If educating children has always been a problem that bothers parents, too strict control will encourage the child to rebel and the parent-child relationship will be indifferent; regardless or too loose, it will make the child develop bad habits that are difficult to change, so what should I do? Educating children, how to educate children, today we will take a look at it in detail.
Educating children is like cultivating a seed. It requires firm perseverance, waiting for the flowers to bloom, and warm wind and drizzle to wake up and nourish the seeds.
The prerequisite for educating children is to understand the children first. Parents should know that every child is different, and the stages of natural maturity are also different. Some children are obviously a flower, bright and colorful, but the "buds" are plucked out and cultivated as a towering tree. However, flowers cannot absorb too much nutrients. They will eventually burn the roots of the flowers and become the source of death for the flowers. Some children are clearly a towering tree, but the branches and lush green leaves are removed every once in a while. Pour in a small amount of fertilizer, and eventually the saplings will wither due to insufficient nutrients.
When you know enough about your child, you will get twice the result with less effort if you go to discipline your child! Because you know your child enough, you know your child’s habits, and your temper, so you don’t need to be in a hurry or get angry when you find your child is starting to be impatient during the process of guidance. Because you know your child enough, it’s difficult. Touched the minefield of children.
Every parent came from childhood, so you also understand very well what they yearn for most in their childhood! What do they desire most when they encounter problems! What are you looking forward to most!
Discipline your children, you need to keep them away! When a white dove who longs for freedom and flight is bound in a room, even if the room is decorated the most warmly, it is a bondage to it. In the end, it will become impulsive and irritable in order to break the bondage, and eventually be bruised; For a mole who needs to live and rest underground, if you take it out of a small space and put it in an empty place where you cannot dig a hole, it will inevitably evolve in order to survive.Eventually the mole became less like a mole.
The same children, like the animals in the example, have their own instincts. They can't ignore them, but they can't be strictly controlled. Children need to relax, but they also need more broken branches so that they can grow up healthily.
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