I don’t know when it started. In busy cities, raising children has become a luxury. This is not only a luxury of money, but also a luxury of parental time and energy.
Most parents both have to work full-time to raise a child, and grandparents have become the most helpless choice for parenting.
is followed by a large number of inter-generational parenting problems. The two generations cannot reconcile the differences in parenting concepts, parents cannot establish parenting authority, the elderly have limited energy, and the lack of parental companionship has laid hidden dangers for the growth of children. So how should we avoid the disadvantages of intergenerational parenting in modern society and create a warm intergenerational parenting environment? In fact, all problems will be solved as long as the scientific division of the roles of parents and grandparents is achieved.
Families who need to raise children across generations must have a clear concept. In any period of the child’s growth, the education of the child must be done by the parents themselves, and no one can override it.
Grandparents need to help only take care of their children's daily life during their parents' working hours, enjoy the family happiness, and leave to the children's parents to the greatest extent in educating children, and must not compete for parenting authority of parents.
This is exactly the sense of boundary in psychology. The sense of boundary between family members is subtle but very important.
As parents, parents must have a sense of responsibility. They must not give their children full power to the elderly. When outside of work, try to bring the children by themselves. Even if you go out to party and do errands, you must bring them with you.
can’t take care of the children personally, but also try to understand the situation of the elderly taking care of the children as much as possible, and grasp all the contents of the children’s lives. This will not only relieve the elderly from the pressure of taking care of children, but more importantly, be the leader in educating children. By establishing a clear sense of boundary for children and the elderly, it also establishes its own authority in educating children, and the harm of child-raising in the next generation is naturally dispersed.
In short, parents should take up their due responsibilities in inter-generational parenting, let grandparents only enjoy the fun of grandparents, create a warm family environment, and let children grow up without worry!
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