It has been one month since the kindergarten started school
How are the new children living?
Do mothers have any anxiety?
If a child is not adapted to the ranking list after entering the kindergarten
It is definitely the first place to eat in kindergarten
The case shared today
is a mother who is particularly anxious about eating in kindergarten
Question from a mother who is particularly anxious
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Can a three-year-old child not have enough food in school, can he ask the teacher to help feed him? what do I do?
My daughter eats very slowly, and she is the kind of person who likes to have a bite and runs. Every time she comes out of school, she tells me that she is hungry. I also asked the teacher that she doesn’t eat well at school and eats very little. I want the teacher to help feed her, but I am afraid that the teacher will find me annoyed. What should I do?
In fact, my mother still hopes that the teacher will help feed her, right? But I also know that there is a problem that the child cannot eat by himself after going to kindergarten. At the same time, I am also worried that if the teacher refuses this request, the child will have no way out in kindergarten and will really not be able to eat enough.
Believe in this problem, your relatives and friends will say that there is no need to find a teacher, so that the child can get better after a few days of hunger. You may have this idea yourself. It is normal for your child to be unadapted. If you just go to school, you should ignore it. Let your child know the seriousness of the matter after a few meals, so you can change it yourself. Some people may even show up and tell you that this is how your child adjusts.
Their experience is not wrong, but the key is that what mothers who give you these suggestions don’t know is that their children have nothing to do with eating. The method they think is effective is not very reference for you.
This matter is not a matter of whether the kindergarten teacher can help, but a child has not developed a good dining habit.
The problem is described in just a few words,
My daughter eats very slowly, it is the kind of
This is the key point! It's the root of the problem!
Are you chasing me at home? Coax hell? Do the kids eat and play? Why do children run away after taking a bite? Do you default and allow your child to eat at home and run a few laps before coming back to continue eating?
Kindergarten teachers usually take care of about 30 children with one teacher and 1-2 nurserymen, that is, one teacher takes care of at least 10 children. There is a time limit for lunch in kindergartens. The teacher must complete the meal collection, sharing, maintain dining discipline, pay attention to the safety of the children's food, make food for the children, and finally clean up the work. Do you think the teacher has the time and energy to run away when your child takes a bite, or you can't sit still at all during the meal time. The teacher patiently feeds it and then calls your child back to continue eating?
1 Children who have just entered the kindergarten in the small class are not good at eating by themselves. It is not a matter of being determined and it is quite common. After all, the child is still young, and it is impossible for the kindergarten to provide collective meals to take care of the dietary needs of children of different ages. For example, the food is cut into the larger class, and the smaller class is cut into the larger class, so the same meal can be eaten by children in the older class, but the younger class may not be able to eat well.
However, the child’s dining habits are not good. The teacher helps to feed the food and asks you to sit down, don’t move around, and don’t run away after taking a bite. Then I think, even if the teacher can do this, he may not feel happy in his heart.
Why don’t your child eat enough? Have you ever learned about the situation of children eating in kindergarten? Generally, kindergarten classes focus on cultivating children's ability to take care of themselves in life, and eating is of course one of them.There is no strict requirement for children who have just entered the kindergarten, but according to my understanding, the discipline during dining must be followed. Children will not be allowed to run around in the classroom during meal time, nor will they be allowed to wave with a spoon. Not to mention eating and playing, running around and affecting each other's meals, there is no guarantee of safety.
So this is the most basic one. Sit down and eat quietly, and your child will not adapt, let alone the difference between the collective meals in the kindergarten and the meals at home. If you notice that you say that the child eats slowly, it is impossible for the child to eat full in the kindergarten.
Children have no concept of time and have poor dining habits. According to our experience, it is very likely that there is a poor transition from swallowing to chewing. None of these items can be corrected by the kindergarten teacher for you.
Why don’t we recommend leaving the matter of correcting children’s meal problems to kindergartens? We have a very detailed article before. If you are interested, you can take a look:
Ask the teacher to help feed the food, the disadvantages outweigh the benefits for children. The only benefit of the teacher helping to feed the food is that the child looks full. But the disadvantage is
1. There may be a large spoon of feeding
2. There may be problems such as stuffing, pouring, and feeding quickly, which may affect the transition of children's swallowing-chewing and digestion
3. Parents are more likely to ignore the problem of children's eating
. So what you need to consider is not the problem of whether the teacher is annoying, but how to correct bad dining habits when children eat at home, solve the problem of slow eating of children, and help children adapt to the group meals in kindergarten!
I hope our sharing will be helpful to all mothers.
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