Hello everyone, I am the senior family education instructor Ai Xin. During the process of children's growth, parents hope to cultivate their children into a very outstanding person in all aspects. In particular, a father pays attention to his children's growth, which will definit

Hello everyone, I am a senior family education instructor Love.

In the process of children's growth, parents hope to cultivate their children into a very outstanding person in all aspects. In particular, a father pays attention to his children's growth, which will definitely make his children successful in his career and live a life of success.

My cousin who was a philosophy professor in college often asked questions to her children from childhood, what kind of life do you want to live? Pay attention to the development of children's thoughts and let children understand from an early age that they want to live a rich life inside and outside.

His daughter started her business in college. Three years after graduation, she was already the co-founder of a large company. Everyone envies him very much and hopes that he will share some parenting methods. He believes that when a child grows up, if a father pays attention to three things, the child will be better.

Whether the child is excellent is related to the father. If the father pays attention to 3 things, the baby can benefit for a lifetime

First, pay attention to family education .

Parents hope that their children can become talented. However, there are not many parents who truly value family education!

There are even fewer fathers who attach importance to family education!

The ancients said: The best thing is to teach children. The most important thing for a family is to cultivate children into a well-educated and capable person. If your career is very successful, but your child is not guided correctly and is in trouble in growth, he may not feel the taste of happiness.

In "Unhappy", Season Yang Yang 's father left the child because of work when his son was a child. Ji Yangyang grew up with the company of his grandmother and uncle. When he was in high school, his parents returned to his children.

However, when parents and children are like strangers, the conflict breaks out when the things children like all the things they like are opposed by their parents! In order to understand the child’s thoughts, the father had to experience the child’s favorite driving racing , chatting with the child online, and then entering the child’s heart.

Only after the father understood his child’s thoughts did the family become harmonious.

When a father does not pay attention to family education, it is difficult for the child to manage and will deliberately do some strange things.

Fathers who attach importance to family education will guide their children to analyze what the real reason for making mistakes when their children make mistakes, and how to avoid making the same mistakes. Children can learn to deal with problems calmly, and learn to tolerate other people's shortcomings and grow up.

When paying attention to family education, fathers will affirm their children's progress, encourage their children's strengths, seize the good opportunity of children's education, and guide their children to become a person with sunshine and positive and optimistic hearts.

Second, accompany your children to develop reading habits.

Most children who truly can have a smooth life have the habit of reading.

famous investor Buffett partner Munger said: In my life, I have met smart people from all walks of life, and no one does not read every day - no, none of them.

When my child was a child, in order to make the child fall in love with reading, the family of three read the same book together, and the parents and children read a book called "Records of the Grand Historian". After reading for thirty minutes, the three people shared their reading experiences and taught their children to write reading notes.

Every time the child shares his or her experience, parents affirm their children's progress. The child also thinks that he or she is very good at reading, and his or her analysis of problems is accurate, and his or her self-confidence has increased greatly.

After the child falls in love with reading, when he encounters difficulties in his life, he takes the initiative to go to the library and find the answers he wants to know in the books with relevant content.

, respect family.

Only when the husband and wife relationship is higher than the parent-child relationship can the family be more harmonious. A father can respect his wife and accept his children's shortcomings. This is a manifestation of cultivation, and children can also learn to be decent and graceful.

in " Youth Pi " Lin Miaomiao's father has been guiding his children at important moments so that Lin Miaomiao can take the initiative to make peace with his mother when his father is not at home.

When Miaomiao had a conflict with her mother, her father calculated the time with him. Miaomiao realized that she was already in her third year of high school and had very little time to be with her parents. She only had very little time to study and rest, and she could also accompany her parents. Only by cherishing the good times in front of her can she miss the years she was with her parents.

When Miaomiao felt that her grades were poor and there was no hope for taking the college entrance examination, her father advised him that taking the college entrance examination can make you a better self, and you don’t need to compare with others. Only by working hard can you have no regrets, so that Miaomiao will return to campus and prepare for the exam.

Children will naturally grow up in a happy and warm family atmosphere, and will naturally be broad-minded, open-minded, and will not care about their own gains and losses because of some trivial matters. Only by being able to respect parents and others can children develop well in their careers and become an outstanding person.

If you want your child to become an excellent person, parents need to start with small things in life, affirm their children's strengths, and encourage them to find their dreams. In the eyes of children, fathers are people they can rely on. Becoming a role model for children will naturally make children not panic in their hearts and have strength to grow up!

In your family, who has a great role in educating children?

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