Children’s education has always been an issue of great concern to parents. After all, living in the current civilized society, if you don't have certain cultural knowledge, you may not be able to live a high-quality ideal life in the future, and it may even be difficult to gain a foothold in society.
Coke is three years old, so the Coke mother hurriedly talked about the child’s going to kindergarten, and began to search for kindergarten, analyze the situation of kindergarten, and screen kindergarten all day and night for the purpose of giving children Choose a kindergarten with the best quality in the conditions , after all, kindergarten is the beginning of a child's schoolwork, so you must choose a good start for your child.
In the end, after several days and nights of hard work by Coke’s mother, she finally chose a kindergarten that is very suitable in terms of teaching quality, reputation, qualifications, location, etc., and successfully obtained the qualifications for admission, and arrived at the opening of the kindergarten. At that time, he happily sent in the three-year-old Coke.
However, when sending Coke to kindergarten, there was a small episode that Coke seemed to be reluctant to go to kindergarten. On the first day when I entered kindergarten, my mother and my mother had a stalemate outside the kindergarten for a long time. In the end, under the constant persuasion, inducement, and guarantee of the welcome teacher and mother, Coke was forced to enter the kindergarten.
When Coke entered the kindergarten, a big rock in the heart of Coke’s mother finally fell to the ground. It seemed that a new life was ushered in. It felt like the child was finally able to start "on the journey", and it seemed that the child’s bright future was Wave to yourself.
However, the good times did not last long. After the child entered the kindergarten for a while, Mama Cola found thatThe child's mood is getting worse and worse, even to the point of being tired of school and unwilling to go to school.
Why do children feel tired of studying when they go to kindergarten?
Generally speaking, kindergartens are full of childlike elements, and there are many children to play together, and there are many entertainment facilities, etc. It is basically a paradise for children. After most children go to kindergarten, they will gradually change Have fun, why doesn't Coke want to go to school?
did not deal with the separation anxiety problem
When entering the kindergarten, everyone should notice that Coke was forced into the kindergarten because Coke was unwilling to be separated from his mother.
At that time, due to the large number of people entering the kindergarten, the orientation teacher was unable to give one-to-one psychological guidance to Coke, and my mother did not understand this aspect. Although Coke finally entered the kindergarten, the psychological anxiety of Coke was It has not been fundamentally solved, resulting in a legacy of problems. In the subsequent kindergarten life, Coke was affected by separation anxiety, and it became more and more disgusting to go to kindergarten.
[The correct way]: Separation anxiety is a common phenomenon when children go to kindergarten, it is actually very simple to avoid this situation:
Tell the child about the kindergarten, introduce the kindergarten to the child in detail, and arouse the child's active interest.
②Take your children to visit the kindergarten in advance, get familiar with teachers, and meet classmates,Ask the child to judge the kindergarten as a "familiar place."
③When entering the kindergarten, leave after sending the children. Don't hesitate or delay.
The child’s mental development is not enough to support the small social life of the kindergarten
The reason why Coke mother sent Coke to kindergarten when she was three years old was because Span thought: Three years old is the best age for most children to go to school. Children in this age group are in the important period of enlightenment education, ability improvement, physical development and so on. They need professional preschool education for education.
and in accordance with the national " compulsory education law " regulations, children should go to school at the age of 6 years old, and in areas with insufficient conditions, it can be postponed to 7 years old.
Kindergarten is a three-year system, so 3 years old is the best time for a child to go to kindergarten.
But in fact, not all children are suitable for kindergarten at the age of three.
Because each child's development level is different, the living environment is different, etc., the child's mental development status is also different.
Although most children are at the age of three,The psychological environment can support oneself to start small social activities, but some children's psychological development is not in place, unable to support the children to participate in small social activities, if forcibly integrated, it is easy to cause children to have some unhealthy psychological factors, such as low self-esteem and panic. , Insecurity, etc.
[The correct approach]: Ordinary children can go to kindergarten at the age of three, but if the child’s mental development is delayed, or if the child’s mental age is younger and the ability to take care of himself is weak, then it can be slowed down. Go to kindergarten slowly, such as around three and a half years old.
Here should pay attention to , although children can’t kindergarten too early in the morning, but also can’t be too late at night. It is not good for the growth of the child.
Children are treated unfairly by their teachers or classmates
When some children go to kindergarten, because of their own reasons or other reasons, some children’s hostility is caused, or some children’s hostility It is the teacher’s differential treatment, selective neglect, etc., that may make children feel uncomfortable in their hearts, and this feeling is related to the kindergarten environment. Children will not have these uncomfortable feelings if they leave this environment. So children will start to be reluctant to go to kindergarten.
[Correct approach] For this situation,Parents need to be more attentive:
- pay more attention to the child's state, and if there is any abnormality, get to know it in time.
- Communicate more with children, grasp their daily trends, and understand children’s kindergarten life.
- Communicate more with teachers, cooperate with home and school, improve the quality of parenting, and also allow teachers to passively increase their positive attention to children.
Although this situation is not common, it is possible. After all, many kindergartens are private, and the management is not so standardized, and there are more problems.
written at the end
3 years old is the best time for most children to go to kindergarten, but not all. parenting expert frankly said: the parents gave the wrong, the baby suffers.
Therefore, parents must choose a reasonable time to enter the kindergarten according to the actual situation of their children, so that the children can fully adapt to the kindergarten life, so that they can fully enjoy the positive impact of the kindergarten.
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