When my parents were kissing, they were bumped into by their children. How should they explain this to their children?

Our current family now pays much attention to children's education, and all kinds of education are given to children, but the lack of sex education for children. In sex education, it is always the children who listened to the teacher in the classroom to tell them a few words, and the parents are always absent in this area.

​​A few days ago, my friend was complaining to me. After I was comforted for a long time, I still saw her unhappy, so I kept enlightening him, and finally she told him the secret that she had always buried in her heart. She met a boy she liked very much and they fell in love. Later, my friend was very repulsive from the close contact of boys, and even felt that pulling hands made him feel uncomfortable. I asked him why he had such a reaction. He told me that when he was very young, he accidentally ran into his parents making each other in the room, and his mother felt very painful. He was extremely embarrassed. From then on, he was very embarrassed with boys and didn't know how to face boys.

​​In fact, many of us have gone through this kind of thing, waking up in the middle of the night or accidentally bumping into our parents making each other during the day, we would be surprised if we were young if we didn’t understand what this was, and was even scared to cry by our parents. Some of had no hands. Suffice it to say, when we encounter such a thing, we, as parents, see our child like this. We really just comfort the child or deceive the child. Will the child really forget it as the past? Does really gradually forget with age?

Many parents are when their children encounter this kind of thing. When children ask our parents about this kind of thing, we either keep silent or perfunctory in the past. , as parents, take the initiative to talk to their children. Things, we adults are all embarrassed and don't know how to express. Twitchy, we adults will talk too much to children, and children will leave a shadow, but we can’t grasp the size, and we don’t know how to compare sex education to children. We should give children correct sex education from an early age. What is sex education?

sex education has a wide range of meanings. It does not mean that it is only physical, but also psychological and spiritual. We have to establish for our children what is called sex education , to give children such as strangers When people want to hug you, they will do something to you, go to school, the male teacher asks you to take off your clothes, the kid takes off your pants, or someone wants to kiss you, etc., are all bad behaviors for you, we want Know how to protect one's own private parts, to be nurtured by children from an early age.

The purpose of sex education:

1, talk to children about sex, including our body’s private organs. There is also how we should be sexually oriented and how to prevent the spread of sexual diseases. As adults, we must lead by example.

2. Cultivate a good living environment and habits for the child, and let the child know when sex is right. Be very careful .

3. We teach children how to avoid being violated outside and learn how to protect themselves.

How do we have sex education for children?

1. How to protect privacy for children from an early age

​​Whether we are a boy or a girl, we should tell our children where the privacy part is, and others can’t touch it. If someone touches it at school, we must tell the teacher immediately, not to hold back I dare not say. It is also not allowed for others to undress or take off your pants, as well as to move your feet. They must be clear to the child.

2. Parents must set an example

​​We must set an example of sex education for our children. We try our best not to be shirtless at home, and try to be conservative and not too exposed. Let children have their own consciousness.

3, often supplement the knowledge of sex education to children

​​We can’t just give children sex education verbally, we have to find pictures from the Internet for children’s sex education, tell them with both pictures and texts, or parents can draw pictures for children by themselves. Children understand more thoroughly. If the child cannot understand, we can tell the child more simply.

4. Tell our children that we have to be brave and say "no"

​​We have to tell our children that only close parents can do privacy.Others can't move. We can't kiss others indiscriminately outside. For better children, we can only hold hands or give a hug.

​​When strangers want to hug or kiss us, or touch our private parts, we must bravely say no, and tell them if you are near me, I will tell the police or mom and dad, We can educate children in this way, so that they will not be harmed and have their own sense of protection when going out.

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​​When our parents are doing this kind of thing and they are seen by the children, we should enlighten the children and tell them frankly that in this kind of thing, parents are in compliance with the legal requirements, and they are in their hands. Holding a marriage certificate belongs to a spouse and has legal effect. Not considered as a sexual act.

​​Normally, we adults still pay attention to lock the door when making affection. After all, parents should not applaud their children to see you.

Correct sex education still needs parents to cultivate from childhood. We still have to educate children how to protect themselves and how to bravely say no. Bravely refuse to accept others.

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