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"As a middle-aged person, the pressure is getting greater and greater, and he lives less and less. Fortune tellers say that they can get help from noble people in the future, and then become rich and noble. But after waiting for so many years, I have not been able to wait for my own noble people. Those who are not as good as me have help from noble people, but why am I so lucky and have not met my own noble people yet? How can I meet my own noble people?" Two days ago, a friend sent such a private message.
I sighed when I saw this private message.
For this friend, the reason why he has never met a noble person is not because he is really lucky, but because he has not correctly understood the essence of a noble person.
A true noble person is not something that is waiting for by fate and luck, nor is it something that is seeking by oneself, but it is attracted by one's own ability.
Instead of following other people's eyes, it is better to be loyal to your heart and enjoy the happiness that belongs to you alone.
strives to improve one's own ability and make yourself more and more outstanding.
As for how to meet your noble person?
In fact, when you show it on a certain occasion that is much higher than everyone in this venue and matches the feelings of the big shots, your noble person will appear. The subtext of this statement is that you must be excellent enough for everyone to see it.
If you are not outstanding enough, then no matter what you do, you will not be able to meet a real noble person.
I hope you can understand all this and become your own noble person.
When people reach middle age, there is no real noble person except yourself.
Instead of being blind and other illusory nobles, it is better to improve yourself.
When you become excellent enough, noble people will naturally come to you by themselves.
The ancient saying is said to be, "The dragon is always there in the deep ridge, and the phoenix is here at the height of the sakura."
As long as people have strength and don’t need to show their presence, their connections will come.
The so-called noble people are just involvement of interests.
The essence of connections is "value exchange".
You need to think clearly about the other party’s needs and what kind of people and value the other party needs.
When you can provide the value others need, you both become mutual nobles.
No one will help you unconditionally. The premise for others to help you is that you can bring value to him.
Otherwise, others will not pay attention to you at all, because everyone’s time is precious.
In our lives, the greatest noble person is actually not others, but ourselves.
When you become strong enough, then you are your own noble person and you can create everything about yourself.
You are a noble person yourself, and this mirror of life can help you find more noble people.
When you spend all your time improving yourself and enriching your abilities, you are getting closer and closer to the noble person.
Stars do not ask the people who are rushing, time pays off.
As long as you work hard enough to grow, everything in the future will get what you want.
How hard and hard you work now, how easy it will be in the future.
Because when you work hard to climb up, you will naturally meet like-minded nobles along the way.
For those who seem to be successful, people often ask them: "I really envy you. There are so many people who help you all the way."
But I don't know that no one in this world has the success of easy ones, and their success is based on hard work.
is like those children from wealthy families. If they don’t work hard enough, then no matter how much money the family gives them, he will be in vain.
successful people have excellent nature that we can learn, and there is no doubt about it.
When you reach middle age, you have no noble people, you can only rely on your own efforts.
The harder you work, the luckier you will be. Naturally, everything will be in good luck.
is better used to accompany your family than to be obsessed with ineffective social interaction.
As the saying goes, "Rely on parents at home, rely on friends when going out, and have multiple friends and multiple ways."
So, we forgot the first half of this sentence, and only remember the second half of this sentence.
We have hope and follow the cause and condition and gather like-minded fellow travelers want to add some motivation to the road ahead.
But the fact is cruel. As we grow older and the pressure of our family, there are fewer and fewer friends around us.
There are very few people who can help and donate generously.
It was also at this time that we realized that most of the so-called friends are just friends with wine and meat in interests.
If there is no interest between the two parties, this relationship will only become increasingly weak.
Only when people are middle-aged can they understand: is better to manage their own family well than to be obsessed with illusory interpersonal relationships.
Some people always go to and from the dinner tables of all kinds of big shots just to make them look familiar.
But in fact, such social methods are almost ineffective social interaction.
Because of unequal social interaction between both parties, it is often ignored naturally.
Everyone is just acting and maintaining normal etiquette. The other party may forget you when he goes home.
We always give the best side to outsiders and the worst side to our family.
tried his best to please others and pursue fame, wealth, status, and wealth outside the circle, but put the cart before the horse and lost the most important thing.
Many people have struggled to the end and have forgotten why they have to work hard.
In fact, the original purpose of our struggle is to make the family happier.
The authorities are confused, and the bystanders are clear, and many people are lost in this.
Instead of being obsessed with various interpersonal relationships, it is better to spend this time with your family more.
Because the only people who will truly help you unconditionally are your family.
Your family is your greatest wealth.
For men, only by managing their family first can they take a step forward in their careers.
Because family is harmonious and everything is prosperous, when family is harmonious and family is happy, everything will develop in a better place.
The whole family works together to perform their duties and create together, and naturally achieve twice the result with half the effort.
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