose contact with your friends. Or something more unfortunate happened, such as consequences. The result is the same: you no longer feel like you are involved in your friend group as you used to.

When I see this card, I see a tendency to distrust others. You either think your friends will betray you or they can’t build intimate emotional bonds as you want. This will result in you not investing the right amount of energy into the new or existing relationships necessary to build lasting friendships.

Don't be in a bad mood. This is a fairly common phenomenon in the world, especially after the pandemic. This is actually an important reminder that many people are not "attracted" by existing groups of friends, but are willing to build new bonds. Like them, they are no longer used to making friends. So when it comes to social interactions, you don’t have to worry about not being able to do things “perfectly”.

There is a friend waiting for you outside

Luckily, when your second card is paired with your third card, it hints about a happy solution. Here Sword Nine Reversal means you will overcome your social anxiety.

You may find yourself worried, and may even be afraid to approach others. They won't like me , you think, or, I'm too weird to my friends .

Now I meet some very strange people. Blessing a otakus heart, but those strange birds have always been the weirdest people I have ever seen, but many of them have groups of friends or close relationships.

I think what you need is a tribe. Consider how others would describe you if you didn’t hide anything about you and then contact someone with these characteristics. Like books? Join a book club or online forum.

You can try to make friends online first. You may even want to join a local group related to the social media you are interested in and slowly work hard to meet your online friends.

You may take some time to feel comfortable, but I do think that if you try to find a like-minded soul, your fear will fade.

Friends of a lifetime

The last card you spread is Libra full moon, with the smart information of "prediction win-win results". This card makes me think your friend group or new friends will have a similar background to you in terms of social isolation.

This will create a bond that goes beyond your interests, which may create a friendship similar to family. Even if you are separated because of something like work, you can always contact them by phone or chat. Maybe even traveling together.

I do feel that for you, building this friendship is possible for your mental health. This may take some time, but once you start, you will find the process very beneficial.

stake 2: Second friend

Looking for best friend

When your first card is King of the Holy Grail , you may already have friends and want more, or you are looking for more emotional bonds than you currently have. This card is someone who has social skills in potentially dangerous waters.

Even if you don't realize this now, you have social traits that make you a good friend. This means you can go out and make friends with people who are completely strangers.

However, your spread is narrower in focus. Most kings have a queen and I feel like you are looking for a partner to share your life with.

This means you need to look inward and see what you have to offer in such a close friendship. Essentially, you are looking for a good friend who is like family to you.

But this relationship requires a lot of work. I think you can do this work, but when you start touching, you should be ready. You don't want a casual friend. You want a friendship that lasts a lifetime.

look around

your next card, Holy Grail 2, repeat this partnership with more details. For some of you, this friendship is best found in another important person. After all, the important partner is an equal person who may be moving all his life no matter where you go. If you haven't already, be your most important other person's best friend.

But if you are single, or you prefer a platonic best friend relationship, you need to consider whether this partnership will be a bit like a business contract. In fact, if you are going to be in any type of business, you should probably be your best friend with any partner you accept.

The key is that just like lovers on the card, your lives are closely connected. It will be difficult and painful to untie each other. When I say your best friends should be like family, I mean: Even if you have a fight with your family, you won't get out of them in most cases.

You should share something in common to restrain you, but make sure each of you has their own skills, which makes them particularly useful as partners. Marriage is best built on a common ground, but both parties tend to focus on what they manage. Consider the same problem for your best friend.

Maybe you will become the person who provides emotional labor and care, and your friends are logical people. This means that even if it looks like that, you don't want someone exactly the same as your .

Additionally, a platonic friendship or business partnership may be related to the opposite sex or the gender you are attracted to. Just make sure there is a clear line between romantic and platonic feelings!

Your friendly twins

Your last card is Gemini full moon, with the smart message of "The answer you need is coming". I think this card reiterates what other cards mean before, so let's discuss the wisdom message and how it relates to your future friendship.

Now, you don't have all the answers. You may not have considered the right approach, or there are still questions about what you should do. Overall, there is a chaotic atmosphere.

Gemini as a zodiac sign, likes to try the waters. While some people think their behavior is superficial, Gemini likes to determine something before committing to it. This broad vision may cause them to delay their actions for a while, but once they make a real decision, they won't quit.

I think the twins here symbolize your friendship. Now you feel that the existing friendship is not as deep as you want, or you haven't encountered "that". However, your future will not be alone, and within the next few months to a year, you will discover what you are going to do and who you are going to do with.

Then your commitment to friendship will look like this: You will travel together and learn new things together. This broad vision will be something you share, and because of this, you won't want to be separated from such a like-minded soul.

stake 3: The third friend

Past friends

Because your first card is Holy Grail Six , I feel you can make friends by reviewing. Maybe you have lost contact with old friends. The boys here are delivering flowers to the little girl in a safe, walled town.

I think this means you need to extend your olive branch and reconnect. This may be easier if you still live nearby, but if not, consider building an online pen pal with someone you have known before.

This can include close friends or acquaintances. After all, people grow and change over time, so you may only know that a little bit of people are more suitable for friends now than they were back then. This is especially true for people a few years younger than you.

I also want to point out this: If you move out, see if people in your hometown live nearby. This happens more than you think! If so, it might be worth it to meet for a cup of coffee or a cup and catch up. You'll be surprised at how difficult it is for people to make friends as adults, so this may be welcome.

Or, if someone reaches out to you and if you are reconnecting with an old friend, it is very likely, accept these advancements. Once you show an openness to friendship, more people in your past may also want to reconnect. You don't have to be friends with everyone, but adding them to your social media or having a short chat can be rewarding.

Note your friend

Your second card is Sword 4, reverse . I've always seen it as a wake-up card, and I feel two meanings here. The first is that you shouldn't sleep when you reconnect. The longer you wait, the further you will be from your old friends. Rebuilding a stagnant friendship may take some time, but the earlier you start, the better.

The second meaning is that you should beware of who brings into your life. People can get better, they can get worse. This may be simple because they will be busy with their own responsibilities and cannot build friendships, but it is also possible that the good guys of the past are not good for you now .

When spending time together, please make sure you have similar life values. If you were an alcoholic, it would be wrong to make friends with someone who only likes to drink. You also want to make sure your new friend is not guilty or otherwise unethical.

However, please note that "not good for you" may also be a difference in interests. Friendship in early life is often formed by proximity and narrow choices. Children and adolescents, especially, will choose them as a peer group that adults will never choose if they have a choice. But who else can hang out with them?

Make sure that people you choose to be friends again share what you can do together and you will all love it. However, if you are unsure, you can contact an interim meeting first. To some extent, it's kind of like a first date.

What you don't want to do is to log out something because of religious or political differences. As long as both of you respect each other’s beliefs and choose not to make it the focus of the debate, the common interests in other areas may be enough to form a strong and happy friendship.

You will close

your last card, Full Moon Eclipse , can be negative or positive. The wisdom message here is "conclusions are within reach."

Overall, I feel a closed energy. For some of you, making friends may be an end date. Maybe you will be together for a short time (but meaningful), or you will find out why this friendship is not destined.

This may also be a shattering of your past fantasies. A friendship or other relationship you're going through may not be what you really think, for better or worse.

It is difficult for me to determine the specific closed energy here, so maybe everyone who chooses this pile will be different. However, be aware of this: something you unexpected will reveal to you that it will change your past idyllic -like view in some form.

Our relationships when we were young are often shallower and fairer. By contacting adult relationships, you realize that friendships, including them, may be more complicated than you think. Complexity can also be beneficial.

This may also be a shattering of your past fantasies. A friendship or other relationship you're going through may not be what you really think, for better or worse.

It is difficult for me to determine the specific closed energy here, so maybe everyone who chooses this pile will be different. However, be aware of this: something you unexpected will reveal to you that it will change your past idyllic -like view in some form.

Our relationships when we were young are often shallower and fairer. By contacting adult relationships, you realize that friendships, including them, may be more complicated than you think. Complexity can also be beneficial.