"It is difficult to become a man without being poor, and he has never been able to fight against the innocent; since ancient times, heroes have been in purgatory, and have always been rich and noble into the mortal world." This is an unknown ancient poem that Zeng Guofan likes very much, revealing us how a person succeeds and how to gain wealth in life wisdom.
After experiencing poverty, talents are more sensible; after suffering blows, talents are more mature. All heroes who can accomplish great things have experienced the baptism of purgatory. Glory and wealth do not mean being superior, but need to work hard in the world to have true nobility.
As the saying goes, "If you want to live and be rich, you must work hard." The auspicious signs in life are just beautiful wishes in people's hearts. Success and wealth will never fall from the sky, but are the result of hard work.
Only when we make the right life choices can we get noble favor. If a person has these four signs, it is often the beginning of nobility, and one is also a sign of happiness.
1. Richness brings wealth
. If a person wants to become rich from poverty, of course, it is inseparable from hard work. Life is a path full of competition. Every point of success you have achieved is something that surpasses others.
But it is not enough to be diligent in life. If you hurt others' interests and offend others without knowing it in the process of competition, you will not only not have good luck, but you will even cause trouble.
When we are in society, harmony is crucial. Many people do not fail because of their own abilities, but because they are impatient in doing things. If you lose your temper when you encounter a bad situation, blame others when you encounter setbacks, and often have disputes with others, even if you work hard, it will be difficult to achieve anything.
Nan Huaijin Master said: "A calm mind, harmony will lead to good fortune; a restless mind will lead to impatience." Whether in good times or bad times in life, calm mind will always be more useful than restlessness. It is said that harmony is the most important thing. If you can treat others with kindness, this is a good sign of wealth and honor. Congratulations.
2. The key is to be open-minded and atmospheric
Although a person is very rich, he attaches too much importance to money and uses money to weigh the pros and cons in everything. Such people can be said to be profit-oriented and will also be petty when doing things for a little bit of profit. No matter how rich he is, he will not be respected by others and will only be accused of being rich and unkind.
After a person is rich, he has no material lacking. If he still wants to have nobleness, he must pursue it from a spiritual level. The highest state in life is actually tolerating what ordinary people cannot tolerate and forgive what ordinary people cannot forgive.
As a human being, you can take it and let it go. Don’t keep your worries in your heart, don’t keep your grievances in your mouth. Forgive others’ faults if you can, and don’t blame them too much. Although this can sometimes suffer a small loss, it can win people's hearts.
As the saying goes, "Suffering losses is a blessing." Being willing to suffer losses is not a fool, because when dealing with people, you would rather suffer losses yourself than protect the interests of others, so that everyone is willing to date you. The more friends you have, the more opportunities for success you will have, so that you will have good luck in life. When you have a good reputation, you will be respected and your nobleness will arise naturally.
3. Quietly and harmoniously
Why are the few people who can succeed in this world? Because most people in the world are too impetuous. When you encounter a little setback in your life, you want to give up; when things get a little better, you are eager for quick success and instant benefits. This idea of hoping for quick success in everything is actually caused by the utilitarian psychology.
Without efforts, how can we talk about gains; without accumulation, how can we achieve success. It is the most superficial behavior to try everything briefly. If a person is always eager to succeed and acts impatiently, he cannot even do small things well, and of course, it is even more impossible to achieve big things.
Zhuge Liang said: "Be indifferent and clear your ambitions, be quiet and far-reaching." This is the truth that quietness can produce wisdom. When a person becomes indifferent, he can stay away from all kinds of troubles and temptations.When a person reaches peace, he can focus on doing things and make achievements as soon as possible. But just being calm and making yourself successful is not considered noble.
"Every time you have a calm mind." This is the moral of Zeng Guofan in his letter to remind his family's children. A person's nobleness must withstand the tempering and painful tests of setbacks. If you can remain as motionless as a mountain in the event of a change, you can be calm in adversity. To achieve this state of calmness, you will be able to be harmonious and noble will arise naturally.
4. Goodness is self-contained
In addition to using calmness to deal with the world, a person must also have kindness to be a person. This is a state that is more difficult to achieve than being calm. As the saying goes, "Don't do evil because it is small, and don't do good because it is small." This is a good advice left by our ancestors to persuade the world. Why do we remind the world like this? It is because many people make such mistakes.
It is actually very easy to make a person not do bad things, because everyone understands that no matter how small a bad thing affects, it will bring us disasters, so everyone can restrain themselves from doing it. The most difficult thing in life is actually doing good deeds, because doing good deeds may not bring us benefits, so many people are indifferent to good deeds.
It is actually very simple to have good fortune in life. "If a person wants to live a good life, he must do more good things, less wrong things, and not bad things." This is the advice of Master Hongyi to the world, and it is worth learning from.
As the saying goes, "If you do evil, heaven will repay you with disaster; if you do good, heaven will repay you with blessings." A kind person is willing to lend a helping hand when others encounter difficulties. This is a very valuable thing. Although we do good deeds not to get rewards, others will definitely be grateful for your efforts, and we will be respected and have good popularity. This is the beginning of nobility.
concluding remarks.
Hingyun Master once warned the world: "Poverty is hard to endure desolation, and wealth does not know how to work." This sentence reveals to us the true meaning of poverty and wealth in life.
No one is willing to live a poor and hard life every day, and this is inevitable that he will live a very desolate life. Therefore, we all yearn for a wealthy life in our hearts, hoping to succeed one day. Not only do we enjoy all the glory and wealth, we must also have no worries about food and clothing from now on.
Wealth, wealth, wealth, wealth does not have to ask others for help, the key is that you do not have to bow your head to others for mercy. So grasping harmony and grandeur is a good sign of the arrival of noble spirit in life. Let’s see if you have done it?
