In life, it is really exhausting to get some children to raise their parents. On the one hand, they are very naughty, and on the other hand, they have many tricks. Anyone feels exhausted and doesn't know what to do. At first glance, the trouble caused by such children to parents is a bad thing, but in fact, there is an unknown benefit behind this, that is, most of these children are smarter.
The following three aspects, if the child performs more prominently and parents feel it is difficult for them to accept, it means that the child is smarter:
1. Have a strong curiosity
If your baby squats while watching the insects hiding under the grass leaves on a heavy rain, I don’t know what kind of behavior you will be as a parent, will you be more upset and want to call the child home immediately.
But if I tell you that this child has a strong curiosity, is a child with active thinking and can think deeply about problems, will you still bring the child back home arbitrarily?
When faced with this kind of child who is curious about everything and can persist in research, parents must protect their children's nature. Never be too violent or impatient with their children's behavior, but should guide them well, so that they can help their children achieve better results in the future.
2. Be able to question authority
For children, parents are authority, teachers are authority, and adults and elders are authority. It is naturally authority, and as the weak party, it is impossible to have objections, but to blindly follow. But some children are not like this. They are able to put forward their opinions and suggestions in the face of so-called authority. Many parents say they do not accept this approach that challenges authority. But this can show the child's intelligence, at least the child has the ability to think deeply.
3. Act as the "destruction king"
There is a destruction king in the family. I guess parents will be more broken, and even the family is messy, things are damaged, etc., which will make the children more excited and make the parents more distressed.
In fact, this type of destructive baby is a baby with good thinking ability, curiosity, and hands-on ability. They are interested in everything, not only look at it with their eyes, but also have to think about it, and they can't help but get started. As a result, the thing broke and their parents became angry.
Faced with bad babies who have the above behaviors, parents must not rush to criticize or scold their children, but should change their perspective and look at their children's problems with a calm mind.
If the child’s behavior is behind the advantages and talents, then we still need to protect the child.
Of course, if the child’s behavior is just without rules, then parents need to communicate and let the child understand his or her wrong behavior and be able to accept the fact that changes are true.
or above is for reference and learning only. Please do it under the guidance of professionals. On the road of parenting, we are all novices. How to better take care of children? You can follow me and discuss with me what happens on the road of parenting.
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