Xinya's son is in elementary school . After the double reduction policy, she obviously felt that her child's homework had decreased. Logically speaking, keeping less homework in is to reduce the burden on the child , which should have been a good thing, but Xinya is frowning about it. "When I left a lot of homework in the past, my child studied all night. now has no homework and I don't learn anymore. "
Xinya discussed with her husband, "There are no cram schools now. is better for us to hire a tutor for the child , so that the child's time at night will not be wasted." Xinya's husband didn't understand his wife's suggestions , "If you ask for a tutor, you can't help but feel free to do it." Xinya's husband didn't understand very much about his wife's suggestions, "If you ask for a tutor, you can do it." As for tutoring, the child may be more tiring than before the double reduction policy! "
When he heard his husband say this, Xinya responded dissatisfiedly, " Are you afraid that the child will be tired, so why aren't the child left behind? Our child only cares about playing after school, and other people's children are working hard to learn!" Xinya's husband was criticized by his wife and couldn't take the for a while. He clearly felt something was wrong, but he couldn't say what was wrong?
Xinya found her son’s class teacher and hoped that the teacher could help her introduce a better tutor . After the teacher figured out the whole story, was very helpless. "The double reduction policy is to reduce the burden on children, and it is also to create more opportunities for parents to carry out family education in . At this stage, can really help children to open the gap. It is parents' attention to their children's education , rather than repeatedly using education to others."
Not only that, the head teacher also provided reference for Xinya, saying that the three periods of night should be paid attention to, and the gap between children and classmates can be opened. After listening to it, Xinya suddenly realized and immediately started to do it. After a period of time, her child's grades have indeed improved significantly. After the double reduction policy of
, family education is also more important.
After children enter school, the forms of education they receive are more diverse. The participation of school education has made some parents even more ignore the importance of family education .
But in fact, in the process of children's growth, the impact of family education far exceeds school education and subsequent social education. The educational guidance given to children by parents affects their personality formation, interest mining, value cultivation, and future development.
It can be said that the implementation of the double reduction policy has made parents strive for more time to accompany their children , and parents have more channels and ways to enter their children's inner world.
Tips: Nowadays, children generally have precocious thoughts. Parents’ company gives family education guidance more opportunities to discover problems in time and help children get out of confusion.
3 hours in the evening is the prime time for family education. Parents should grasp
to make good use of their children's evening family activities and give full play to the superiority of family education. Only parents who can do these things are truly educated. At any time, parents cannot have the idea of using education to others, because the best guide in their children's lives is their favorite parents.
Parents can divide their children's spare time after school into 3 whole sections, and make full use of this period, a rare prime time for family education.
Time period 1: From 6 to 7 pm
Parents can accompany their children to for a hearty dinner . The is sitting together for a meal with a warm atmosphere . The conversation during this period can help parents better understand the living conditions of children in school, and the problems they are eager to deal with.
Time period 2: From 7:00 to 8:00 pm
Parents can accompany their children to complete homework . In fact, with the company and tutoring of parents, it is easier for children to develop the excellent habit of studying hard.
For children in primary school, parents' supervision and tutoring has a very important influence. Children at this stage have limited concentration and are prone to being stimulated and distracted by the outside world. With the supervision of parents, children can learn seriously and devote themselves to .
Time period 3: 8 pm to 9 pm
This period can be set as Family reading time . Parents accompany their children to browse some books that they are interested in. This not only helps children develop the habit of reading , but also can helps their interests to mine . Compared to playing with mobile phones, the benefits of reading to children are self-evident.
In terms of reading books, I recommend the books my own children are reading. When we go to kindergarten, we will read "40 Bedtime Stories" in total. This set of books was placed on the bedside before the child went to kindergarten, accompanied him to graduate from kindergarten, and gave it to his best friend's children.
This set of books shows children some small details in life in three-dimensional ways from the perspective of character cultivation, habit development, emotional intelligence enlightenment, etc. For example, "Don't Feed Mom", the theme is to cultivate children's habit of eating independently.
After reading this book, my child told me that he would not need to feed his mother in the future, and he could also eat by himself like a bear. There are also themes such as wearing clothes, washing face, drying quilts, brushing teeth, etc., which are of great help to establish children's early life habits.
My child was very timid. After reading the story of the little gray eagle, he told me that I will spread my wings and fly by myself in the future, and the difficulties will not be able to defeat me!
is a bedtime reading material at night. This set of books is great. Parents of kindergarten children at home can hang up and read it for their children. There are 100 volumes, with large characters and pinyin. Each story is different, and it will be fine for reading it for half a year.
If the child is in elementary school, it is recommended to read "I Love Reading Ancient Chinese". This set of books is also bought after the child is in the first grade. I am very satisfied with the paper and content, and I can also do aesthetic education, because the pictures above are all ancient and ancient, and the children like them very much.
Under the background of Chinese language education, the assessment of ancient Chinese language is more stringent, but the child will soon forget about it by reciting it. It is better to develop the habit of doing Chinese studies enlightenment every day, and you can arrange this set of books before going to bed and morning reading.
In order to deepen children's understanding, there is not only a translation, but also a part of the text to help children understand the background of ancient writing and the emotions the author wants to express. The text adopts a tone of elementary school students with strong affinity, just like a good friend is chatting with you. It is not easy to cause resistance, and children are more willing to read it.
small ancient Chinese are not long, and they are matched with annotations and pinyin. Even if you encounter words you don’t know, don’t worry. You can just read the pinyin. My son started reading before he entered the first grade. We memorized all the 120 small ancient Chinese essays in 4 books in 6 months. On average, less than one song a day is still there, and the child feels very relaxed.
Conclusion:
Smart parents know how to grasp the three time periods before going to bed to carry out family education output, and make full preparations for the gap between their children and their peers. Are you sure?
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