"I want to be an astronaut"; "I want to be a scientist". These are the questions the teacher asked us in class when you were young. What do you want to do when you grow up? The simple and ignorant dreams are gradually forgotten by us when we grow up. Sometimes when you look at the success of others, you may also cast envious eyes...
In fact, each of us has ideals. , Has been achieved, or is working hard to achieve, and some have not been able to achieve, but it always represents our hope for the future. Ideals are beautiful, but the road to achieving them is tortuous.
There is nothing wrong with a down-to-earth life, but blindly admiring is useless. Each of us is unique. We don’t need to pursue other people’s lives too much. We just hope to make ourselves better.
What imprisoned you? Each
12 constellation has its own characteristics, and each has its own problems. So what are the problems that trap you and prevent you from becoming the better version of yourself? What are your shortcomings on the road to achieve your ideals?
fire sign
Aries Leo Sagittarius
Keywords: ideals are full, reality is very skinny
fire signs are characterized by passion, strong action, and always full of beautiful visions for reality. It is these characteristics that lead to fire People with zodiac signs are too idealistic. To put it seriously, they are too naive and think about everything too well. Although you have enthusiasm, persistence, and courage, you must always be based on reality. Reality, that wish will fall apart.
We often see some people give up a stable job to pursue a life they are more interested in. In fact, most people are of fire signs. You will also see that they may return to work after a period of time, and their ideals did not succeed.
You will find that people with fire signs often have a lot of big and empty ideals, but such ideals can't be implemented. It just matches the sentence: ideals are full, reality is very skinny. When they pull away to do something, they often fall into an embarrassing situation and find it difficult to deal with themselves.
Warm tips: first set a small realistic goal
because you lack purpose when you do a lot of things, often too blind, imagine too beautifully, and lack detailed plans. Everything must be based on reality. It is not enough to rely on your own blood. You also need your feet on the ground.
recommends to make your goals smaller, or to be more realistic, and complete one small goal at a time. The completion of each small goal will make you want to dream one step closer, which is easier to motivate you to persevere.
Earth signs
Taurus Virgo Capricorn
Keywords: often addicted to the comfort zone
Earth signs and fire signs are completely from two different worlds, their personalities are just opposite. People with earth signs are very stable. They work very hard and work hard. They are generally able to endure hardship and can stand loneliness. Therefore, it is easy for us to see a person with an earth sign who has been cultivating in a certain position or industry for many years, until he has a little achievement in a field, but always feels that he is a little bit close to his own wishes.
Actually, the problem with the existence of earth signs is that it is easy to be immersed in the comfort zone that you give yourself, because you understand your own characteristics, but because you know yourself too much, you are also too conservative and do nothing. cautious.
The comfort zone you are used to will make you feel safe and at ease, so you will suddenly find yourself in a bottleneck at a certain period of time and it is difficult to break through.
Warm tips: increase the difficulty of the game, jump out of the comfort zone
Actually you may just be used to the challenge of the current normal mode, it is better to try to increase the difficulty of the game. You may be a little uncomfortable at the beginning, but with your perseverance, it will not be difficult for you to overcome difficulties.
You only need to take a step forward, and then develop your career within the scope of that step, so that you will have new development and achievements. Adapted to this process of increasing the difficulty, you will find that your bottleneck period is very goodOh.
wind sign
Gemini Libra Aquarius
Keywords: Win at the starting point, lose at the end
The wind sign is the one who lacks ideas in the twelve signs and is very smart. You have a wide range of hobbies and strong learning abilities. In many cases, you can get twice the result with half the effort. When
was young in the class, people with wind signs tended to have better grades. When we first entered the workplace, we would also find that people with wind signs can quickly adapt to their positions and various positions. Claim. However, people with wind signs often feel powerless in the later stages, and often change jobs or change industries before they have fully utilized their energy.
You lack motivation and endurance. For example, you will have some trivial feelings when you have just achieved a little achievement, or you want to give up when you encounter a little setback, and lose the patience to continue fighting. Your very good innate advantages make it easy for you to become the bunny in the tortoise and the hare. At the beginning, you were in the lead, but because of various factors, you were lazy, playful, or simply went to other tracks. In the end, you find that the tortoise, who has no advantage, is slowly catching up with you and achieving good results.
Warm tips: Always keep the spirit of competition
Pursue an ideal is a competition that accompanies people for a lifetime. You have the ability and talent, but at the same time, you have to work harder to match your talent. Just thinking about it is not It may be successful.
You must always remember to not forget your original intention, be vigilant, be more patient, be more active, be more persistent, and have more competitive spirit. You will easily succeed. Always remind yourself that you are still in this game, the finish line has not yet arrived, you still need to work harder!
water sign
Cancer Scorpio Pisces
Keywords: Looking forward and backward, if you don’t advance, you will retreat
People with water signs are good at insight into people's hearts, very careful thinking, and also good at discovering details. You have a sense of proportion in your work, and if you don't go ahead, you won't be happy. You are very good planners in the crowd. Many water signs around me are often late bloomers. People with
water signs will accept the feelings of people around you and the environment, so you will be sensitive, overly self-protection and confidentiality. Resoluteness is an important quality that you lack. When you encounter opportunities, you will often look forward and backward, fearful and fearful. You need a long time to sort out all the pros and cons of things, but the opportunity is fleeting, and you won’t be waiting for you. .
The success or failure of a battle requires your wisdom and the courage to break the boat. When the east wind comes, it depends on whether you can catch it.
Warm tips: when you should shoot
Courage and motivation are two different things, everything has its two sides, as long as you do enough preparations in advance, you can grab it without hesitation when the opportunity comes. For example: if you want to be a singer, then you have to prepare for this wish, use your time to learn, enrich yourself, and improve your abilities. Suddenly one day, when a group of like-minded friends find you to play music together, you can readily agree, because you already have sufficient level and ability, all you have to do is to seize the opportunity and when it is time to make a move Just shot it. But whether it is to enrich yourself or do a good job of mental construction, you need to do it in an orderly life.
