People often say that families with many children have many disputes. Although parents love each of their children, how many parents can keep a bowl of water balanced so that every child will not be wronged?
We all know that a smart and cute child is the most popular, but not all children are lively, cheerful and outgoing. There are many introverted children who dare not express their inner thoughts, and such Children are often the most neglected by their parents.
The so-called children who can't cry don't get candy. Parents often focus on the child who can cry and make trouble, thus automatically ignoring the well-behaved children. Isn't this kind of biased?
Recently, a woman in Chongqing showed off on the Internet that her mother-in-law thinks of herself in everything. After the child's milk powder is finished, her mother-in-law will call her eldest son and ask him to pay for it. This move makes the woman very touched and... I lamented what I had done in my previous life to meet such a wonderful in-law.
It is reported that the woman’s husband is two brothers, and there is also an older brother at home. Since the father-in-law has been away for a long time, the mother-in-law has been raising the two sons alone. Finally, the two brothers have married and have children. Most of my mother-in-law's tasks have been completed.
After the woman got married to her husband, she also gave birth to two children. In the years after the marriage, the woman has been living with her mother-in-law. Her mother-in-law is usually very kind to her. Whenever a woman says what she wants to eat, her mother-in-law will definitely remember it in her heart. Then make it ready for your daughter-in-law to eat.
The daughter-in-law also knows very well how kind her mother-in-law is to her, and is very grateful that her mother-in-law can treat her in this way. In the days to come, the daughter-in-law will be even more kind to her mother-in-law, and work hard to do everything to repay her mother-in-law.
Just like this, the relationship between a woman and her mother-in-law has always been like that of a biological mother and daughter. Even the videos she posts daily are all about praising her mother-in-law.
On this day, the woman shared a video of her mother-in-law as usual. Her mother-in-law was on the phone with her eldest son, saying that the younger daughter-in-law had finished eating the milk powder for her children and asked her eldest son to send another box home.
In the mother-in-law's mind, the living conditions of the eldest son are better, but the living conditions of the younger son are worse in comparison. The palms and backs of the hands are all flesh. The mother-in-law can't bear to put too much pressure on the younger son, so she asks the older son to help her more. younger brother.
The younger daughter-in-law also heard the content of her mother-in-law's phone call and was extremely grateful to her. The younger daughter-in-law said that the milk powder her two children had been drinking since childhood was fully covered by the uncle, and she had never spent a penny.
Moreover, my uncle is in the milk powder business, so he knows a lot about this and the prices are affordable.
Although this is a very small thing, it is not difficult to see that the mother-in-law still has a preference for her younger son's family. Sometimes she may not feel it herself, but onlookers can see it clearly.
Moreover, the woman’s uncle bought all the milk powder for her two children. But if her mother-in-law hadn’t called her, would her uncle have paid for all the milk powder for her two children?
Even if the uncle doesn’t care, will the aunt not care? The answer is obvious. If the woman were put in the position of the aunt, she might not think so. After all, what she wants and what she takes the initiative to give are two different things.
Every pair of parents in this world does not feel that they are partial, but in fact, are there really unbiased parents?
It is precisely because some parents are partial and do not realize it that they cause many conflicts between two sisters-in-law and even two brothers.
Therefore, we should learn to think from the perspective of and . Everything should be done from the perspective of others. If you think about it for others, you may have many different ideas.
Being a person should not only revolve around yourself, but should also take into account the feelings of the loved ones around you. Don't let the people closest to you feel cold, and don't insist on having your own way.
Relatives are our most important support and our most important family members. Anyone whose relationship is overdrawn for a long time will have problems, and the same is true for family members. Compared with the maintenance of other relationships, what we should maintain more is actually the relationship between family members. relationship between.
Of course, if a family does not speak two languages, and their own family members don’t care at all, then this is a family worthy of everyone’s envy. Although not everyone is perfect in some aspects, what’s the harm? ?
What do you think about this?
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