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" The Analects of Confucius's Unscrupulous " says: "The best people have the ability but have no temper; the middle people have the ability but have the temper; the lower people have the ability but have the temper."
People who are incompetent and have a small structure like to lose their temper, which is actually a resentment towards their weakness and incompetence.
How many people in life are lazy and lazy on weekdays, but they always want to make money and become the best.
The work is not going well and things are not going well. First of all, they do not think about how to solve the problem, but rather entertainment, or vent their dissatisfaction by quarreling with others. People like
never reflect on themselves, but only feel that others are picky and targeting themselves.
Over time, he still accomplished nothing, and the people around him will gradually stay away.
You should know that all human pain is actually rooted in anger towards one's own incompetence.
When you feel angry when you encounter something, you might as well think about whether your ability is not enough. If you have enough ability, don’t you have to be angry?
So, don’t be led by the temper.
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According to historical records, during the Southern and Northern Dynasties, Emperor Liu Ziye was irritable since childhood, and was used to beating and scolding people around him, and was very disgusted by his father.
Unexpectedly, after he ascended the throne, the first thing he had to do was to dig his father's grave to vent his anger.
The ministers dissuaded him and said that this would destroy his fortune, so he gave up.
During his reign, no one could control his temper, no intention to be a government official, and he was bloodthirsty.
When a person has a bad temper, bad luck follows.
A year later, Liu Ziye was killed by the guards around him.
It is precisely because of his irritable temperament and countless evil deeds that he has lost the hearts of the people and lost his life.
People often say: "There is less conflicting when dealing with things, and you have good luck when treating others with a smile!"
The quality of a temper not only affects the relationship between people at present, but also subtly influences a person's luck.
Good temper will benefit for life; bad temper will hinder everything.
Learn to hold back your temper and be kind to others. Only by staying away from disasters and going smoothly in your life!
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Northern Song The famous prime minister Li Mengzheng was pointed at the nose and scolded: "He is worthy of participating in the government affairs?"
Lu Mengzheng After hearing this, he turned around and walked away, as if he had not heard it.
The peers were very popular. They wanted to vent their anger and were about to ask who the swearing was, but Lu Mengzheng stopped him and said, "If I knew who he was, I would always be upset. It would be better to concentrate on doing my own things."
This matter was later known by the emperor and admired his magnanimity very much. He repeatedly entrusted important tasks. Lu Mengzheng also fulfilled his expectations and was eventually named Duke Xu.
is visible, unnecessary temper, no need to let it disturb life.
has a good temper, respecting others and being lenient to yourself.
Blessings are born from the heart, cultivate a good temper, treat others with kindness, and good luck will come uninvited.
