"The big baby is in elementary school, and he has to take care of his studies and go to interest classes; the little baby is in kindergarten at the age he wants to play with..." In the second-childhood, raising children not only tested the parents, but also challenged the elderly at home. Our wisdom with children.
Jinhua Evening News reporter found that some grandparents who are retired teachers, in the process of helping their children and grandchildren, indeed have many coups to accompany their grandchildren to study and play, and they can do both learning and entertainment. Such a harmonious atmosphere of "grandfather and grandson filial piety" also relieves young parents who are usually busy with work a lot of worries.
For this, the reporter interviewed two retired teachers. Their grandchildren experience may also be helpful to you, especially those old people who are responsible for learning and playing with their grandchildren.
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"I have an interesting grandpa"
Character: "Photography"
Take the grandson secret: I am the granddaughter's old naughty boy
"Walking with Grandpa" This picture book describes Daniela and Grandpa often together in peace. Walking in the small woodland. When they were walking, they played word games. Grandpa said: You give me warm sunshine during the day. Daniela will respond: You are the moon that leads me at night.
"Haha! Today I and Xiao Taozi are five years old, the weather is fine, I woke up early." Xiao Taozi is the granddaughter of "Photography", his relationship with granddaughter is as close as Daniela and grandfather.
"Photography Shi" is the nickname used by Shi Yixin, the former principal of Zhanqian Primary School in Jinhua City. If he loves photography, the WeChat Moments before he retires are all the school's dynamics and news. As the time spent with grandchildren increases, most of today’s Moments records the daily fun and videos of granddaughters and grandchildren.
Not long ago, Xiao Taozi's kindergarten was going to the autumn outing. He was "selected to accompany" by his granddaughter and served as his granddaughter's "secretary" and "life consultant" all the way. Of course, he was more of a playmate. The reason why
was selected by his granddaughter, Shi Yixin believes that Xiao Taozi thinks "Grandpa is the most fun." "The child's nature is not to play!" This was his previous school philosophy, and now he uses this philosophy to play with his granddaughter.
"Hey, grimacing, learning to sing, witty words and everything, laughter is really a big car."
"The cucumber is long, but it has hairy thorns. The little peach is scared, but he picked a big root. "Z1z
" digging sweet potatoes is not easy, but it doesn’t really matter whether you have sweet potatoes or not. As long as you have played with small hoes and shovels, you’ll enjoy yourself."...
In the eyes of this old principal, the granddaughter’s world is really like Interesting and fun, as if he himself had returned to his childhood.
Shi Yixin was once a famous mathematics teacher, and now naturally he will not let go of those good opportunities to inspire his grandchildren's mathematical thinking. In the process of playing with Xiao Taozi, he developed a lot of interesting mathematical thinking games, and some daily necessities were used as game props by him.
For example, if there are a few 1 yuan coins in the pocket, he will learn the numbers with Little Taozi; there is a toothpick bucket on the table, so he takes out a bunch of toothpicks and accompanies his granddaughter to spell graphics. This is also Little Taozi's favorite game. It’s a very good graphic game; take a bowl, fill it with water, and put a few toy ducks on it, which is a good story game; go to the field and pick a few dog tails, which is another lively and interesting nature lesson... Shi Yixin I also filmed the scenes of myself playing with my granddaughter and made video lesson plans for posting on Meipian and Douyin.
Shi Yixin will also design interesting small awards for his granddaughter, such as "Love to Eat Green Vegetables and Carrots". He will also ask his granddaughter to be a teacher and be a student himself. Little Taozi was in middle work this year, and once went to a friend's house to play. She saw a blackboard and pulled Shi Yixin's hand hard to teach everyone. "Little Taozi picked up the chalk and asked questions while drawing pictures. Grandpa interacted with the little teacher... Little Taozi took a decent look. The granddaughter is happy, and the grandfather and the students are happier." Shi Yixin said, sometimes the roles interact with each other. Change it to make it more interesting to play.
Shi Yixin’s secret to giving birth to grandchildren is to be a good grandchildren. Now, his little grandson has grown up, with a sweet "little tail" around him. Because of his rich educational experience and an immortal childlike heart, Shi Yixin accompanies his granddaughter and grandsonZiwan not only follows the child's nature, but also integrates knowledge of life and textbooks. It is not only a lively and interesting game lesson, but also an entertaining and entertaining knowledge transfer process. Sometimes, his "funny grandpa" is more popular with his grandchildren than his father and mother.
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"It's my grandma and my teacher"
Character: Grandma Zhou
The secret of taking a grandson: A schedule every day, learning and entertainment are the same.
The grandmother Zhou who lives in Wuxing community in Jinhua city is a 35 Retired teacher of young teaching age. After she retired, Grandma Zhou helped her son to bring up her grandson, which lasted 8 years. Sun Tzu Yangyang is now in the third grade of elementary school. In order to let her son and daughter-in-law work at ease, in addition to transporting her grandson to school during the day, she also took on the important task of urging and counseling her grandson to do homework.
Grandma Zhou said that the most difficult problem that old people generally find with their grandchildren is that they can’t start learning for their grandchildren. In this regard, she has a good method, which is to discuss with her grandchildren, draw up a schedule every day, and draw up a clearer study schedule, what time to learn what content. For example, when the elderly are cooking, children can read or exercise. In short, a planned arrangement of the learning tasks for the day will help improve children's learning efficiency.
draws up a schedule every day, which is also the experience of Grandma Zhou with her grandson for many years. When the grandson was young, Grandma Zhou would make a schedule every day, at what time of the day she would take her out to play and where to go, she would plan ahead. "This may have something to do with my years of teaching experience. I am used to teaching according to the schedule every day, and when I take my grandson, I don't consciously have to set a schedule for my grandson." Grandma Zhou told reporters with a smile, although this is her professional habit. , But it is indeed a good way to let grandson learn and entertain from an early age.
Every morning, she will arrange two hours of outdoor activities for her grandson; the afternoon is the talent learning time, accompany him to listen to ancient poems, sharpen his ears in English, and also do some thinking games and traditional games; in the evening, the child’s parents get off work Then, she gave her grandson to them for parent-child company.
Grandma Zhou planted some vegetables on the balcony, such as garlic, shallots, coriander, greens, etc. She also asked her grandson to water on time every day to cultivate her children's sense of time and sense of responsibility. In order to make the children's life more interesting, she also accompanies the children to play some traditional old games, such as throwing stones, fighting crickets, rolling hoops, riding horses, and jigsaw puzzles that boys like. In addition, she will let her wife play chess with her children.
"Around me, many elderly people throw their children at mobile phones and TVs. I think this is very detrimental to the growth of children." Grandma Zhou told reporters that for preschool children, images are the most attractive to them. If you are obsessed with electronic products at an early age, it will not only affect your eyesight, but you will also easily lose your interest in learning after going to elementary school.
As a retired teacher's grandmother Zhou, she is very good at taking her grandchildren, but she also had troubles. "My grandson went to kindergarten very early. I insisted on not letting him go to kindergarten this morning, but I couldn't help my daughter-in-law. She said that although my grandma took good care of her, the children also need companions and the kindergarten environment. It became a great regret for Grandma Zhou.
"However, even if I know how to educate, no matter how good I carry it, I must respect the opinions of the children's parents. After all, they are the children's parents." Over the years, Grandma Zhou has gradually understood that she must "abdicate" her grandson in due course. Return the important education responsibility to the children, and be the "golden partner" of the younger generation. Source of
: Jinhua Evening News;
Reporter: Qian Yuan;
