Going big, stingy and generous is a difference in values, and going smaller, this is also a difference between willingness or not, but everything has two sides, and being stingy and willing is not only good. , Or only the bad side. Today we will put this concept in the constellation to understand. Is the Taurus, who has always been considered a stingy, really stingy? Is the Libra who is considered not stingy really not stingy?
On stingy: Why do most people think Taurus stingy, not Libra stingy?
The stingy of Taurus-the calculation of whether it is worth it or not
Regarding the stingy of Taurus, many friends have also reported similar problems to me. For example, a Leo girl friend said that her boyfriend is a Taurus, and both of them are still in college, and their living expenses basically depend on the family. But the Leo girl is very free and easy. For example, the two of them go out for dinner 10 times. Nine times, the lion woman checked out.
So this lion girl always feels that her boyfriend is too stingy, she doesn't understand why.
Then what follows is that the living expenses of this lion woman are always spent before 20 days, but she basically can’t see the living expenses of the golden bull man. And every month when the family calls for living expenses, the Taurus man does not take the initiative to ask her to eat, but every time Taurus will take the initiative to ask her to go out or play or eat, but without exception, the lion woman basically checks out.
According to the normal situation, if two people fall in love even if no one is generous, then the AA system is also possible, but the two of them do not meet this situation, but this lion girl is very kind, and she is afraid of misunderstanding Her target, but in the end they broke up.
This kind of thing is actually very common in Taurus. So what is the main reason for this kind of thing?
The first reason is the self of Taurus: His definition of spending is centered on himself, such as what he wants to buy, where he wants to use the expenses, etc. are all his own plans.
The second reason is that Taurus is slower to heat up: This means that when Taurus has not fully identified a person or sincerely likes someone, they dare not act rashly, and naturally they will not act casually. Pay.
The third reason is: Taurus has never fallen in love with a person at all, so he does not want to pay anything for this person at all.
On the surface, Taurus is indeed stingy, but what I want to say is, if the above three reasons are opposite concepts, then Taurus will not stingy On the contrary, it will be very generous.
Of course, there is a very objective condition here, and that is the condition of Taurus itself.
Some friends also told me that their Taurus boyfriend is very generous. When she first started chasing herself, she was willing to spend more than 3,000 to buy a watch for herself, and her Taurus boyfriend was on average.
That’s right, let’s talk about it, the stingy of Taurus is the calculation of " Worth or Not "
This concept also has two sides, let’s talk about the positive first. For example, if a Taurus has made a good friend or someone he likes, then he is basically more generous. , Even if the AA system is not generous, it will be implemented. To put it bluntly, this is called "not owe each other." Taurus does not want to owe others, because he will feel ashamed of others.
However, regardless of friends or objects that can be recognized by Taurus, is a specific small range of people.
Then this means that TaurusExcept for this kind of people, the values of "will not work for others.
Let’s talk about the opposite. For example, Taurus just made a friend, just made a partner, but everywhere he finds that the friend is not what he wants, this Friends are very unreliable, the object is not what he really likes, or he doesn't like it anymore, and he doesn't give any hope to the relationship between two people, then his values will not work.
So at this time, Taurus is reluctant to pay any more, because it is not worth it.
To sum up, for a Taurus, as long as is worth it, then his contribution is unambiguous.
On the contrary, If Taurus feels it is not worth it, then he will not pay anything.
Although this statement is a bit exaggerated, but to tell the truth, this statement is not an exaggeration for Taurus at all, but a fact. To be smaller, this is a person and a non-person. Difference.
Libra's stingy-a question of thinking and not wanting
The positive side of Taurus' values is basically only aimed at a special group of people. The reverse is aimed at the vast majority of people, and it is because of this concept that Taurus will be considered stingy by most people, and only a small number of people think that Taurus is generous.
Libra and Taurus are opposite.
Libra is far more good at calculation than Taurus, but what is helpless is that Libra prefers to live casually and casually.
On the surface, this is not a complicated problem, but it is actually a relatively complicated problem.
So Libra's values are not as stable and fixed as Taurus.
For example, for example, Libra doesn't feel much to a person, but he feels the same as other people who usually associate with him. Was Libra generous or stingy that day?
Tell the truth, in this case, Libra is polite. For example, the other party buys him a strawberry-flavored milk tea, but Libra doesn't like this taste, so I just feel it casual.
So the same principle, when Libra is with this person, if you want to buy milk tea, you will also buy a cup for the other party. Be polite, pay attention to the one you come and me.
But to be clear, this is a kind of politeness, and it is not a concept of a good relationship between two people.
Then for example, Libra hates a person, but the other party bought him a cup of milk tea, will he pick it up?
I just said bluntly, Libra may follow the milk tea due to etiquette, but I feel very disgusted.
Libra's concept of values is the same as their personality, extremely passive.
Or to put it more simply, Libras often only have their awareness of certain things and certain people after they meet certain people or things. , is not an advance cognition.
At this point, Libra and Taurus are completely different.
Then a more interesting question arises: "Who are the people who make Libra disgusted, hated, or even irritable?"
"Who are the people who make Libra not disgusted, hated, or irritable?"
People?"
我Let’s talk about the first question first. People who dislike Libra are generally those who have hatred against Libra, those who are against Libra, and those who Libra actively hates.
The second question is that people who make Libras not disgusted, hated, or irritable are a large group of people.
At this point, everyone should have discovered that Libra is the opposite of Taurus at this point, and the definition of the population targeted by values is opposite.
So it makes sense, Libra must be a stingy in front of the first kind of people, because he just doesn’t want to have anything to do with these people. These people may be Libras. Object, wife, husband, etc. Therefore, this type of people generally feel that Libra is particularly stingy.
And the second kind of people is just the opposite. They will not only think that Libra people are very polite, but they will also not think that Libra is stingy.
At the same time, the different places of these two constellations will also bring about different people's reactions. For example, Taurus "persons" will feel that Taurus is particularly reliable and plan ahead.
And Libra's "self" will feel that Libra is particularly stingy and likes to escape.
In fact, for Libra, a question in their mind determines their cost concept. This is also a principle of Libra, so for Libra In other words, there is no real stingy, and no real generosity. It all depends on what Libra thinks, but Taurus is not like this. Taurus has a relatively fixed self-recognition of things or people, their words and deeds. Behavior is developed based on this recognition, so relatively speaking, the state of Taurus is much more stable than that of Libra.
