took the baby article two
arrived at the hospital, the doctor diagnosed pneumonia, how can you get pneumonia? The baby's lower limbs and feet are hard and swollen? What is going on here? Why is it hard and swollen at home because of a bad mental state? Why is it so serious? I was born in an incubator and lived for 2 months, and went home only 10 days, that's it. After completing all the procedures, the doctor asked us to wait at the entrance of the intensive care unit. After everything was checked by the doctor, we could decide what to do. I think back to the 10 days of bringing the baby, what went wrong, maybe the weather suddenly turned cold yesterday, the baby was wrapped in three layers inside and three layers, covered with two thick quilts, it is impossible to freeze, right, and yesterday It was a little bit cooler than the day before yesterday. It was National Day and . This year’s National Day, the temperature was very high during those few days. I checked a lot of knowledge about premature babies and nursing knowledge on my mobile phone, and then I realized that the baby is indeed frozen. The baby is too small and there is almost no fat under the skin. The fat has the function of regulating temperature. The weather turns slightly cooler. In order to resist the cold, he must It releases heat, but there is no fat to regulate body temperature. The skin is outside the blood vessels, and the heat released is quickly dissipated. For example, if you change a diaper, he may need to warm his bedding for a long time to get hot, or even if it’s not hot at all. The warmth of the bag is not enough. The environment must be warm. That is, the air conditioner must be turned on and kept at a constant temperature. If the temperature is a little disturbed, he can no longer stand it. It may not be felt by adults. This symptom is usually that the newborn is discharged from the hospital. You will get sick in about 10 days, and there is a very professional name-neonatal scleredema. I have never heard of it. Outside the ward, I can't blame myself. In the afternoon, the check result came out. The boss is in serious condition and his lungs are black. He needs to use antibiotics directly. The second child is severely anemia and needs blood transfusion first. Then check later, and then decide whether to use antibiotics and sign a lot. The doctor asked us to go home first. One week later, I received a notice from the hospital that the second child is in a stable condition and can be discharged after a few days of observation. The boss needs a lumbar puncture and cerebrospinal fluid to see if he has contracted encephalitis. I'm really not a qualified mother. I didn't do my homework in advance for these things, so that the baby suffers from this crime, waist wear, how painful it is, and how much side effects it has for a weak life. Yes, the second child will be discharged from the hospital immediately. I have to clean up my house. I was staying at my natal house this time. This time I want to go back to my mother-in-law’s house. They didn’t agree to change the room before I went. My husband kept persuading me, they I know the seriousness of the matter and want me to go back. After so long, maybe I should have figured it out. Here is a small episode.
My husband and I were married in my hometown in the countryside. There is a small window on the north wall of the wedding house. There is no window on the south side. Then there is the door. It is a suite with no ventilation and no light. I want to live in another room. Because the baby is too young, the hospital has repeatedly confessed that, when going home, try not to go out, touch people, and try not to touch people. Mom will not touch people, so as to prevent the baby from infecting bacteria. The room is ventilated regularly and the baby is in the sun regularly. Husband is the only child. She told her mother-in-law about this matter. She agreed first, and then she disagreed. She said that this room was close to the gate of the yard. They wanted to guard the door to guard against thieves. But the fact is that there are other rooms. I can live, my mother-in-law disagrees, so I propose that the door of the main room should not be closed during the day, and some air can be passed into the room we live in. To raise two children, the room must be ventilated, otherwise it will take a long time. The smell, the mother-in-law said no, the door was open, and the mouse entered the room. I said that the small window in the room was the same as if it was not. There was no ventilation and no lighting. The baby was not living well. It was cold these years and could not go out. . My mother-in-law disagreed, and I couldn't help it, so when I was discharged from the hospital, I had to take the baby back to my natal home. I thought to myself that the baby was hospitalized for pneumonia for so long this time. They should have figured it out. Taking good care of them cannot guarantee that they will not get sick. Their attitude was that the room was vacated, and they didn’t express their opinions, nor were they too happy. The father-in-law was still saying something awkward. My anger didn’t come out. I asked the father-in-law whether he agreed or not, so I won’t live in my hometown. , I have a house in the county. I have a place to live. My father-in-law escapes and does not speak. I said that I must make it clear today. It’s a long time to mumble and be angry about this matter. My father-in-law sees me and says he listens. Mother-in-law. The mother-in-law was silent. Husband saw his dad being angry, and said something even more angry. The next day, I told Bao Dad about this in detail. He firmly believed that it had nothing to do with his mother. His father didn't agree to change the room and didn't even believe what I said. Dad Bao asked his mother. Her mother didn’t admit it. The three confronted each other. Only then did her mother admit that she did not agree and said she was wrong., Said the wrong thing. For the sake of things, for no reason, he fucked through the old accounts and said: That time your dad said what you said, and you couldn't help being angry like that, just say a few words to you, you are all angry, and I will take a nap. I have to mention this so-called old account-
is about my confinement, or this room. I was sitting in the month of the dog days. The weather was very hot. This room was not ventilated, which made it more stuffy. The air conditioner was turned on and the air conditioner changed the wind direction. Half a month has passed, and I feel that the joints on half of my body are uncomfortable. I want to change my room and try not to turn on the air conditioner to avoid confinement. But the mother-in-law said their rules are that they cannot change beds during confinement. I said otherwise, I stayed in that room during the day and came back at night, so I didn’t use the air conditioner so I didn’t feel comfortable anymore. Otherwise, my mother-in-law would not agree with me after sitting in the confinement. Khan, let alone see the cold, the mother-in-law changed the room now. Since then, my father-in-law has said nasty things over and over again. On the third time, I boycotted him: During the New Year, you didn’t live in this room for a few months, and you all have a place to live. It’s hot, stay a few days at most. If you don’t want to live in the house, just say, I will move out immediately. It’s not necessary to say nasty things several times. My mother-in-law meant that I shouldn't boycott my father-in-law. I saw that what my mother-in-law said became less and more unreasonable. I didn't answer her words and went into my room.
feels that I can’t cherish my forbearance, but I have to take my own words. I still feel uncomfortable here and there. I have nowhere to vent my anger. I think of pregnancy, father-in-law looking for things, mother-in-law’s inaction, and eating at this home is not even a good meal. My husband’s cowardice, I can only go to work with my husband, running around every day. For the 6-month-old twin pregnant women, no one in the house feels wrong. At 28 weeks, the baby almost can’t keep it. Weeping, I was afraid when I heard the hospital call. I can’t bear it anymore, I don’t want to bear it anymore. That night, I told them all they did when they were pregnant. It was noisy until midnight, and the grandson was in the hospital. You have no regrets. You still look like this, such a cowardly husband, I really feel that life is too difficult.
My second child was discharged first, and I took my baby back to my natal home again. The boss was discharged from the hospital a week later. When I came back, I found that the boss was not completely ill, and occasionally he still coughed halfway. I kept observing, but fortunately, it was not serious. Until half a month ago, I took my boss to the provincial women and children to check the hearing, and basically diagnosed neurological deafness. The doctor suggested that the doctor should return to the clinic after 2 months. If the diagnosis is confirmed, the treatment must be started. The baby is too young, and the development may be better. Wait for the best time for treatment. The boss kept coughing when he came back, and once again was admitted to the incubator in the intensive care unit. The eyesight of the two babies has always been poor. The doctor said that the eyesight of the babies will not be too good when they grow up. I am really not a qualified mother. On the night of the quarrel, I said, I don’t care about offending anyone. My child is the most important thing. You look like you. I will not come back to this place in the future.
looked at the sleeping cock in his arms, the boss was still in the hospital, and the cause of the cough could not be found out, so sad.
got married at the end of last year, and my mother-in-law wanted to treat me as a daughter, but I took it seriously. My husband is an only son. I thought that there would be no contradictions between a sister-in-law, and no contradictions between a sister-in-law, and I dare not. Married, afraid, we have known each other for a year and a half, if my husband vowed, after marriage, nothing will happen, he will deal with it, time after time, disappointment, then I remember clearly, but I am not sure if it is me What my husband said, when something happens, those who shrink back, those who are looking for things, those who add fuel to the jealousy, I am too weak on my own, and I feel too ironic. The baby
stayed in the incubator in the hospital for 2 months. When he came back, his head was very severe, and he basically slept on his side all the time. I hope it can be corrected. When
came back at home, my mother kept talking to me, probably, I have to be able to take care of the baby by myself, be capable by myself, rely on myself, learn to be strong by myself, yes, who else can I rely on?
The last day of the Year of the Rat, early morning, New Year's Day, I hope that in the following days, every day will be better.
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