No matter what family the bear child appears in, it is a headache. But parents shouldn't think that the child is still young, just take it easy. Reluctant to educate children. In this case, if you don’t educate your children now, someone will help you educate your children in the future.
of course does not mean that children must be educated with sticks. If the child has the following behaviors, parents should pay attention to it. If the child does not change after repeated teaching, it is necessary to fight.
Habitual bullying
If the child has developed the habit of bullying, this is definitely not a good habit. If your child bullies someone and you disagree, or even clap your hands to applaud your child, then to a certain extent, it means that you are helping the abuser. You should know that habitual bullying will one day become a stronger person than him, or the repair target of someone you have bullied.
If children have the habit of bullying, they must not be indulged, they must be persuaded, and they can also be beaten if necessary.
Steal
We often say that we steal needles when they are young, and steal cows when they are old. Therefore, the act of stealing may be a habit developed by the behavior of non-business as a child. As a parent, you must not tolerate or condone the stealing of your child. If the child does not change after repeated instruction, it is necessary to use weapons, otherwise we will not regret it if we violate the law in the future.
言语粗鲁
A person’s words are directly related to a person’s temperament and image. If a person is often rude and full of swear words, it must leave a very bad impression. Moreover, a person's language has a great relationship with his education and quality.
So if the child develops the habit of swearing, then as a parent, you must stop it. If the child still talks back to the parent at this time and does not realize his mistake, at this time, the parent can use force.
Never think that they are wrong
Both adults and children make mistakes. Making mistakes is not a terrible thing. The terrible thing is that they don’t realize it. It is very undesirable to make mistakes, or even habitually shirk responsibility. If a person has no sense of responsibility, it is difficult for them to be successful.
Of course, hitting children is not the ability to solve problems, and to prevent mistakes, oral language education should be the mainstay in daily life. And when hitting a child, pay attention, don’t hurt the child, don’t hit the child in front of outsiders, and tell the child that we hit you, not because we don’t like you, but we hope you can become better and more. Excellent.
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