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Are there always some people around us that you find intolerable? Some people even have a bit of arrogance and even need everyone to look up to them. I believe most people are I don’t like this kind of always giving others a little step up and giving them strong praise, but how many people really understand the sensitivity and vulnerability behind their so-called arrogance?
Today, we will take a look at the constellations that need to be "looked up" from the perspective of the constellations to see if they are really arrogant or have other reasons. The following content may involve professional content on some constellation patterns, Qiqi I will try my best to use clearer zodiac examples to explain. I also hope that more friends will like my horoscope content. Welcome to follow and check it out often.
Aries + Pisces
In fact, today’s content will be more straightforward if it is interpreted using the rule of fours and the rule of thirds. However, considering some friends who don’t know the constellations very well and just find them interesting, it is better to use the simple method. To interpret it in a straightforward way, let's first take a look at the constellation pattern of Aries and Pisces. When seeing Aries many people will feel brave, competitive, and even predatory. What is Pisces? Sentimental and full of fantasy.
This pattern composed of Aries and Pisces may seem direct and brave to outsiders, but in many cases, it still has its own perceptual elements and more subconscious elements. "Thinking" may even bring with it some hopes of association.
Once the person's Aries characteristics are somewhat obvious, and Pisces, although not very strong, occupies their more sensitive zone, such as Venus in Pisces, Mars in Pisces, Moon in Pisces, and Pisces rising, this will all make the person feel uncomfortable. The brave energy of Aries itself is painted with certain uncertain factors, and this paint has a high probability of coming from other people's recognition, other people's alignment, etc.
puts it more straightforwardly, that is to say, friends in this part of the pattern need the affirmative support of others. If they are at the leadership level, they are more eager for subordinates to obey unconditionally to demonstrate their abilities and value, and their starting point. It seems that he is moving people with his emotions, but in fact, he is using his own emotions and thinking to force others to think.
That is, they think others will behave like this, but if others don't behave this way, they will become more sensitive and a little uncomfortable, even if they are relatively friendly partners. What they want is unconditional recognition, and they cannot Hear voices that go against you.
In fact, they are very eager for emotional integration, but they use different methods. They only ask others to understand themselves and understand themselves, but they lack the chance to understand them deeply. After all, they are not For Pisces zodiac signs, sometimes the ability to empathize will still be led astray by Aries, and then there will be some illusions that seem to be easy to get along with, but in fact they have to "climb high".
They often seem "arrogant". This is not actually what they really want, but in the environment they are in, this state makes them feel that they have the value of existence, so that others can Look at them with admiration, even if others can't stand them, they are used to this. You can think that this is their inner fragility, and they need others to look up to them to get recognition for themselves. You can also think that this is what they show when they are fragile. kind of desire.
Don’t think that they want others to look up to them because they are arrogant. Most of the time, in fact, they just want to hear nice words, that’s all. They are actually very easy to make people happy. If you praise them more, they will become those uncomfortable self-righteousness that you think. , just take a look and don’t pierce it, it’s ok.
Leo + Cancer
is another combination of fire sign and water sign . In fact, I have to say that the fire sign and water sign are a bit wrong. Once there are these two energies in the pattern The confrontation always inevitably involves the occurrence of certain uncertain factors, just like water and fire are incompatible, but water and fire can complement each other, it depends on how to make it happen.
This combination of Leo and Cancer is more difficult to coordinate than Aries and Pisces, because their strong self-esteem will prevent them from letting go of the so-called superficial status for a long time. Therefore, you will often see these friends They have a very sunny side, but when they are extremely vulnerable, they may not be able to say it, let alone be denied, otherwise they will be easily exploded.
Of course, this situation will also happen in the pattern of Aries and Cancer. If the content of the fire sign with the water sign of Pisces is just a desire to be praised and sought after, then the fire sign with the participation of Cancer The constellation pattern is a position that cannot be conflicted.
They are actually very eager to be recognized by most people, to be noticed by most people, and even to receive a steady stream of praise and praise. However, in reality there are always content that cannot be equivalent to the ideal. Once there is a deviation or a contradiction, they will It will look a bit radical, even a bit on the shelf.
Sometimes, you can even see relatively strong reactions from friends who belong to Leo and Cancer. The temper tantrums are relatively minor, and some may even use their hands. This is when the sensitive areas in their hearts are really provoked to the point of vulnerability. The more they care about the place, the more likely it is that if someone provokes it, it will be as scary as being struck by a thunder.
Of course, if a person has relatively powerful Mars energy, such as friends with Mars in Scorpio, if they are criticized or fooled by others, they will fight with others at the moment to win back the momentum, but later they will Use practical actions to make others proud.
are afraid of those people who have this pattern but cannot keep up with the power of Mars in terms of mobility. This is embarrassing. On the one hand, they hope to get ahead and make their dreams very complete. On the other hand, But in actual actions, they will only respond with fragile counterattacks, and in the end there is no real performance. This creates a situation where is like a pie in the pan and is.
When encountering this kind of situation, just let them exaggerate. Don't deny them, let alone argue with them. This will be the most sensitive time to break their vulnerability. The more they let them boast, the more they care. Yes, it can only be said that they need tactful reminders in their emotions, rather than radical and extreme measures, so this group of friends do not get along well with people who have Scorpio traits, Taurus traits, and Aquarius traits.
Capricorn + Aquarius
This is a rather strange zodiac pattern. You can say that they need others to look up to them, but many times they appear to be relatively modest. But if they are really modest, when they think they can If they are denied outright, they will lose their sense of proportion and even become another kind of "debating expert".
This is a pattern in which individuals can suffer losses, but management cannot. In other words, they can suffer losses on the surface, let others say a few words, or give orders to others, but when it comes to issues of reason, they are very Those who abide by it must not violate their own principles or make their ideas worthless.
So they are rather strange. It is not so obvious that they want people to look up to them, because they do not take the initiative to ask for it. More often, they just hope that they can get certain public opinion guidance in the interactive relationships in which they participate. , can most people follow the trend and follow them.
This is some of their sense of accomplishment, a state that they are willing to give up but others do not have. If this is a kind of looking up to them, it is more appropriate to say that this is their desire to be different in the group. They believe The value of hard work and the belief in the fun of innovation. Once these are brought together, they just want to be understood and supported. This is what they want to look up to, not the so-called flattery or the so-called obedience. For them, those Too childish.
Capricorns and Aquariuses need to look up to them, which is a kind of trust, recognition and support from all aspects. If you can attach great importance to them and value their strength when they are in difficulty and their abilities are insufficient, they will feel You have a discerning eye and are serious about showing you the truest self. But if you keep ostracizing them and denying them when they are not capable, then thank you, they will give you unexpected results, and you can only let them Sorry for your embarrassment.
Therefore, for those friends who need to be looked up to, you don’t need to look at them through colored glasses, and don’t deliberately anger and belittle them. In fact, they just need certain channels to be recognized. This is their inner sensitivity. They also long for others to discover it, but they express it in a more radical way.
