This is a sharing I made in the [Weiwei Growth Companion Sharing Session] community, and I share it with you here, hoping to inspire you.
Today we will talk about the development of parent-child reading habits (children), because there is a lot to be said about parent-child reading.
My official account is small and I am sure that there are a lot of articles written on it, and some friends still say, I hope I can talk about it, maybe the effect will be better.
I also sorted out, this is mainly for children, it is some key points for children before kindergarten, of course, many are general, but there will be omissions, if you still have questions, you can come to me at any time, I will gradually to perfect.
I wrote parent-child reading, mainly because my daughter could read picture books by herself when she was four years old, and then when she was five years old, she read 433 pages of " Hillier Talks about the History of the World " by herself, so this is the point. Tell everyone about it.
is also a little bit of experience in learning
together. I hope it can inspire you. It is mainly divided into three aspects to share with you:
First, why should you read it?
Everyone knows that reading is very important, but have you ever thought about this issue? I personally consider
, there are mainly three points:
1. Realistic problems.
One is grades, and self-confidence, because now I have to go to school, I am facing the pressure of grades and further studies.
Everyone hopes that their children can get good grades, and if they get good grades, they will also cultivate their self-confidence, especially if you can read and write, this advantage will be very obvious in elementary school, because many children can't read Questions, questions can not be read, the natural test is not good, which will cause a great blow to the child's self-confidence.
2. is lifelong learning.
We know that the current society has changed a lot, and lifelong learning is what we have to do all the time. There is a learning ability involved, and the society has changed a lot.
But if we have super learning ability, the world is changing, and we can all keep up with the trend, then what is there to be afraid of? Do we all want our children to have this ability?
3. is to accompany.
No one can accompany another to the end of life, even if you love your children, so what should we do?
In fact, we can help children develop the habit of reading, and let books accompany him. Books have answers to all questions. Books are the ladder of human progress. Books can become his friend and his mentor.
And the most important thing is that books will never leave him and will always accompany him. When he is sad, books can bring him comfort and accompany him until the end of his life. This is what we do Parents cannot accompany her for life, but what we can do for him is to help him develop a habit that can accompany him for life.
Second, how to do it?
I still want to emphasize that internal drive is the biggest driving force for learning.
Chairman Mao said a sentence in "The Power of the Heart": The world, the universe and even all things are driven by the power of thinking.
In fact, in my opinion, has no interest that cannot be guided, only incorrect methods.
1. Lead by example .
We are ourselves, we as parents have to lead by example, if you don't like reading, you can't raise a child who loves reading.
I have a sister, her son likes to read books very much, how did he do it? When her son was very young, as soon as she got home, she would take a book and read it. Even if she couldn't read it, she would read it for a while.
No matter whether she liked reading books or not, her son really developed a Very good reading habit, because the child is curious, he will be very interested: what are mom and dad doing?
If you're playing with your phone, he'll grab your phone, right?
If you are reading, will he come and grab your book? You can try it out.
2. Create the environment.
This is very important, take your children to play, whether you go to the playground, or you can choose to go to a bookstore or library with a very beautiful environment, this is our choice.
And when you are at home, books do not have to be placed on the bookshelf. Books can be placed in many places, such as the coffee table, desk, and sofa. Any place that a child can touch anytime, anywhere, he reads He might pick it up when he got it.
I have a little coup that I have tried and will share with you. Now my son is 18 months old. When he just stands there and doesn’t know what to play, I will find a book and throw it to him. He is basically 99 % will take it over and turn it over, everyone can try it.
is to create an environment for children to read anytime, anywhere, which is very important.
3. The specific method is .
The specific method I teach you is: to stay in suspense.
Actually, we have such experience, right? When we read books, listen to books, and watch TV, we often stop at the most exciting places, predict what will happen afterward, and listen to the breakdown below, and then the TV series will stop at the most critical places. Finish. How do you feel? Are you in a hurry? I really want to know what's going on in the back, if it's the same for children.
There are also ways to accompany your child to read. You must find a story that your child likes very much. When you read with him, in the most critical place, you can stop and say, Mom has something to do today, we will read it in a while Or read it tomorrow.
Then you put the book down and walk away, what do you think the child will do? Will he pick up the book with a high probability and read it by himself, so the choice of this book is very important, be sure to choose one that the child particularly likes and interests him.
And for very young children, choose a book with more pictures and less words. If he is interested in this book, you can buy other books involved in this book and show him .
This is a point. If the interest of this point is cultivated, it can be a line, from point to line to surface, and a series of habits can be developed.
But the specific operation involves a very critical point, which depends on the specific situation to grasp by yourself, if you have any questions, you can also contact me.
What I want to remind here is this book, you don’t care what book it is, as long as the child is interested in the book, of course it is a positive book.
Because I had a chat with a mother before, she was also very concerned about her daughter's growth, but what is the extracurricular book she understands? It is a book related to learning. There is a misunderstanding in this. Children do not like to read such books, so when you let them read, they are definitely not interested.
Then you look for those that interest him. For example, if a child likes dinosaurs, then you can show him books about dinosaurs. If he likes robots, then read books about robots. No matter what it is, as long as he is interested, the market will Books like this can be found on the Internet, and children can read them.
3. Persistence with
The last point is to persevere. This is the most important thing. It takes time to develop a habit. If we have a bad habit, what is the best way to get rid of it? That is to replace him with another habit.
You can form a fixed pattern, fixed time, so how do I do it? I gave my child a book before going to bed. Now my little baby is 18 months old. After I wash him, I leave him on the bed, then cover the quilt and turn on the air conditioner, and then I will give him two books. book, he will turn it there.
He is 18 months old, he really can't read it, but it doesn't matter, he has developed such a habit, he will play books there, he will read, he finds it fun, he is interested, then wait for him Do you think he will fall in love with books when he is a little older?
So you can find a fixed mode, a fixed time, and develop such a mode, such as the bedtime mode.
Also, don’t swipe your phone when you have time. You can choose to read a book. You can read a book in five minutes, or you can read a book in ten minutes.
A few days ago, I got a book called "The Habit of Wealth", which is also mentioned above, almost all rich people have a habit, that is, the habit of persevering in reading.
And when you play with your child, he sometimes plays by himself, so what do you do? You can choose to read books, right?
Yesterday, I was with my baby. I watched "Rich Habits" while they were playing by themselves. In about ten minutes, I read 40 pages. In fact, this is something that all of us can do.
When you don't know what to do, then you read books. This is a good habit to set an example and cultivate children.
Today I shared with you why you should read and how to do it from three aspects. The most important point is to persevere, because reading has realistic needs, grades, self-confidence, and lifelong learning. We hope for good habits Can accompany children for life. How to do
, that is because of the needs of internal drive, so we must lead by example, to create an environment for reading, the specific method can be left in suspense.
The last point, the most important thing is to stick to it, form a fixed pattern, use one habit to replace another habit, and read it when you have time.
Today's sharing is here, I hope it can inspire you, I look forward to your review, and I hope you will give me feedback, thank you.
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