Speaking of Aries ♈, in fact, most people’s impression is that they are lively, cheerful, open-minded, and affordable.
This is not only what he wants to show others, but also what he wants to do. In fact, these are the true aspects of Aries. Try to make yourself happy, try not to infect negative emotions to others, and try to keep yourself away from things that make you sad.
Although there will be grievances, hesitations, and contradictions, I think does not matter.
At least in this process, Aries can persevere and grow from it. Let me give you an example. When I was studying, I failed the exam because I was too careless. Before the exam, I said I could be in the top ten, but I fell out of the top twenty.
Aries felt that his classmates were laughing at him, the teacher did not take him seriously, and his parents were disappointed because of this. This made him feel very guilty and remorseful, and vowed to take back the lost face next time.
I will think that no matter what the result of the next exam is, this mentality will definitely bring positive reflection and growth to Aries.
Because he can feel the power that shame brings to him and his determination to break through himself. In fact, most setbacks are an example of Aries.
Because Aries is a person who has a strong desire to win and wants to prove himself. He will not be easily defeated, nor will he admit defeat casually, he just admits that he can't . But he needs comparison, needs environment, needs motivation, and even more needs the satisfaction after success
Even if no one affirms him, as long as he feels that he is stronger and can immerse himself in the fantasy of a more powerful self in the future, he can gain a lot from it. Less confidence and satisfaction.
I always say Aries is resilient because of this. Optimism is indeed the gift of Aries. However, this optimism is based on self-confidence. One more thing, it's hard to compare, it's impossible to get anything out of the environment, it's even harder to find something lasting and it's impossible to define whether it's successful or not.
This is emotion, to be precise it should be "love". First of all, we have a clear score point. This does not refer to "ambiguity" or "love", but to "love".
The word "love" is too important to Aries . Let me tell you that some Aries are full of energy when they are young, constantly "ambiguous" and "in love". Even if you cry a lot after the breakup, you will feel that it is no big deal. After crying, wipe away your tears and snot, and you can start a new relationship and a new life.
Isn’t this normal? Isn't it "love" that makes people cry? Just loving, loving, crying, suddenly one day, he was tired, he wanted a stable love, he began to think about the nature of love, and began to look forward to the future of love
Aries ♈ The most vulnerable side is exposed Nothing left. In the past growth experience, Aries has been used to divert attention and cover up old wounds with new ones. As long as he runs fast enough, trouble won't catch up with him. To put it bluntly, as long as he hesitates and starts to think about whether this thing is what he really wants and whether he is willing to continue to spend time and energy to maintain it, it is definitely not what he wants and he will definitely not want to maintain it.
To put it bluntly, for a long time, Aries and would choose to bypass them when dealing with less important setbacks. To be honest, Aries is not good at solving problems, let alone pulling. What I fear the most is repetition. Aries has always adhered to the concept, "If there is someone who always makes me cry, I will definitely leave him." Why does he let himself cry? Why are you crying? How to solve problems after crying? This has nothing to do with Aries.
Faced with ordinary people, he could really leave, crying and blaming the other person, feeling that the two of them were not suitable, and the relationship seemed to have dissipated. By connecting these two paragraphs, you can feel how vulnerable Aries is when they really face "love".There was a conflict, and I cried. I cried and wanted to leave, but found that I couldn't help it and cried harder...
When I cried before, the other person made me cry, so I could find someone to blame, but when When he found himself aggrieved and conflicted, but didn't know what to do, he couldn't blame anyone. He doesn't even know how to communicate with each other. He will only silently doubt himself and his feelings, and will refuse to communicate with the other party because he is afraid that the other party will not like him.
Aries who have experienced all this will understand. We have gone through the ambiguous period, the sweet period, and the running-in period. There is pain and joy, joy and sorrow, but none of them matter. At least I'm free and this feeling doesn't bind me. When Aries really starts to think about the future, stability, family, life, and love.
He will become more sensitive, more fragile, more suspicious, and more aggrieved. Because he has concerns, he is afraid. But he had never been like this before, so he didn't know how to express it or how to deal with it. He will only hope that the other party will give him more satisfaction and security. What the other person should do to give Aries enough security and satisfaction to make him believe in love and the future of the two is beyond the scope of today's discussion. I would think that in this process, the other party occupies 80% of the dominant position, while Aries is passive.
I just want to say that if you really love someone, you really think about a certain future, and you really make up your mind to choose a relationship but there is no result. This probably affects Aries more than anyone else. Because of this regret, Aries will resist, especially when you are upset, when you want to rely on someone, when you are trying to face your own sincerity. He is not afraid of making the same mistakes again, nor is he afraid of completely losing confidence in his feelings and life. But he still blamed his last failure on his own mistakes.
So when he faces feelings, he always asks himself whether he is ready. He still believes in love and hopes that beautiful love will come to him, but he is just afraid that he will mess it up before he is ready.
♈What Aries hates most is repetition, hesitation, pulling and contradiction. And Aries has also become such a person. So he also hated himself for not being sincere and firm enough, causing himself to repeat himself, hesitate, pull, and have conflicting people and feelings. Finally, the attitude of Aries becomes: neither force nor refuse.
Just accept yourself calmly and face not-so-good love calmly. We will look forward to the beauty of love, and we will also endure the grievances caused by love, but this does not matter, because a good relationship must grow and heal together.
Slowly, Aries will no longer choose those who make him cry, but will find someone who can make him laugh and make him feel warm when he thinks about it.
