A friend said: She and her boyfriend are in love very much, but after coming to the house, her boyfriend's parents disagreed. She is neither ugly nor poor, and she is also a key university graduate; her boyfriend is just an ordinary white-collar worker, and there is no problem of mismatch. But my boyfriend’s parents said that girls have bad faces and will not be prosperous for their husbands!
Girls feel very wronged, but their boyfriend seems to believe this, she is confused and doesn't know what to do...
numerology and Feng Shui must be feudal superstition. In recent years, various masters emerge one after another, but most of them eventually become jokes, such as Master Wang Lin.
If you follow the news about fighting X Tigers, you will find that many of the hit X Tigers are very superstitious, but even if they follow the master's instructions, they still cannot avoid collapse. hehe!
Dark thing is that whether you believe in metaphysics or not, once it is your turn, you will definitely believe it.
For example, which master tells you that what items in your living room are placed in a bad place will cause your family to suffer from serious diseases. Even if you are a determined atheist, you will eventually remove that thing. "I'm not afraid of ten thousand, but I'm afraid of it. What if metaphysics is really effective?"
The main reason for those who believe in metaphysics is that when the master first met and didn't know anything, he would talk about your past situation almost everything, and he couldn't help but believe it.
I see this: the so-called numerology, Feng Shui, etc. are the summary of the experiences of dozens or even hundreds of generations of metaphysics practitioners. For example, looking at the face and touching the bones is the summary of countless predecessors. People with the characteristics are likely to have a life experience. Follow the map. There are many fallacies, but there are enough samples, and there are always similar experiences. If there is a fallacy in
, everyone can't remember it, and it will pass with a laugh; those who experience similar experiences are "very accurate" and will make the master famous.
If everyone pays attention, they will find that all fortune tellers speak a bit ambiguously and have no real instructions. For example, "You have a disaster in the first half of this year." As for what disaster it is, when and where it happens, the secret of heaven cannot be revealed. This is a big range, you almost crash or fall, something like this can happen every day.
In addition to memorizing the things taught by the master, those awesome masters are also very good at observing life, summarizing rules, and keeping pace with the times. The most powerful person can only look at you in the crowd and know five or six of your general situation; then through conversation, you will know eight or nine points.
Everyone has watched " Dream Hualu ", and the heroine Zhao Paner has made two divine judgments.
Once, Song Yinzhang brought her boyfriend Zhou She to her and said she wanted to marry Zhou She. But from Zhou She's dress, dress and the fragrance on her body, Zhao Paner knew that this was a lustful person who lingers in the brothels and tiles, and was unreliable.
Once, the emperor visited the restaurant run by Zhao Paner for dinner. As a result, she quickly accurately judged his identity based on the fragrance and conversation on the emperor, and then helped the queen quietly.
If Zhao Paner does not say the basis for judgment but says that he is "can calculate and calculate", what else can you do besides believing it?
As long as the "front" is calculated accurately, you will trust the other party; once you believe in the other party's magical powers and later say that there is any danger and what methods can be resolved, you will basically pay the money obediently. Haha...
In fact, there are two types of people who are most likely to become "fortune telling masters" in life. One is professional scammers. Their skills in observing words and expressions and knowing things and people are first-class; the other is our respected criminals. When faced with various headless cases, they can find the real murderer based on clues, which is much more powerful than fortune telling.
In my opinion, whether it is numerology or feng shui, it is a summary of life experience, and then it is put on the cloak of metaphysics. There is a certain rationality, but it is more sarcastic. What is the rationality of
? Let me give you two small examples.
For example, a slight deformity in the nose will cause poor breathing. It is okay during the day, but it is easy to snore when you sleep at night, which will affect your sleep.People with poor sleep are prone to irritability and anger.
If you cannot cultivate your home, you will easily offend your colleagues and customers at work, and you will easily hurt your lover and children at home. Then, no matter how capable, kind, or enthusiastic such a person is, he will be more difficult than others in his career and will not be so harmonious in his family life. The most terrifying thing is that they may also "death suddenly".
If fortune tellers say that they are "unappreciated with talent and are prone to slandering villains", they most likely believe it; if fortune tellers say how long they will be wary of sudden disasters in the future, it may also come true.
For example, some people are reckless, inadequate in situations, and impulsive in their actions.
They will violate Criminal Law if they are not careful, causing prison. In addition, such people are not easy to reassure their leaders in the unit, and even if they are really talented, they will be difficult to be entrusted with important tasks.
Fortune Teller If you see their personalities correctly, you can generally restore their past experiences and not deviate too much. If the fortune teller receives a red envelope to help them "do rituals", then warns them to cultivate their minds and nature, not to be impulsive, and to be more patient. If they are willing to obey, they may really change their destiny...
Speaking of this, I need to remind female fans: the appearance and aesthetics are completely different. If you force yourself to turn your cute round face into a cone face for beauty, you may have experienced Feng Shui and lose your wealth.
If you don’t believe it, look at Wang Xcong. He likes internet celebrities with a cone-faced face. As a result, such a big richest man, he can’t do business and almost becomes a "deadbeat". Not only that, it may also implicate my father's business, because he is the only heir to the Wang family... Do you believe it? hehe!
In short, I don’t believe in metaphysics and dare not kill me. You can believe it or you can not believe it. But the "prosperous husband" I want to talk about below is absolutely credible. I hope everyone can learn from it carefully...
Some time ago, a girl showed off her boyfriend's annual salary in a securities company and posted a "proof", which caused an uproar. The relevant departments ordered a thorough investigation and the poor boyfriend suffered an unrestrained disaster.
More in front of it, the boss of Huizhou Banquet caused public anger, causing the boss of Huizhou Banquet to be frustrated
further away. Do you still remember the girl who "opened a big G to have fun in the Forbidden City"? hehe!
It can be said that the above three women are "not prosperous" and "hindered".
Men are careful: If you are looking for a partner, with an arrogant and domineering personality, unreasonable or high-profile girl, and without scheming or scheming, it is best to choose carefully.
So, what kind of woman can "prosper your husband"?
We first need to rule out a situation, that is, a girl with resources. Because once this kind of woman marrys you, you have fully gained the trust of your wife and parents-in-law and obtained a lot of resources and benefits, and it is difficult to be underdeveloped. But there are few girls like this, so we can only focus on ordinary women.
The so-called character is destiny. Under normal circumstances, a person's character determines his own destiny and indirectly determines the fate of his partner.
First, a girl with open mind and wise mind.
If a woman is narrow-minded, petty, and unreasonable, then it is extremely difficult for anyone to get along with her, including her husband and children.
If you marry such a woman, a man will be involved in the bad things his wife has caused, and he will not get warmth when he returns home, which is not conducive to his career.
A girl who is open-minded and sensible can avoid the above problems. Even when her husband encounters conflicts and troubles, she can still come forward to resolve the crisis for her husband.
Needless to say, this kind of woman is a blessing for her husband.
Second, a woman who is low-key and restrained and does not show off.
The three "hindered husband" women mentioned above will not cause trouble to their men if they understand the word "low-key".
You marry a good man and your husband’s career is a “hateful” thing in itself. If you are still showing off with high profile and fear that others don’t know, it is equivalent to digging a hole for yourself.
People will not directly attack you, but will slander your "reliance", that is, your husband. Do you still be arrogant?
I know a noble lady, very low-key. It’s not that she dresses in a simple manner and shows poverty everywhere, but that her dressing is low-key and luxurious, she speaks politely and never has a proud tone.
It can be said that people who have seen her have a good impression of her; after knowing who her husband is, they also developed an inexplicable affection for her husband - the wife is so virtuous, how bad can her husband be?
There was a man who had a career in the business. After divorce, he found a girlfriend from a good family. The woman came to his house and parked the Ferrari in his parking space. A few days later, he was invited by his superiors for tea, and the commission also checked him upright. Fortunately, he is quite decent and has no problem.
After recovering his innocence, he decisively broke up with this girlfriend. For many men, a woman who is too high-profile is a disaster but not a blessing!
Third, a woman with strong work ability and good at interpersonal relationships.
Men also need help in their careers. So, the closest and most reliable person is of course his wife.
A woman has strong work ability and can obviously help her husband. If she and her husband start a business together, then the stronger her ability is, the more helpful it will be to her husband; if she and her husband are not in the same unit, their ability also means that she is more likely to get promoted and raise wages, making her family's economy more prosperous; in addition, she can master better resources...
Some women are not capable of working, but are good at handling various interpersonal relationships, which can help their husbands attract foreign aid and eliminate hidden dangers and disasters... There is a word "wife diplomacy" in society, which is the best annotation.
Of course, there are all kinds of women who can "help you succeed, at least not bring disaster to you" are women worth marrying for men. If you have a choice, it is best to choose one that "prospers the husband".
Back to the initial question, my opinion is: If your boyfriend and his parents firmly believe that you are "not prosperous" in your husband, then don't force them. Otherwise, you need to spend your whole life proving a metaphysical problem. If your husband is not satisfied in the future, he will blame you for your fault. Why bother?
Besides, each fortune teller has different levels and different opinions. Maybe change to another partner, and people think that your appearance is very good, not only will it boost your husband, but also for three generations. This is not uncommon.
The most important thing is that if you have the three advantages I mentioned, then you are likely to be a "husband-promoting woman". If your personality is just the opposite, then listen to my uncle's words: Change your temperament, otherwise you will really not be prosperous.
or above, the same applies to men and women. If you want to find a man who is "strong wife", it will be the same...
text: Bao Shishan
