Today I saw a saying: Neighbors don’t pay two or four, and I don’t lend them to four. I think it’s strange. What kind of neighbors cannot make friends with? What kind of neighbors cannot lend them to others? What happens if you borrow it?
Yaoyue carefully checked and found that the truth was like this. What the ancestors said was really right.
Neighbors do not interfere with
1 "Broken mouth" person
You may have heard a saying: This person's mouth is really broken.
means that this person likes to say everything, and likes to inquire about other people's privacy and then spreads it to you everywhere.
When encountering such a neighbor, be careful.
Something happened to anyone in the family is definitely not going to let outsiders know, and they watch jokes every day.
, you need to be careless and make friends with such neighbors.
Nothing can be hidden in the family.
Today said that your family bought this and that, how much money it would cost, which would make people jealous;
Tomorrow, your son is looking for a wife, it is not good-looking at all.
Sometimes even a good thing can make it pass to you as bad.
So this kind of "broken mouth" neighbor is very scary.
Everyone should be careful to distinguish.
has a sufficient distance from her, even if she offends her because of this, she will do whatever she wants.
2 "No virtue" person
There is a kind of neighbor who lacks quality. I borrow this from you today, and it depends on your objection; I will take the one from your house tomorrow.
The old saying goes, there is a loan and a return, and it is not difficult to borrow again. But they only borrowed, but did not repay.
There are also some, which are because they have many bad habits, such as smoking, drinking, swearing, etc. If you get close to these people, you and your children will easily be subtly affected.
As the saying goes, "Those who are close to red are red, and those who are close to ink are black."
Many children are so badly led by bad neighbors.
So if there are these two types of people in the neighbors, you should stay away from them and don’t make friends.
Things Four Do Not Borrow
1 Crib
1 Crib
The crib is living in the hope of a home.
Many people think that their children are out of use, and they are also free, so it is better to lend them to their neighbors.
From a practical point of view, cribs also have a shelf life.
If you lend the bed to someone else, it may not be that there is any sign of loose screws on the bed. It is very likely that the borrower and the person who used it will not notice it. By then, the bed will break up and hurt other people's children, and the two families will become enemies.
And in terms of fortune, the crib more or less carries some family fortune. If you lend your fortune to others, it will be not good for children and families.
2 Crutch for casual use
This is because crutch has another symbol, that is power. This is how the word
Scepter comes from.
is like a costume drama. Although some people do not have legs and feet, they still use a crutch, because this represents the status of the owner.
In ancient times, when men from aristocratic families would use very high crutches when they went out, and the crutches were very gorgeous.
When you arrive, the crutch must be handed over to his son or confidant for temporary storage.
There are even adults who scare children, saying that they will really become limp when they are leaning on crutches.
So crutches have many meanings among the people. They are private items and are not suitable for lending to others.
3 Pig Killing Killing Killing
In ancient times, there was a woman who borrowed a pig Killing Killing Killing Killing Killing Killing with her neighbor. That night, my husband came back drunk again, and the woman was angry and thought that she had done all the work at home, and her husband was drunk and beat her, and she felt angry.
Pull up the pig's knife and stab my husband to death.
The government decided that the murder weapon belonged to the neighbor's house, so he arrested the neighbor for interrogation, believing that he and the woman were accomplices.
Although the neighbor was not in prison later, he also lost some money because of it.
Therefore, my ancestors believed that it is best not to lend sharp items like the Pig Killing Knife to others.
Because you don’t know what others will use it for, once something bad happens, it will be difficult for you to get out of touch.
Even if it is accidentally injured, it is not clear.
4 Medicine jar
After boiling the medicine, we clean it ourselves, but it is difficult to guarantee that we will wash it clean.
And the medicine jar is easy to have residue.
Many Chinese medicines cannot be put together, and even some pregnant women and the elderly cannot contact special medicines.
Once you have a conflicting medicine in the jar of medicine, it will lent it to others, and it will harm people.
So most elderly people know that medicine jars cannot be borrowed.
Many proverbs and phrases have been passed down among the people of our country. They are lessons learned after many years of personal experience.
The ancestors summarized them and passed them on from generation to generation.
And there is a lot of wisdom here.
People want to avoid misfortune, and borrowing things to others may cause unnecessary trouble if you are not careful.
So we should learn with a humble attitude towards our ancestors summarizing the wisdom of thousands of years.
Do you think it makes sense that "neighbors don't pay two, and don't borrow four things"? Welcome to leave your opinion.
I am Yaoyue, a little woman who deeply cultivates historical stories. I hope to meet you in the vast river, never leave you, never give up!
