In recent years, as more and more Internet addiction incidents have appeared in the newspapers, the construction of a green network, and the moral education work of guiding primary and middle school students to surf the Internet reasonably and healthily has received more and more attention from the whole society. While the school strengthens guidance and the network environment strengthens purification, parents' strengthening of supervision and guidance of their children also cannot be ignored.
is so-called "prescribe the right medicine". In order to effectively avoid children's addiction to the Internet, parents must first understand: Why are more and more children addicted to the Internet? Psychological analysis of
is like a blind person’s vision disappearing, but the sense of smell, hearing and touch will compensate for vision and become abnormally sensitive. There is also a compensation mechanism in people’s psychological needs.
Therefore, from a psychological point of view, if children's psychological needs cannot be met in reality, but they are better satisfied on the Internet and make up for the lack of reality, they will find it difficult to resist the temptation of the Internet. To put it simply,
is what the child does not get in real life, so he turns to the online world to get it. Knowing this is the main reason why children are addicted to the Internet, the measures parents can take to this are actually very obvious.
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increase effective companionship
I don’t know when, whether it is between colleagues, classmates, friends, or family members, even if they are in the same place, it has become the norm to just face-to-face swiping phones. This is also the most common problem faced by many parents when they are with their children. This kind of formal companionship is obviously ineffective.
Effective companionship necessarily requires interaction between parents and children. Even in the most ordinary life, parents can share discussions with their children. For example, after the child comes back from school, ask "Did you have a good time in school today?" Or hold your child when the child looks unhappy, ask him what happened, and let the child know that he is being cared for and In love. Another example is to confess your fatigue to your child after a tiring day at work, and ask the child to help him beat his back and squeeze his shoulders so that the child feels that he is trusted and needed.
At the same time, parents should refrain from talking about learning and grades, and adjust their attitudes towards their children based on their children's performance. In this way, children will not only be able to seek care, identity, presence, or even "online dating" on the Internet.
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supports correct dating
In the current group of primary and middle school students, only children still account for the majority. They do not have peers at home. Most of their parents do work parties for five days off and two. It is difficult to have common topics with grandparents, grandparents, and grandparents. Therefore, simple and fast online dating methods are favored by them. Full of lies and hidden dangers of privacy leakage.
Therefore, parents must carefully guide their children to realize that choosing friends carefully and making friends on the basis of mutual understanding is a necessary means to protect themselves, and online dating cannot to a large extent do this.
In order to expand the scope of children’s friendship in real life and let children experience happiness in real friendship, parents can help children open up more friendship opportunities, such as meeting with friends and colleagues to take their children out, and encouraging children to participate in school or community Organize summer camps, winter camps, or participate in public welfare lectures or activities with children, get to know other families, etc. When children have as many like-minded friends as possible, they will spend more time doing things they are interested in with friends rather than on the Internet.
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Encourage being close to nature
In the online world, children can see the world and hear all kinds of sounds, but other sensory organs such as touch and smell are actually unsatisfactory. This is the necessity and feasibility for parents to encourage their children to get close to nature.
What parents can do in this regard is to lead or push their children to get out of the room more, push down the roads around the community, take a walk in the park, and enjoy the beautiful scenery in scenic spots. On working days when there is little time to go out, children are not unable to get close to nature. When they are tired of studying, they stop writing to listen to the birds and insects outside the window, smell the smell of grass and earth in the air, or Taking care of a lively and cute pet at home and cultivating a vigorous green plant are all good choices.
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regulates online behavior
network has a certain degree of "demonization" in the minds of many parents. In fact, as a tool for information dissemination, the Internet will broaden children's horizons and enhance children's abilities in all aspects if used reasonably. The key is that parents should know how to establish rules for their children, and agree with them the length and main purpose of using the Internet each day to ensure that children have a healthy browsing environment.
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