Early this morning, a friend asked me, do your child like to play games? I said: I like it, for a while, I was simply addicted. My friend immediately complained: Our child is deeply addicted. It’s okay to play during the holidays. Today I was at school and I got up late. I was ra

Early this morning, a friend asked me, do your child like to play games? I said: I like it, for a while, I was simply addicted. My friend immediately complained: Our child is deeply addicted. It’s okay to play during the holidays. Today I was at school and I got up late. I was racing against time to help him pack his schoolbag to avoid being late. He was fine. He even played games secretly when he was going to the bathroom. I couldn’t help it and beat him up. I'm so angry! While comforting this friend, I told him about the process of playing games and quitting games in our family. After talking, this friend was very excited and said he was reliable and said he would learn from it in the evening. Since my friend said it was reliable, I would like to share it, hoping to learn from more friends.

My child is very responsible for playing games. One day, the child came back from a good friend's house and said excitedly that it was so fun that they played a game today. Can I play with her in the future? I thought about the child. If you have fun things, you may forget it in a few days. Don't let it go, so I agreed readily. But on the next weekend, I didn’t expect my child to come up with old accounts and said that the game you promised me last week could be played? Me: I forgot if I don’t mention it...what game? Baby: " Plant vs. Zombies ". It turned out to be this game, and I liked it too. No problem. I immediately downloaded and installed it on my computer and downloaded it on my child's pad. The father and daughter had a lot of fun.

In the next few days, when the child was doing his homework, he paused to rest more and more times in the middle. Gradually, my mother and I discovered that before, the child basically read books, did manual accounts, did manual work, and listened to stories after finishing his homework. Now it's all about "Plant vs. Zombies". So, my mother and I took turns to work to talk about the harm of games: not only delaying learning, but also looking at the screen for a long time is very bad for our eyes... The child listened to our patient long speech and expressed his understanding. He realized that it was wrong to play the game, and my mother and I breathed a sigh of relief. But not long after, I discovered a more serious problem: the time for children to do their homework has been significantly longer, and they are secretly playing games!

When I saw this phenomenon, I was really surprised and angry. How did this originally "other people's kid" become like this? I really want to beat him up immediately. Fortunately, I was responsible for the IT team in my previous work, and most of the programmers, , are game enthusiasts, and they also play games secretly. So I know that being angry and angry is useless for those who are addicted to games, because since they are "secretly", they have already anticipated your opposition and your reaction after discovering it, so the storm is as expected by them. To solve the problem, it must be handled in a way that they expect and can truly “resonate” with them.

In the next few days, whenever the child appeared when I looked at the computer, I was exaggerated and panicked immediately. The child was still curious at first and insisted on seeing what I was looking at. But I tried my best to hold on to the computer and prevent her from reading it, and urged her to study quickly. Later, every time she saw me closing the computer in panic, she would smile strangely and go back to her room... I guess she would definitely go to play games after returning to her room, because the children nowadays are too smart, and she must have guessed that I was playing games, so she would play more at ease.

One night, I suddenly called the child's mother and the child together, with a solemn and frustrated expression, and I announced something: Actually, I have been watching computers for a lot of time recently, but have been playing "Plant vs. Zombies". I thought as an adult, I could arrange my time, but I didn't expect that the more I played, the more I wanted to play, and the more I played, the more I got lost control. I hardly cared about LL's study this week, and I didn't go to run at night. I regret it very much. Just now, I have deleted "Plant vs. Zombies" from the computer. I want to defeat it and my desire to play. I hope you two supervise me and help me correct my mistakes. The baby's mother was so tacit understanding that she immediately praised me and the child also applauded.

The next day, the child came home from school and stayed in his room for a while. He took pad and said to me, Dad, I have actually secretly played "Plant vs. Zombies" during this period, but I also deleted it today, you can supervise me. I immediately applauded the child and communicated with her about the negative impacts caused by playing games during this period...

On the night, I told the child the mother very formally about LL consciously deleting the game, and called to tell grandparents and grandparents. Everyone applauded and liked them, and asked the child to share the negative impacts of playing games they realized and how to overcome the attractiveness of the game... rewards do not have to be material, and the exaggerated sense of rituals sometimes make it easier to strengthen the positive energy of the child.

I was on the side just now when the child was having dinner. The child asked me, and the news said that this year's Nobel Prize in Physics was awarded to three scientists who have made outstanding contributions to quantum entanglement. So what is quantum entanglement? I thought about it and said: The so-called quantum entanglement is two particles or multiple particles, just like you, me, and mother. Once you meet and establish a close connection, it will form a solid whole. Even if one day you separate from us and go to another city or even another country, we will still be "entangled", care about each other, and telepathize...

pair, we and children are the quantum entanglements that we meet and love by chance, influence each other, change each other, and achieve each other. Since that's the case, let's spend more time making "entanglement" more meaningful.