What deep secrets does Gemini hide in relationships?
Many people may think that Gemini is a very optimistic, chic, and positive person. I can tell you clearly that this is not the case. Gemini is not a positive person from beginning to end. All his positivity, all his chic, all his optimism are because his thinking changes quickly, so he has strong self-healing ability.
However, strong self-healing ability definitely does not mean that Gemini is very active. On the contrary, Gemini is a very passive sign and can easily fall into depression. If you come into contact with more Geminis, you will find that Geminis have limited patience with many people and things. They especially don't like trouble, troublesome people and things, and they even annoy other people's ink. Once you ink for a long time, you will find it troublesome, and then Gemini will avoid others.
Tell me how a person who is so afraid of trouble can be a positive person? That's why I say that Geminis are particularly prone to depression. Although they are basically fine after sleeping the next day, Geminis can really be depressed intermittently, with intermittent mood swings. This is why Geminis are prone to hot and cold in a relationship.
Because once Gemini is depressed, it will be difficult to control their emotions. The biggest concession is not to lose their temper with you. They want to be alone, but it is really difficult to ignite enthusiasm and have a sustained, stable and happy state to make the other person feel stable.
Several Geminis I know are like this. When they are in an optimistic mood, they feel that the whole world is full of light and the world is full of true love. When facing the person you like, you can say that you believe in love extremely firmly, and you are even willing to go through fire and water for love. You can clearly feel this power when you are around him.
But the difficult part is that once they fall into pessimism, they will be instantly shrouded in the shadow of reality. They will think that they are the loneliest in the world, but they are powerless in the face of this loneliness, and they will become very depressed and do not believe in love. And there are not many people in this pessimistic state, so it is difficult to give the other party a sense of stability.
Why I emphasize the loneliness of Gemini is because the loneliness of Gemini is a loneliness that others cannot understand at all. They feel that no one in this world understands themselves, no one understands themselves, and no one truly belongs to them. You said that for a zodiac sign with this kind of loneliness, can he not fall into depression?
Some friends may say: Gemini feels that no one can understand him, so why don’t I try my best to understand him? I can tell you responsibly, don’t try to guess the hearts of Geminis. One is because Gemini himself doesn't understand himself at all. Do you think you can guess him? Secondly, what do you think you are going to guess? Maybe you are still guessing why Gemini was unhappy in the morning. His brain circuit has been turned back and forth several times, and his attention has long been turned to other things. You guess that these have no meaning at all.
So for Gemini, what you need to do is not to guess, but to understand, understand why he thinks one thing, understand why his emotions have ups and downs, and why he has a split personality. You don’t need to understand the reason, it’s enough to express your understanding.
Because don't forget, Gemini will always be a person who can completely ignore being hurt, but will burst into tears when being understood.
