A 5-year-old kindergarten girl uses a professional camera to film and observe small animals. It can be seen from the picture that the bulk of the camera is in sharp contrast with the girl's young figure. But the little girl's technique and posture when operating the camera looked very professional.
The girl's father told reporters that the camera lens is worth 500,000 yuan. His daughter watched his daily photography work and learned how to operate it through and . Looking at her appearance, I decided to train my daughter to become a little photographer in the future. Netizens were envious of this and discussed it a lot. Someone made an interesting comment: "The teacher looked at 512G's homework and fell into deep thought."
This report made me think: What impact will parents’ careers have on their children?
The impact of parents' occupation on children
There is a big data statistical analysis on the Internet, and the conclusion is: the combination of educators and civil servants is easier to train children into academic masters . It is easy to understand. Educators have educational experience and can apply mature educational concepts to children, avoiding detours. Civil servants have more time and can have enough time to accompany their children.
From the perspective of educating children, this is indeed the case. This combination can provide a lot of help and guidance for children in their growth process, and they have a higher chance of becoming academic leaders. Is it really? Maybe academically, but what about other aspects?
1. My civil servant father
When I searched for the term "The impact of parents' occupation on children", there was such an answer on Zhihu. The author talks about the influence his father, a civil servant, had on his growth. He saw the "style" of his civil servant father, which led him to the final conclusion: I think is really ugly , and I will never be a civil servant in the future.
Civil servants have always been the target of competition among many people because civil servants are stable and have good welfare benefits. And those who can pass the civil service examination are also high-quality talents. But judging from what this netizen shared, the impact on him was negative and profound.
2. My delivery driver mother
"My mother shuttles through the streets and alleys of the city every day. She is a delivery worker...". This is a 13-year-old boy standing on the stage introducing his mother to his classmates and teachers. No inferiority complex, no avoidance, no hesitation.
He said that his mother works very hard every day in order to be able to deliver takeaways to everyone on time. But sometimes we still encounter unreasonable customers who leave bad reviews and make trouble without reason. When
was telling the story, the boy's words showed distress. He said that having these figures in the city provides convenience to everyone, and should respect the profession.
and developed a habit, realized that to mother is not easy , he would give those sanitation workers or grandparents micro smile when he walked on the street. Because he hopes that other people can be like him and show kindness to hard-working mothers.
Compared with the previous father who was a civil servant, this mother’s job is unstable and even less impressive. But the child was not adversely affected by this, but became softer and stronger inside. It can be seen that what can affect children is not their parents' careers, but their attitudes towards career and life!
Children grow up watching the backs of their parents
I have told many people: children are all and grow up watching the backs of their parents . This is an inconspicuous line from a TV series many, many years ago, but it affects me to this day. So much so that after having children, I will use this sentence to regulate my behavior.
Children are like a ball of white dough, which can be kneaded into various shapes, and what they will become in the end, parents play a decisive role in . In the process of children's formation, how parents knead them is the key.
At the beginning of the article, a 5-year-old girl is standing in front of a camera that is bigger than herself, operating it in a decent manner. No matter what is presented in the final work, what can be seen is that the father's daily photography appearance , serious attitude took root and sprouted in the child's heart.
Maybe she can become an excellent photographer, a director, or a painter in the future. No matter which one, it is related to the way she saw her father when she was a child!
Children really grow up watching the backs of their parents. Their behavior, choices and attitudes towards work when they become adults are inseparable from their parents. So, no matter what job you are engaged in, please establish a correct value system for your children!
Use career to help children establish values
What is the relationship between children's values and their parents' career? How to use their careers to help them establish correct values? Faced with this problem, many people will definitely have doubts. In fact, it is very simple, it is your attitude towards yourself and other people's work.
First of all, don’t complain about work in front of your children.
When my nephew was in the third grade, he wrote the essay "My Wish". This was a wish that our whole family had never imagined. He said that when he grows up, he will be a happy fruit shop owner like his father. My sister-in-law didn't know whether to laugh or cry, and secretly said to me, "This is such a hopeless hope."
But I was very touched. In fact, my brother works very hard every day. He has to buy goods before dawn. When carrying fruits for delivery, he is often dirty. But he has never complained in front of his children about how tiring this job is. Perhaps because of this, his nephew's wish is so simple and cute.
And my sister-in-law's behavior also moved me. She did not had directly refuted in front of the child: What kind of useless wish are you doing? Instead, he quietly "complained" with me. No matter what kind of career the child will engage in in the future, he will grow up in a stable family atmosphere with a happy attitude and positive values. This is the cornerstone of the child's growth.
If you keep complaining about your dissatisfaction at work in front of your children, or do some bad influence in front of your children, maybe when they grow up, your children will be like the netizen above and disdain your father's work and character.
Secondly, let children feel the value of different professions.
There is no distinction between high and low professions in the world, whether it is a photographer, a civil servant, a delivery person, or a fruit shop owner, because has , every profession , world is only , becomes , becomes fresh Live , has power . People who work in every profession use their own values to make this profession even greater.
As a parent, you can educate your children to study well and have more choices in the future. However, you cannot belittle any profession in front of your children. Instead, you can let your children feel the different professions in the process of growing up. 's values , and gives respect to .
Parents cannot predict what career their children will have in the future. They just try to do a good job in their own career and leave a good example to their children so that they can have goals and benchmarks on their way to growth!
Conclusion:
Many years ago, I complained about my parents’ careers, thinking that their careers did not bring me any insights or help. It wasn't until I became a mother that my perspective slowly changed.
Perhaps my parents’ careers did not broaden my horizons and increase my knowledge, nor did they provide me with more professional guidance on my growth path. But their attitude towards career has deeply influenced me, making me work conscientiously, continue to learn and grow in my career. It is precisely because of this influence that I have my current career.
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