Most of us say that habits determine personality, and personality determines destiny. In fact, what really determines destiny is a person's concept.
What kind of ideas a person has will have, what kind of behaviors he will have, and what kind of habits he will form, and habits will ultimately determine your personality.
So, if you want to change your destiny, you must start by changing your concept. Each of us will have our own unique ideas and it will be difficult to change. Most of the time, we feel that our ideas are correct and we don’t want any changes.
Only when we encounter difficulties or work hard for a long time and have not made much progress can we find ways to change our concepts.
Many people can move from mediocrity to the peak of their lives, all starting from changing their ideas.
1. Break your own inherent thinking pattern and dare to try new things.
The neighbor has been taking care of his husband and children at home and is a housewife. Her husband has been working odd jobs and has no stable income, so his family's financial conditions are not very good. However, this neighbor just doesn't go out to find a job to make money. He would rather complain every day that life is difficult than find a way to make money.
Unexpectedly, her husband found a brain tumor during a physical examination and needed surgery. This has made it even worse for their originally not wealthy life. Fortunately, her husband had a good effect after the operation and was well trained at home, but he could no longer do heavy work and could not make money.
When the neighbors were desperate, they began to learn how to scrape Dabai with their friends and make money by working. Unexpectedly, I persisted and made a lot of money in recent years, and my family conditions have improved significantly. Now, she smiles every day and is in a great mood. I really regret not making money earlier, otherwise I should have saved a lot of money for my child now.
Therefore, once a person breaks his inherent thinking mode and takes the first step bravely, he will get better and better in the future.
2. Change your cognition and believe that you have the ability to change your life.
A person's cognition changes, and he will truly begin to change his concept of people and things. We must constantly learn to improve our cognitive level and believe that we have the ability to change our lives and our destiny.
There is a friend who works within the system and cannot pass the professional title after taking the exam many times, so he wants to give up. Everyone encouraged her to try harder, but she said she couldn't pass it. Unexpectedly, her daily work ability was not as easy as that of a colleague of hers.
So, this colleague decided to work hard and said that he must pass the exam. Unexpectedly, I really passed this time.
So, human potential is unlimited. Only as long as we believe that we can, we will strive to make ourselves successful. If we always deny ourselves deep in our hearts and feel that we are not good enough and not excellent enough, we will have to do nothing in our lives and spend every day in regret.
We must change our concepts and improve our cognitive level, so that we will continue to strive for a better life and make ourselves better. If we become better ourselves, how could our destiny be bad?
So, if the concept changes, destiny can change, which is true.
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