Cancers like this are the ones who are really angry.
Many people have the impression that Cancers are gentle and considerate, soft-hearted, uncontested, and have a good temper.
It is true that Cancers are soft-hearted, and it is also true that Cancers are aloof from the world, but people who know Cancer will never think that Cancer has a good temper. On the contrary, Cancer is a sign that is not easy to mess with.
If you have really gotten along with a Cancer and reached a certain degree of intimacy, you will know that Cancer is actually a more emotional sign, and it is very difficult to deal with when you are in a bad mood. Because Cancer usually treats people they are not close to through social interactions, and they won't show much emotion unless they treat you as one of their own.
In other words, the more polite a Cancer is to someone, the less they treat you as one of their own. On the contrary, if you feel that Cancer will mess with you once every ten days and a half, it means that Cancer has officially accepted you.
Based on this, you can know that in the process of falling in love with a Cancer, you cannot avoid having to bear his little emotions, because Cancer is essentially a water sign . It naturally needs others to give it a sense of security. If it cannot get a sense of security, it will have random thoughts. So for the person in the intimate relationship, Cancer will rarely digest itself, but will use the method of losing temper and emotions to test out the other person's true thoughts.
Generally, a Cancer loses his temper with you, starting with a strange yin and yang, alternating between hot and cold, and ending with being blocked and deleted. But you must understand that as long as the temper is caused by a lack of security, it is not really a Cancer. You just need to let him find someone to blame. The feeling of caring, let him get the sense of security he wants, and Cancer will come back to you.
On the other hand, if you don't know how to restrain yourself and understand Cancer's little thoughts when Cancer has lost his temper, it will definitely speed up Cancer's departure from you.
Because Cancer is gentle and soft-hearted, you can also understand it as a way for them to pursue convenience in dealing with others, so that they can get along well with others quickly, but you should have also heard that gentleness is like a knife. This sentence is perfect to describe Cancer. If you study Cancer carefully, you will know that they are very hard on the inside. It seems that emotion comes first and they can't live without love. In fact, they are more sober and restrained than anyone else. They are fragile and glass-hearted on the surface, but deep down they are determined and thoughtful.
Cancer's real anger never comes out once, but is accumulated from many disappointments. When he still has hope in a relationship, Cancer's little emotions can be regarded as a test for you. If you have keen senses and strong insight, can catch his little emotions in time, and take the initiative to calm his inner uneasiness, Cancer is actually very easy to coax.
But if you always let down Cancer, you will find that Cancer is different, because Cancer's real anger is always quiet, there is no quarrel, no warning, maybe there is a warning, but Cancer may have given you many opportunities. If you still ignore it, then he will gradually cool down in the center of disappointment again and again. Then you will suddenly find that one day Cancer will no longer have emotional ups and downs towards you, and there will be a sense of politeness and inexplicable alienation when you get along. That is a sign that Cancer is really angry, and it is also a sign that he is about to stay away from you.
Although Cancer looks like a child when he smiles, he is really a mystery when he is cold, so if you want to be with Cancer for a long time, you must correctly interpret Cancer's little emotions.
