Who is at odds with you?

There are two kinds of people in this world. One kind fits with oneself and can become a confidant, and the other one is not pleasing to the eye anyway. , And getting along with such a person, every day is in dire straits.

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But have you discovered that when looking for a partner, not all people are looking for people who are in line with their own thoughts and words and deeds? Why do some people still have very good friends with a small noise for three days and a big noise for five days?

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This is not because I am too comfortable, but I want to find someone to quarrel; the mystery of this is actually closely related to everyone's eight characters!

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What can motivate us to establish a foothold in this society is not only dependent on our gains from reading more than ten years of books The professional abilities that come, the more important one, still depends on the inner core abilities.

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What are the core capabilities?

is a person’s attitude towards others, such as being serious and responsible for work, sincere and trusting in communicating with others, expressive ability and communication ability, etc. Among these core abilities, there is no absolute good or bad, only face to face In the real environment, it can reflect the applicability of these abilities, that is, these abilities are relative, not absolute.

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Have you found it? The core competence I am talking about is actually our Bazi.

Look at the following picture first:

The core ability of a person who is official to kill Wang is that he is very responsible and serious about his work. Responsible; those who are prosperous with food injuries have good expression skills, dare to work hard, and speak out; those in Yinwang value the spiritual level and have superior thinking ability; those who are prosperous in Caiwang value reality and are very sensitive to money.

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To look at these characteristics separately, each is the core ability required by human beings, but when these core abilities are arranged and combined in different people according to their characteristics, it creates differences for each person Sex, uniqueness; and human beings are social animals, so all kinds of interpersonal relationships have arisen.

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The picture shows the schematic diagram of the eight characters and the interpersonal relationship. The two sides of the arrow correspond to mutual restraint and conflict, and the parallel up and down represent higher consistency.

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For example, if a person who suffers from food injuries chooses to be with the official killer, it can be foreseen that the quarrel between the two will be inevitable, but if they choose to accompany the person from Yinwang , Both people have a casual and flexible side, and the conflict will naturally decrease a lot. However, is this our criterion for finding a partner?

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I mentioned at the beginning of the article that not everyone will only look for people who are similar to their personalities.

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The two characters with the opposite arrows in the figure, in addition to expressing mutual restraint, often also mean that it is the most attractive combination. The reason is simple: the two things conflict with each other because Each has completely different characteristics, and each other has what the other does not. Isn't this the so-called complementarity?

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Yes, we are more attracted to different people than people who are exactly the same as ourselves. People often refer to their partners as the "other half" because they are not perfect, so looking for the other half is also to make up for the shortcomings in life.

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Of course, for the other half’s choice, everyone has a different idea. Some people don’t like collisions in life, or want to be with people who have the same values ​​as themselves. Be attracted by people with more consistent personalitylead.

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It seems that the pursuit of complementarity and stimulation, or stability and peace, is based on personal tendencies. This is why there is a saying among the people, "Pretty girls are suitable for girlfriends, A demure girl is suitable to be a wife", because the former pursues excitement and freshness, while the latter emphasizes eternity and stability. Although it is a stereotype of the older generation, they all have a certain relationship with the Bazi.

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Different horoscopes shape the differences of people. We learn horoscopes, and what we will eventually learn is tolerance and understanding of human nature: no horoscope is absolutely good or bad, just like nothing Any set of horoscopes is absolutely compatible or incompatible.

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When we have a good understanding of the Bazi system, we will naturally adjust our eyes on interpersonal relationships. It is both self-centered and self-centered. Getting along, you must eventually return to the word "respect." No matter whether the partner you finally choose is consistent with your own personality or complementary, only by respecting the other half as an independent individual can this relationship be possible. It takes a long time.

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Those who choose to be together in the end no matter how noisy they are, they just respect each other and appreciate each other. The interpersonal relationship is so wonderful, as long as both parties have the right attitudes, there will be no absolute disagreement!

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