When children encounter difficulties, how can parents help children develop the ability to solve problems efficiently

After children go to school, they will inevitably encounter various problems in the learning process. However, for some students, they really don't know how to face problems and solve them efficiently when they encounter them.

Some children don't know whom to ask for help. Some children may have asked people around them for advice, but have not received effective help. Some children are even more miserable. Not only do they fail to receive substantial help, they may also receive some negative comments as a result, which makes them unwilling to take the initiative to seek help when they encounter difficulties in the future.

As a parent, it is very necessary to help children correctly understand the difficulties they encounter in learning and learn to solve problems efficiently.

For example, a kid in junior high school encountered a problem while doing English. At this time, he needed help very much, but his father and mother didn’t even know English letters. It is not a wise decision for parents to ask for advice. What should parents and children do to help their children develop the ability to efficiently solve the difficulties they encounter in life and study?

First, parents should guide their children to form a good habit, and let them sort out the difficult problems they encounter in the learning process on a regular basis and classify them. You can ask your children to prepare a special notebook to record the problems they encounter. This notebook can be kept at hand for them to record at will. They can record on which subjects, problems, and knowledge points they have encountered, so that they can clearly see their difficulties.

Second, help children sort out the resources available around them. Generally speaking, when a student encounters a problem, he can choose to ask for help from his classmates, his own teachers, parents, etc. Of course, searching online is also a resource. Then parents need to guide their children to analyze, which resources are more appropriate to seek help when encountering different subjects and different problems. In this way, it will let them know very clearly that they can get help when they encounter problems, and they can ask different people for help.To ensure that their problems are resolved in a timely and effective manner.

Third, parents should encourage their children to communicate with their classmates frequently. First of all, because children spend more time with their classmates, they are very convenient to communicate, basically they can communicate at any time, and problems can be solved in a timely manner. Whether it is children asking other students for advice or helping other students solve problems, in this process, they can strengthen their understanding of knowledge points and are very helpful to the establishment of friendship between each other. Moreover, in the class, you can also promote the atmosphere of learning and set an example of learning. However, it should be noted that they should not be allowed to discuss issues that affect classroom discipline or take this opportunity to often whisper unrelated to learning. It is also important to note that it is also very important for them to pay attention to each other's attitude and tone when discussing.

Fourth, when the child encounters difficulties and discusses with his classmates and no results are reached, parents can encourage their children to consult the teacher at a suitable time. Be sure to choose a good time, try to ask the teacher questions during class, after class or during self-study. You can also let the children sort out the problems they encounter, and find a suitable time to ask the teacher one by one. If the child’s problem cannot be solved by the teacher, parents should actively help the child find a solution. They can seek some social resources, or find a solution to the child’s problem through various methods such as the Internet.

In short, let the children understand that there is no need to worry about problems in learning, and they must actively find ways to solve them. Once they have developed such a habit, they will no longer feel confused and helpless when encountering difficulties, but will actively face and solve problems, which will be helpful to their study and even their lifelong development. of.

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