This is another new series. In this series, we plan to discuss what the most difficult thing we need to overcome when falling in love with the twelve zodiac signs, that is, the problem they are most likely to show in love. Since we have come up with it, it must be a problem that can be solved through everyone's communication and running-in, or a non-fatal problem. What I hope can also provide you with some practical and operational references.
Then we first exclude the issue of "xx zodiac sign is a scumbag/female, and dogs don't talk about it." It is what I have repeatedly emphasized that whether you are a good partner in love is actually not much related to the constellation. There are indeed some constellations that are not stable in relationships, or are easily tempted, or are hesitant in love, but maybe in your relationship, he may abuse you, and in another relationship he will be abused. As for those who deliberately cheat and pupai partners in everyone's accusations, I really have no choice but to persuade everyone to run away quickly. So the premise of this series is to talk about it with all your heart, how can you still say some small complaints in the mood?
The zodiac sign we are going to talk about today, I have received a lot of the same reviews - everything is OK, but love is not OK. I don’t know if you can guess their name directly, that is Capricorn. However, whether this is possible depends on what dimension you are from. If you only look at the maintenance results, I think Capricorn is quite good. At least most of the Capricorns I know talk about very stable relationships, unless the other party really wants to break up, Capricorn himself is really a rock-solid existence. Even if there are many problems in this relationship, Capricorns basically prefer to be tolerant if they can tolerate it, and a little bit of sweetness can last for a long time. People who usually say that Capricorns "cannot do it" simply think that they are too rational, calm, and not good at expressing themselves, and do not get very enthusiastic emotional experiences from Capricorns. But Capricorn itself is actually a person with a lot of inner dramas and is not born with emotional deficiencies. There are many emotional gaps hidden in their rationality. This is what my title today means. When you fall in love with Capricorn, you must learn to find this gap and successfully get in.
In fact, it is precisely because of Capricorn's rationality and restraint that the relationship with Capricorn can be relatively stable. After all, passion is something that dissipates when the wind blows. This should be regarded as the biggest advantage of falling in love with Capricorns.
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and Capricorn fall in love with you
- If you are thinking about finding someone to work with you to create a better life, to be specific, you need to find someone to manage your family and accumulate wealth, Capricorn is one of the best choices. They are indeed little experts in suffering and are very motivated, and there are few complaints. They dare to give first and wait for the harvest. Even if the process is long and difficult, they can do everything for the beautiful fruit.
- If you are a person with strong personality dependence, Capricorn is also one of the most reliable choices. Anyone who is willing to listen to Capricorn will really enjoy making arrangements for you. Whether it is a person who needs a guide to the direction or a person who works hard in big events, Capricorn's love can be called a mountain of love for parents.
- cannot find people who work harder than Capricorn among the twelve zodiac signs. They are of the same type as Virgo. They not only work hard on their own, but also supervise the people around them to work hard together, live hard, study hard, and make money harder, and even lose weight harder than others. Capricorn is the blessing of lazy people. Capricorns recognize that those who live together will truly regard you as a community of shared destiny.
- can control your emotions very well. You don’t have to worry about losing control and bloody things happening when you are with Capricorn. He has room for discussion and calm talk about everything, and he is a very decent person.
- social circle is very small, and feelings will only focus on a small number of people, and will not make the partner worried.Feelings are really long-lasting and will value commitment. Choosing Capricorn is equivalent to choosing a stable and peaceful life. There may be a lack of romantic routines, but they are all really good.
- is very independent and has strong problem solving ability. It rarely causes trouble for others, and even rarely brings burden to others emotionally. It can stand alone in any aspect.
- The probability of them becoming successful people is very high.
- is born with a gentle and convincing reliable temperament, and his taste is not bad, but he is not the kind of person who is very ostentatious and powerful, so it makes people feel very comfortable to get along with.
Actually, I think that maintaining rationality in mature feelings is a very important part, and it is also a way to make people get along more comfortable and stable with others. However, Capricorns are doing a bit too extreme in this regard, leaving too small gaps for themselves and beings. Especially for people who don’t have a lot of emotional experience, or are still young, or are anxious, it is indeed a difficult problem - complaining and warning . If you are in love with Capricorns, you may have to endure:
Focus on things and not pay attention to people
I asked people around me about their feelings and got two completely different opinions. One is that Capricorns are too dull and do not understand what romance is. Not only do they not take the initiative to be romantic, but they also have no response to the romantic expressions of their partners. They are unreliable people with love. Another way is that Capricorns are too slippery (especially Capricorn men), and they open their mouths when they are intimate and coax people. They even show some rash behavior when the relationship is not that close, and they seem to be very comfortable with their feelings. I think it's really just a look. Capricorn cannot go to the stage where they are at ease with their feelings. In this world, only emotions can stump Capricorns. Anyway, there are two extremes, either they look particularly good or they look very good. But don't blame me for laughing at Capricorns. No matter how Capricorns look on the surface, they essentially don't, because they often only focus on what they want to do and are not good at observing other people's performance.
Specifically, Capricorns are easy to programmatically pose for love. For example, if they want to pursue someone hard, they really work hard, try their best, and learn from past failures, and learn from the surrounding environment, summarize the set of methods of chasing people, and then use them all on their own objects. Most of them are overworked. It is true that humans have some commonalities in their emotions, and they also have some common routines that can be applied to all over the world. However, humans are complex, and everyone's preferences, acceptance, and reactions are also different. Capricorns will only finish a whole set of punches. It can be said that they are very attentive, but it may not be correct. If the other party’s feedback is not within Capricorn’s expectations, Capricorn will be confused and don’t know what to do. They always treat their feelings by doing things. I made these efforts and in theory what reactions should I get, but I don’t know that humans cannot calculate.
If the other party agrees to me, Capricorn can easily enter a state where the relationship has been settled. Since our affairs have been settled, I will have to work on other things. Therefore, it is very easy to feel a sense of gap when falling in love with Capricorn. It seems that Capricorn calmed down overnight. In fact, it is not that Capricorn fall in love with others, or no longer loves them. They just think that my efforts at this stage should be enough. This is how Capricorn’s thinking pattern is. Their learning process relies on the accumulation of experience, not on intuition and instinct, so it is easy to miss some changes in details. To put it bluntly, Capricorns cannot say bad things to their partner. Many times they try their best, but they all take it for themselves and rarely observe the other party’s needs. They always feel that I have done what I should do well, and the other party will definitely be satisfied.Everyone’s needs and emotional changes at each stage actually need to be understood. It is not that there are fixed things to do at every stage of the relationship, just finish it.
You should understand nothing and naturally understand
You should say that Capricorns are rational. In terms of emotions, they have a very contrary side to reason - they are very bad at it, and even resist communication with people. They feel that there is nothing to explain anything. If we are all the people, you will definitely understand. If we were not the same person, we would naturally separate, and then new people who understood me would join us. Taking the time to explain some misunderstandings is really inefficient.
Capricorn's calmness has caused Capricorn to suffer a lot, and for those who fall in love with Capricorn, it is really very torture. "Not talking" is a test, and every time you communicate with Capricorn is a test of tacit understanding between you, can you not be under a lot of pressure? Capricorns will be very ashamed to say that they are good to others. For example, when you are dating Capricorn, they may be very busy. They need not touch the ground water during the day and do not drink a sip in order to get off on dates with you after doing things, but Capricorns won’t say anything. They may just answer calmly, and if I finish things, they will come. Capricorn lives in the embarrassment of being afraid of being cold-faced with a cold butt every moment. In close relationships, you have to fight for steamed buns and breathe. This defense mechanism is too high. Sometimes only Capricorns feel that they are very enthusiastic, but they are treated coldly by the other party. Late at night, people were so aggrieved that they wanted to twist their heads off. They made up their minds that tomorrow would be even colder. As for the other party's perspective, Capricorn can even be said to have never taken the initiative and has always been aloof. If you are angry, Capricorn is even more angry than you. As Capricorn’s object, you can only feel the cold air.
And Capricorn's own appeal will never tell you, so that when their dissatisfaction with you has accumulated to the level of overload, you may not necessarily know it. Don't ask, it's okay to ask. For example, if you ask Capricorn, do you want to wait for you to have dinner in the evening? Capricorn said it was OK, no need. If you have to wait for him, Capricorn will be happy for a long time. Do you ask Capricorn to buy you new clothes? Capricorn said it was OK, no need. If you want to buy it for him, Capricorn will move faster than anyone else. Every time you show kindness to Capricorn, they will silently think that you should be nice to me, and I will definitely give you double the reward, but I will say no. After a quarrel, I felt wronged and begged to the other party to take the initiative to coax it, but it was very tough on the surface and did not even affect any of my daily life. It seemed as cold as it was. Capricorns themselves have strong desire to control and possessiveness. They actually cannot do the same as the free and easy way as air sign . We all have their own spaces, and we can live a good life if it is not so close. Capricorns want to be favored, especially their emotional dependence, so they can write a book if they feel wronged.
You weighed it
The reason why Capricorns are particularly not good in love is really because their self-feelings are completely different from the other person's feelings. Capricorn feels that he has achieved the standard, and the other party thinks it is not what I want. Capricorn felt that she was already proactive enough, and the other party felt that she was treated coldly. Capricorn thinks he is a person who values feelings very much, and the other person thinks Capricorn is cruel and ruthless. In most cases, Capricorn's actions are result-oriented. If you like someone in your heart and pay attention to a relationship, if you have a rational judgment that there is no result, then forget it.
Capricorn's heart is actually a person who is not very entangled with feelings, and is not half-hearted, or even a little impulsive. They can quickly judge their love for a person, which is the legendary moment when they are moved by you. They have already fantasized about countless bright futures, and even the child's name is well named. Their interest in a person will not disappear very quickly, because Capricorns are a storage personality. Their feelings for a person can last for a long time, and they will keep them in their hearts if they have not started. They may also be the ones who have been completely let go of them.But it is completely different in action. If you fall in love with Capricorns, you can often detect their calculations and trade-offs. Who doesn’t want the person they like to do everything they want to do for themselves? I’m afraid they can’t count on Capricorn. For Capricorns, being safe and suitable may be the first important thing. Then in reality, Capricorn makes realistic choices, and no matter how much affectionate he is in his heart, it will be useless. What's more, Capricorns basically don't say it. It is necessary for people who are so careful and confident that they can gain a sense of security in Capricorn.
Moreover, Capricorn is a person who always asks them to make continuous progress. They will hardly stop exploring their inner and outer self in their lives. When Capricorn becomes stronger and stronger and can give and master more, they will ask themselves to change the entire real world, and they will ask themselves to be with the things they match to promote greater progress. As a Capricorn partner, you will also be required to make such progress and be consistent in your pace. Capricorn is indeed weighing his partner while constantly defending himself. The worse situation is that Capricorn is self-depressed for many years. When released, it will make you feel that he has become a completely different person and it is too late to adapt.
