When we often hear people talking about cars, especially when talking about power, we will talk about [small horse pulling a big car] or [small horse pulling a small car] to discuss the performance of cars.
Pony means that the driving system of this car is small, while the large car means the overall weight of this car. A car has a low power but heavy body, which will lead to many problems such as slow start and poor power. This is the characteristic of [a small horse pulling a big car], and the opposite is true.
So many times, when buying a car, you must consider whether the drive system and the car match? Avoid the lack of power and subsequent weakness in the following situation.
As adults, we should also consider our state. For example, physical state and workplace state are psychological states. Are we in a state of [a small horse pulling a big cart]? Whether it is powerless, worried, distressed, or tormented...
No matter when and where, we must try our best to keep in the state of [a big horse pulling a small cart], because this is the most labor-saving and healthiest state, which will allow us to face it calmly, with the least risk and the lowest psychological pressure.
The body state of [Big Horse Pulling a Small Car]
Why do you want to write this [Adults, don’t pull a Small Car] topic is precisely because of the decline in physical condition as you grow older:
went to play football last night, and after playing for two minutes, I was out of breath and couldn’t run. Seeing the young people running all over the field and being exhausted, I could only watch off the field, expressing a good feeling of youth. Later I thought about it, at this age, the weight of adults is accompanied by the decline in cardiovascular performance, which is equivalent to the heart turning from a horse into a pony, and the body turning from a small car into a big car, and the overall performance declines seriously.
So adults must take care of their bodies and always maintain the state of [a big horse pulling a small cart]. Whether it is exercise or life, they can maintain the best state, and they can always be in the positive cycle.
is like Wang Shi strictly controls carbohydrate diet to keep your body in the best state. Adults must control their weight, refuse to gain weight and bloated bodies, and make their body like a car; at the same time, they must adjust their cardiovascular status to the best, do not overeat, do not eat, do not sing, do not sing every night, refuse to have three highs, and refuse to be obese, so that they can have a healthy operating system of heart, blood, digestion..., like a galloping horse.
[Dama pulling a cart] in working state
is deferred from the physical state to work. In fact, the working state is also best in the [Dama pulling a cart] state, which can be more calm.
But in fact, many people are often in a state of [a small horse pulling a big cart]: in the fields you are unfamiliar with, you lack professional ability and experience, you cannot establish your own voice, and you lack authority and guidance to the team...
Don’t try the work fields you are unfamiliar with, but you must continue to deepen along the professional path and establish your own skills and experience system. Whether in professional and technical abilities, writing abilities, communication abilities, management abilities, emotional control abilities, etc., you need to be the ultimate, be the most professional, and you can easily control it!
Mental state [Digital horse pulls a cart]
Just like working state, the mental state must also be maintained in the state of [Digital horse pulls a cart].
Many people will say, why should the mental state be separated from the working state? Generally, isn’t the working state determining the psychological state? Most are, but there are differences.
Work status depends on professional ability, and there will not be too many situations relying on psychological status (of course some senior leaders need it); and psychological status depends on one's own big heart, which is related to personality, pattern, cognition, experience, emotions, etc. The good or bad of a person's psychological status is sometimes just a matter of thought.
is like that classic donut story. Pessimistic people will regretfully say why there is so much missing when they see a hole in the donut, while optimistic people will excitedly look at the world from this hole and discover a different world!
You must keep your mental state in the best state, be optimistic, be good at giving up, be firm will, be fearless, be willing to blame the past, and have a short period of the future..., live firmly in the present and effectively control all kinds of situations!
Get rid of the state of [small horse pulling a big cart] as soon as possible
Of course, a person's life cannot always be in the state of [small horse pulling a big cart], whether it is physical, work, or psychology... Sometimes, you must upgrade from [small horse pulling a big cart] to [small horse pulling a big cart] or even to [small horse pulling a big cart]. A person's growth, experience, and experience accumulation..., [small horse pulling a big cart] is a must-have road.
However, middle-aged people must try to avoid or shorten this process so that they can do things leisurely, relaxed, and feel comfortable:
1. Try to defer
on the original basis
Adults, try to avoid working in too large fields, such as from R&D to finance, from sales to production, it is not that they cannot succeed, but too much effort is required, and they will encounter too much resistance and pressure, and their self-confidence will be greatly hit.
Adults must first expand their advantages, and then expand around this advantage, and find professionals to make up for their shortcomings. You must never break corn like a bear, throw it away, and end up with nothing left.
2. Quickly get familiar with the new environment
Any new field of things will have a [tractor start effect]. People born in the 1980s should have seen old tractors. They need to take a handle, insert it into the diesel engine, and then turn it with all their might. At this time, the most effort is put in. After the diesel engine starts, it becomes easy, and it only takes driving to control the direction.
The most rare thing is when everything starts and changes, and the most effort is required. But once you get on the right track, the personnel are in place and each performs its own duties. The system, system, process, and platform can operate on its own. Then you only need to pay attention to key events and don’t need to do it yourself!
In any new field, you must quickly enter the role: grasp the key points, put in more effort than usual, quickly accumulate experience, improve your skills, obtain key resources, and let yourself pass the novice stage in the shortest time.
3. Don’t let negative energy occupy the heart
In the past two years, we have heard too much negative energy, lying flat and admitting guilt... In fact, it is to give up efforts and struggle when facing pressure. Just like when [a small horse pulls a big cart], it is not about how the pony turns into a big cart, but about how to turn a big cart into a small cart (it is no problem for the body, but for life and work, it means reduced resources).
Difficulties are the ladder for life growth, and headwinds are the driving force for kites to fly. Only by overcoming difficulties and flying against the wind can we achieve growth; only by avoiding difficulties and going downstream can we only remain still or even retreat.
When facing difficulties, the first thing is to do within one's ability and clarify whether one's own strength and resources can solve the problem; then face the difficulties, layout, gather momentum, organize, overcome difficulties..., and plan and solve problems step by step.
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