With the improvement of living standards, high-end services such as confinement centers have gradually entered the homes of "ordinary" people. The professional team serves 24 hours a day, tailor-made nutritious meals and the service attitude of "customers are God", making the con

With the improvement of living standards, high-end services such as confinement centers have gradually entered the homes of "ordinary" people.

Professional team serves 24 hours a day, tailor-made nutritious meals, and the service attitude of "customer is God", making the confinement center the best "safe haven" in the minds of postpartum mothers.

In order to allow themselves to have a comfortable confinement period, some mothers are willing to borrow money to go to the confinement center, which is called "having a child once in a lifetime."

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bor money to go to the confinement center

As the post-80s and 90s become mothers, they are more concerned about their own quality of life and are increasingly favoring to go to the confinement center for high-quality confinement.

As we all know, the charges for confinement centers are not cheap, and the price starts in tens of thousands of yuan. It is not uncommon for better confinement clubs to cost millions. Not all families can afford this "money-burning" service.

Recently, Mom saw a post online. A netizen shared his experience of a relative borrowing money for himself, saying that his relative planned to borrow 20,000 yuan from him to go to the confinement center for confinement and pay back the money when he goes to work.

Netizens were very incredible about this because as far as she knew, the relatives' family conditions were not good, and their parents-in-law were both farmers, and her husband earned 5,000 yuan a month when working in the factory. Is it necessary to borrow money to live in a confinement center of 20,000 yuan?

As a veteran, I know very well what the time after giving birth means to my mother. The trivialities of life and the hardships of taking care of children are really exhausting.

If conditions permit, going to the confinement center for confinement is certainly not an excessive requirement, but it is difficult to say that this move is rational if you don’t want to pay attention to the mother.

Raising children is a long-term money-burning project, and the subsequent expenses are only a lot more or less. If you are not financially careful, the family will easily fall into crisis.

is not impossible to consume ahead of time, but the actual situation must also be considered.

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confinement center is a postpartum "safe haven"?

In current society, some girls have regarded "whether to go to the confinement center after giving birth" as an important criterion for measuring whether a man can marry.

There is a question on Zhihu: Are poor girls not worthy of going to the confinement center?

The questioner is a girl with a monthly salary of 4,000 yuan and her boyfriend's monthly salary of 9,000 yuan. The questioner suggested to her boyfriend that she wanted to go to the confinement center in the future, but was disliked by her boyfriend, so she broke up in anger and went on a blind date.

But when she said she was going to the confinement center after giving birth, her blind date partner avoided it.

Girls believe that having children is a major event in a woman's life. If you spend a province elsewhere, the confinement center is not a very unreasonable requirement.

Having a baby is like breaking through the gates of hell. The trauma left on the body and mind after childbirth requires careful care, which is beyond doubt. It is also normal for mothers to be exhausted physically and mentally after giving birth to a baby. It is a desire to spend a comfortable, relaxed and happy confinement period.

But who says going to the confinement center can definitely ensure that the mother can gain a stable and comfortable confinement period? In recent years, due to the surge in demand and the industry has grown wildly, problems such as substandard centers’ sanitation standards, false propaganda, and doubts about personnel qualifications have emerged one after another.

Is going to the confinement center worry-free or upset? Just like opening a blind box, it all depends on luck.

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is the most important thing for you

In recent years, due to the vigorous publicity of confinement centers and the sharing of celebrity hot moms, ordinary people have an infinite yearning for confinement centers. In addition, the traditional confinement has accumulated over the years, confinement centers have naturally become a "safe haven" that postpartum mothers desire.

But if you don’t want to go to the confinement center, it’s more important to look at your actual situation. It doesn’t matter if you have enough ability to experience it. If you don’t have enough ability, you can still have a good confinement at home.

Not mother did not go to the confinement center because of limited conditions, and spent a high-quality confinement period at home. In order to reduce family conflicts and the hardships of caring for children, my mother hired a professional confinement nanny . She was responsible for making confinement meals for me, taking care of my baby and helping me with postpartum recovery.

The family is responsible for logistics support and learn from the confinement nanny how to take care of the baby. The family divides the work and works happily. After the confinement nanny left, the whole family still cooperated and took good care of my baby and I.

A loving family can bring happiness to mothers more than a confinement center.

The mess of life. The confinement center can help you resist for a while, but it cannot last for a lifetime. In the end, you have to pick it up bit by bit and tie it into a beautiful feather duster.