Do you want to be an "angel" or a "devil" in the next life

You have to be sensible, I have heard this sentence since childhood. When I was chatting with my mother a few days ago,

suddenly talked that when I was a child, relatives kept saying in my ear: Your father loves your sister, and your mother loves your brother. You are the second child, the one no one hurts. Although

was young, he still engraved this sentence deeply in his mind.

has been thinking since then, I have to be sensible, or my parents will not want me. In fact, part of the reason

thought so at the time was because every time parents got angry, they pretended to shut us out, and then they opened the door to pick us back later. It's funny thinking about it now.

Mom laughed and said, the palms of the palms and the backs of the hands are all fleshy, how could her child not hurt. The aunt next to

said again: How can there be absolute fairness, there will always be selfishness, and will always hurt one more and the other less.

In fact, when I grow up, I know in my heart that the love of our parents will always be there. It's just that a crying child has candy to eat. Because of being "sensible", it seems that I have had very little preference since I was young.

As a girl, you have to be sensible.

You need to be sensible when you are an adult. Brother

is still young, you have to be sensible.

You have to be sensible when your parents are old.

However, being sensible is not about understanding others. What

does must be carefully weighed, for fear of making others unhappy.

When we were young, the parents took us to go shopping with our cousin. I saw a dress that I like very much in the window. I took a look at the tag and thought it was very expensive. My mother and aunt asked me if I like this dress. I pretended to be dispensable and said that I didn’t like it very much. , And the cousin looks like she can't buy it and won't leave. Finally, I was sensible and saved money for my mother. The cousin got the skirt.

I have found that I have changed in the past few years, and I don't want to be the sensible and good girl in everyone's eyes.

I ran to Shenzhen alone without telling my parents and told them when I stabilized.

I am wronged at work and I can take a long vacation to relax, or even resign.

Friends are not happy anymore, no matter how many years of friendship, I can say no or no.

is no longer the same as before, because it caters to others sensibly and everywhere.

Our life is not a sequel to our parents, let alone a friend's extravaganza, but our own responsibility for our life. When

grew up, I began to act like a baby in front of my parents. Obviously, the effect is very significant. Dad would peel the shrimp before giving it to me. Mom would coax me when I was angry. When

grows up, I seem to have lost a lot of friends, but I don’t need to be wronged to maintain the friendship.

People always call children's unwillingness to talk back, youth's courage as rebellion, adults' cowardice as Gu Quan's overall situation, and the word I hate to describe a person is called sensible.

In fact, sensible children are really tired, and good girls only get the word "good". The bad girl got everything.

may be involuntarily in front of many things.

But you have been tossing for so long, have you ever really lived for yourself?

Do you want to be an "angel" or a "devil" in the next life