In daily life, we will inevitably encounter disagreements and even quarrels when getting along with others, especially in close relationships. Because the relationship is closer, it is easier to quarrel.
It’s also a quarrel, but the twelve zodiac signs handle things very differently.
1 Aries
The character of Aries is relatively straightforward, without so many twists and turns, prone to recklessness, short-tempered, and unable to hide things.
If an Aries person quarrels with someone, they will not avoid the problem, but will speak out directly and say whatever comes to mind. So when you meet an Aries, just have a quarrel and explain the problem clearly. After the quarrel, turn over the topic and don't spend the night with the problem.
2 Taurus
Taurus has a very stable temperament and is not in a hurry when doing things, but they are too stubborn and do not get into the habit of doing things. Once they are determined, it is difficult to change.
Taurus people are actually not good at releasing their stress and emotions, and they generally don't like to quarrel and argue fiercely.
But once there is an argument, they will be very stubborn and difficult to be changed by the other party.
Taurus is not as prone to shouting and "speaking his mind" as Aries, and is more inclined to speak slowly.
Therefore, if you have a quarrel with a Taurus, you must listen carefully, tolerate and understand the other person's emotions, give in, admit your mistakes, and the matter will be over.
In addition, Taurus likes to eat, drink, play and enjoy life. Do you know what to do?
3 Gemini
Gemini people are very good at verbal communication. It can be said that they are "logical wizards" in debates. They are moved by emotion and reasoned, and their words sound watertight. Unknowingly, they secretly change concepts and double. standard.
Every time you have an argument with a Gemini, you will feel that you have not performed well. If you want to exercise your debating skills, maybe being with a Gemini is a good way, but if you want to win an argument and convince him, it is basically impossible.
Gemini is very talkative and fickle, and at the same time it is easy to believe something, provided that you make him feel that you can be trusted.
Therefore, in the conversation, you must first make Gemini feel that you and him are on a united front, affirm him first, and pay attention to the art of expression.
4 Cancer
Cancers are more sensitive and soft at heart, with low emotional tear points. If a Cancer quarrels with you, the other person may burst into tears before it officially starts. Seeing this, how can you bear to continue the quarrel? You will be anxious about how to comfort you, right?
The sensitivity of male Cancer is not so explicit, because our culture does not encourage men to express their feelings, so male Cancer is more inclined to "tolerate".
When you two quarrel, you will feel like you have been punched in the face, because he will feel that the most important thing is that everyone is happy, and don't talk about unhappy things.
If you happen to be a fire sign ( Aries , Leo, Sagittarius), you will feel very crazy.
5 Leo
Leo is very competitive, very concerned about face, has the mentality of "being the boss", and wants others to follow their lead. Especially when you are emotional, you may even say something arrogant and angrily.
If both parties don't give in and Leo doesn't come to Taiwan, he may be blocked directly and say they want to break up.
So if you are arguing with a Leo, it is best to admit your mistake directly and make them feel that they have won. Leo is a soft-spoken person, but he doesn't like hard words. If you give in, he will come down the steps, and everyone can talk well again.
Some people may think, it is obvious that the other party made a mistake in this matter, why should they admit their mistake? In fact, Leo knows in his heart, but he loves face too much. If you give him face, he will give it back to you in other ways.
6 Virgo
Virgos are very careful people who pay attention to details, are organized and work seriously.
The same characteristics will also be reflected in the process of quarrels.Most people get emotional easily when quarreling, but Virgos rarely do this. During the quarrel, they will tell you the details and list them one by one.
You may think that Virgos are too perfectionistic, but in fact they just want to make the relationship better.
Virgos will feel that if I do A, I will naturally get the result of B, but the result is not satisfactory, which makes them crazy.
In fact, quarrels are inevitable in relationships. The key to quarrels is not winning or losing, but what can be done to make the relationship develop better.
The reason why two people quarrel is not about who is right or wrong, but about whether their emotions have been comforted and seen.
Especially, there is no quarrel about right and wrong in principle, and there is no need to argue about right and wrong.
One of my college classmates, Xiao Zhang, is a Virgo. When chatting with her boyfriend, a disagreement arose over the discussion of "gutter oil".
Xiao Zhang believes that gutter oil is harmful to people and is used by merchants to save costs; while her boyfriend believes that merchants use gutter oil to make food more delicious.
In order to argue about right and wrong, the two people quarreled and ignored each other for a while.
But as long as you think about it rationally, this matter has nothing to do with their immediate interests, it is just an objective social state. If you really want to find out, just go to the Internet and search, and the answer will be clear at a glance.
In our daily interactions, we often quarrel over things that have nothing to do with the individual. When we quarrel, we can’t stop our emotions. But when we look at others arguing like this from an objective standpoint, we feel silly.
Why is this happening?
Because it is easy for us to elevate the objective right or wrong of a thing to the right or wrong of the person who said it. When the other party denies what I said, it feels like the other party denies me.
Everyone has this kind of mentality. The difference is that some people are aware of it and will reflect on their words and deeds, while some people are not aware that letting their emotions destroy the relationship between two people. Different zodiac signs will have different way of expression.
What is your zodiac sign? Will there be such a performance?
