people fear most?
Are you afraid of being "poor"?
I don't think it is, because when we were young, we didn't have anything. It would be very fun to climb trees and play in the mud with a few children.
Are you afraid of being "looked down by others"?
Living in an environment, there must be a family situation, there will be no big gaps in all aspects, no one is better than anyone, and people who are generally afraid of being "looked down" are often the easiest to "look down" Types of.
Are you afraid of "loneliness"?
This is a bit scary, but "loneliness" is ultimately caused by yourself; and a person with a good temper and a good personality, how can he be "sub-happy" and lonely?
Therefore, the most feared is "I can't think about it", I find myself "awkward", and "twisting" myself will not listen to persuasion.
When "twisting" for a long time, the language will become "inertia", and it will start to talk duplicity.
behavior has also become "inertia", you have to be what you decide, whatever you think is good, no one will listen.
If you feel bad, then it must be bad. It's useless if anyone says it is good.
Such "stubbornness" is not the same as "confidence", because "confident" people always "smile", and they will infect others with happiness and love.
And "stubbornness" is precisely a kind of low self-esteem, not allowing others to say things different from what they think; forbid others to do things different from yourself.
Therefore, people who will experience failure in relationships are generally very "stubborn" people.
is telling how others feel sorry for yourself at the same time; in fact, it is also a very funny thing.
Because, who have you seen throwing "gold" on the road?
And you are "abandoned", saying that others have no conscience, or because you really take yourself too seriously, making yourself more and more confused?
Therefore, you must increase your "attention" to yourself,To be more tolerant of others, to have the happiness of giving, and to understand and summarize the differences.
In this way, our lives will get better and better.
And "complaining" can only make yourself more and more mired!
Today, when we talked about this topic, let’s talk about which constellation, it is easy to regard "feeling" as "inertia" and make yourself more and more lonely!
Taurus:
For "Taurus": twisting is a part of life.
Why is it "twisting"? In the Taurus month, from different birth times, you can see what kind of personality you are Taurus
because, in her thinking, one thing that she recognizes must follow what she recognizes, and there should be no deviation. Not much to change.
She wears gray today, and she will have to wear gray tomorrow. You can buy her a "bright color" dress. It is absolutely impossible for her to try.
Where does she sit for dinner today, and she will have to find this seat for dinner tomorrow, because "inertia" is the source of her sense of security.
Therefore, many readers ask the author: "Why do Taurus like to be "sulking"?"
The author also answers you here: "When a person sees everything in accordance with her inertia, if it doesn't match, she wants to be angry. , Can her sullenness be reduced?"
And with all this heart that pursues "inertia", it is definitely difficult to get along with others, because you abide by your rules, he abides by his rules, and conflicts So there will be more quarrels.
Use the method of carving a boat and seeking a sword to deal with all problems, so in the end, you have only one way to go.
is especially true in feelings.
If you insist on "some ideas", you must follow yours. Others will feel depressed and helpless.
When you insist that you are right, what others say to you,Many must be "wrong". Taurus: Love, the "big trouble" in marriage
You don't want to hear the "truth" from others, and you have been duplicity. Where can you look for it sincerely?
is all in my stomach.
And further, when your "suffocation" turns into cold violence, it will be even more unbearable.
It is difficult for you to like a person alone, and it is also very difficult to be together if you like it; but getting along is even more difficult.
This feeling is too complicated!
So "Taurus" is a type that is easy to frustrate in relationships.
And this "dead-hearted" attitude becomes "submissive" for "inertia" when the relationship comes to an end.
I think "It's not easy to love someone", since I have chosen him, I have to walk to the end.
As a result, you pay more and get less, making yourself more "unbalanced".
Who is to blame?
I can only blame myself for "too easy to make duplicity, and to follow my own stubbornness too!"
So how to change?
It is necessary to: say what you want to say, don't be stubborn; for every point of your mouth, your feelings will fail.
Don't be stubborn, if you keep the "willfulness", the earth is still square; therefore, if you want others to be sincere to you, first show your "attitude"!
All that is left is to exercise more, wick away more sweat, and evaporate the depression in my heart through sweat and exercise!
If you, a Taurus, have been experiencing "Waterloo" emotionally, try the author's method, it will work!
Cancer:
The sensitivity of Cancer will make her suspicious, and it will also make her develop rich associations in many problems.
This is the unique "bridge" of Cancer known as "inner drama"! In Cancer Moon,From different birth times, see what kind of Cancer you are.
However, this "inner drama" also makes her very easy to produce in her relationship: when we are weak, we are strong, and when we are strong, we are weak.
"Cancer couples" you can meet, especially girls, if her husband has a strong personality, she must be a bird and a compliant person.
And if her husband has a weak personality and does not need to be bullied by others, she can handle him by herself and make him unable to raise his head.
This also illustrates a problem, that is, "Cancer" really wants the people around him to be strong. If he is strong enough, he will feel safe.
If he is not strong enough, he will be useless no matter what he looks at, and he will act to encourage him to become "strong".
Therefore, we can see the degree of "well-intentioned and focused" "Cancer" towards the other half.
But this kind of "focus" is easy to be used. Many times, you make her angry and feel: you don't have to coax her at all.
After she has a good impression of you, just leave her alone, and her inner drama will continue to stage various plots.
In the end, she always compromises.
And once she falls in love, the family concept of motherhood and obsession will not allow her to break up.
Therefore, many "Cancer" loves are "humble" and suffer a lot of grievances in exchange for relative "balance".
In fact, this is also a kind of pleasing personality, always putting hope on others, but lacking attention to oneself.
Therefore, Cancer is often heard saying this: "I hope he can be better, I will be fine; I hope he can be like a man and support his family; I like him to treat me better, I like him. ....".
Why not spend this time on yourself? Cancer code, gentle, considerate, kind, Gu's Cancers, "crab" you are!
You need to be hard when you strike iron. When you pay more attention to yourself,Others will be more inseparable from you; and when you are too "sticky" and want to rely on others for everything, you will become a "kite" in the hands of others!
Virgo
Virgo's "pursuit of perfection" makes her very tired: she wants to be the best in her work, she wants to be spotless at home, and people who like it hope to be what she imagined. In the Virgo month, depending on your birth time, you can see what character Virgo you are. However, having a "pursuit" requires effort and effort.
Virgo is not afraid of giving, but afraid of not getting the corresponding "reward".
Because her birth time is the harvest season, and she will never allow herself to "fail in vain"!
The idea of doing a career is basically feasible; but in terms of emotions, Doesn't work!
Because a person is alive and his thoughts are jumping, it is impossible for him to perform all actions according to his own thinking.
So the "feeling of loss" will surround the "Virgo" at the beginning of the relationship.
Then, her thought is: I will invest again, I will work harder and try.
However, the greater the investment, the stronger the "control desire" will be. When it reaches a peak, the investment becomes pressure.
She is also the best for "lovers", and she is also the one who will torment him the most.
Moreover, when the effort reaches a certain level, Virgo's "feeling of loss" will be stronger.
She has two ideas: First, this person is what I like, and he is usually good to me, forgive him. On behalf of all people who care about "Virgo", a letter to "Virgo"
The second kind is: I have paid so much, without any rewards, I can't just leave in such a stubborn way.
Because of these two thoughts, she not only tortured herself, but also tortured someone she once loved.
Some people say that Virgo loves "deep",In my opinion, this is a kind of "unwillingness and revenge."
When love is gone, the "understanding" who is still unwilling to leave is undoubtedly the "most familiar stranger".
Virgo, who is already anxious, will be even more anxious, and she who has a bad temper will be dragged down by this "continuous and chaotic" relationship.
In the end, the bamboo basket fetched water for nothing.
The above are the three constellations that are easy to "deep into the quagmire" because of feelings.
I don’t know if you have friends from these constellations, and have they encountered such love again?
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I wish you all: Happy mood and good luck!
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