Seeing this news really makes me heartbroken. In order to avoid further myocardial infarction, there are a few words here that I still don’t say: On the surface, the mother and daughter have good relationships; the intellectual mother who has outstanding ability and carefully cultivates her daughter, The daughter of excellent grades, quiet and sensible, such a family life, although not perfect, but also peaceful. How did you think that there is such a big human tragedy in peace? The tragedy of
takes place in an instant, but the tragedy can take many days or even years. The little guy who goes in and out under his parents' nose every day has quietly grown into a girl, a teenager.
However, how many parents' requirements for their children have never changed-obediently, how many parents give their children the highest praise, it is almost how many children feel hurt.
Children have not experienced the adult world, so they can’t empathize with our pressure and hardship.
But we have come all the way from childhood. We should still remember the confusion and rebellion in our youth growth. How quickly we became like the parents we didn’t like when we were young. It's for your own good", and shut up: "You have to listen to me".
On the surface, the child is obedient, but the price is that the heart is getting further and further away from you.
Many parents admit that they don’t understand what their children are thinking. Good grades, special skills, and not causing trouble for yourself are the only criteria for a good boy.
So what is a good parent?
Many parents feel that they are good enough, and even feel wronged: "We were beaten back then, and they couldn't scold them? And when we were young, how could they have such a good life now? What do we want. These children are just squeamish. , I don’t know how to be grateful, I have no sense of responsibility." Is this really true of
? Have you heard what they think?
Go to the campus and listen to the decibels when the children are clamoring and laughing together. Frankly speaking, I admire the eardrums of all teachers. Have they been thickened and strengthened? Those noises are the symbol of vitality, and youth is boiling and flowing. How can
have children who do not want to talk? They just don't want to tell you, because your request is to let them only listen to you! What a pity
, obedience and obedience have accumulated a little bit of gloom and despair in the young hearts.
Stop asking children to be obedient, let us open our hearts and listen to their voices quietly to prevent the tragedy from happening again.
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