In life, there are always some people around us who are considered to be miserable people. Their fate seems to be always under special care from God and they are always struggling to survive. Some people's hardships are short-lived, and after several hardships, they finally get out of the predicament. However, some people's hardships accompany their lives, facing the teasing of fate repeatedly. In fact, no one’s true life is hard. The reason why people feel miserable is probably because they have the following three characteristics.
Feature 1. Snowy face
Some people are frowning all day long, with their faces full of bitter words. It seems that nothing can interest it, and it seems that people all over the world owe them. When they meet, they face each other with bitter faces; when they work with others, they always look sad; when others have happy events, they cannot see their smiles; when others are sad, they aggravate the sad atmosphere. Just imagine, who would want to see a face with deep grudges every day, and who would want to live in a dull and painful atmosphere every day. Over time, the people around him stay away from these people. No one wants to date it, and no one wants to work with it. In the end, I lost my friends, lost my job, and my life was left with endless pain. This seems to be the injustice of fate and the fate of a miserable person, but in fact it is all because of the sad face that cannot be changed.
Feature 2. Endless complaints
There must be such a type of people around you, and they always complain constantly when encountering any difficulties. When you encounter a traffic jam, you sigh and complain; when you encounter overtime arranged by the unit, you are full of complaints; during peak hours, there are many people in the elevator, and they are also mumbling; if you encounter some ups and downs in your life, you will be endless and endless sighs. Are you willing to live, work and cooperate with such people? They always look at problems with a pessimistic attitude, and always firmly believe that fate will not be able to get along with them, so they do not try to change, but sit and wait for death. Sometimes when collective difficulties are encountered, their role is to over-describe the difficulties and make the team lose confidence. When everyone first saw the dawn, they were always the one who poured cold water on it. This type of person cannot get along well with others, so how good can life be?
Feature 3. Blindly comparing
As the saying goes, people compare people and people have to die, and goods have to be thrown away. If there is comparison, there is a gap. Only by reasonably comparing and seeing the gap can people make progress. It's a good thing in itself. But in life, many people often suffer from blind comparisons. There is no harm without comparison. Often after comparison, the damage is too deep and it is deeply in pain. When I see other people's beautiful women, I want to pursue them, but I ignore their background and family background. I see that others live a leisurely life every day, and I want to copy them one by one, but I never think that there is a mine at home and I don't have to worry about eating and drinking. In this way, worries come from blind comparison. Comparison causes self-harm, and the harm also makes him a miserable person in his eyes.
Everyone is indeed born with a different destiny. Some were born in wealthy families, while others were born in remote areas. At the beginning of fate, everyone will get a different card. The process of life actually lies in how to play the bad deck in your hand. If you change the above three characteristics, you will believe that all suffering will be short-lived and all pain will have an end.
I am Nick Mortal, and I will take you to understand life and feel life every day.
