Recently, the topic of parental education anxiety has been mentioned on the cusp of the storm, and all aspects of educational contradictions caused by the current social environment have become more prominent. It can be said that since becoming a parent, there is no one who has never been anxious, and anxiety changes as the child's age changes.
But are you really anxious, right? I do not oppose the anxiety of parents, because the old saying goes well, "Anyone who has no vision must have near worries." Behind the anxiety is the love and expectation of parents for their children. So here I am not against parental anxiety, I just want to ask you if anxiety is right? Are your anxiety problems really worth worrying about? You have never been anxious, is it all going smoothly?
has revisited "Together" in the past few days, and was moved to tears again by Mei Aihua, played by Li Haiqing in the "Mask" unit.
"I am serious about making masks, and I am serious about saving people", which fully demonstrates the responsibility, responsibility and perseverance of female entrepreneurs.
has to say that in front of the camera, Haiqing can interpret every character with heart;
in life, her role as a mother is also remarkable.
Now 14-year-old son Dan Niu (Daniel), was taught to be sensible, humble, and he did not lose the first place in the cultural class in his studies. Haiqing, who was admitted to both Chinese Opera and Nortel at the same time, was appropriately child".
has something to say at the age of 8, and his thoughts are deep:
trained for several months and won three golds and one silver at the Asian Swimming Championships:
has artistic attainments:
can calligraphy:
can write poems:
flipped through Haiqing’s Weibo casually, and the old mother couldn’t help but sigh: has a son like this, so what can I do?
is not only excellent in English and physical education, but also in literature and art. You must know that the latter two are quite a test of a person's literary quality, perception, observation and other soft power!
Maybe you would say, this is the child of a star, a child of someone else's family! We ordinary people would not educate such good children, nor do we have that condition! In fact, this is definitely not the case. As a celebrity, Haiqing does not have less work than any of us, and even the irregular working hours may not give her children too much company. In charge of the anxious mothers around
, many kindergarten years started using "flash cards" to learn Chinese characters every day. English grammar exercises in elementary school are required every day, and I have bought one copy after another for oral math.
But why can't the child still be the child of the victim?
In fact, a person's comprehensive qualities and abilities are much more important than the results presented on paper, and it is also more difficult to learn. It does not depend on simple practice. But it requires accumulation over time, and it is only on interest to achieve the effect.
For example, if you expect your child to have excellent English scores, then you may be able to focus on spelling and doing questions every day. The greatest effect may be reflected in the exam. But in real application, you will never be able to write plays or perform plays in English freely. Wait for things that need to be improvised. But the son of Haiqing mentioned above is fine, and many of Huang Lei's family are fine, indicating that this is not an exception. There are too many comprehensive abilities in
, which are not listed here. What I want to say is that parents are actually anxious, because in the face of an uncertain future, we always want to give our children the best. If you can't always accompany your child, expect your child's own ability to accompany him to grow up.
However, parents who are only staring at the textbook exercises may be anxious and wrong. The current results do not represent the future. If the results are temporarily good, but they are supervised by their parents, there may be room for decline in the future where the parents cannot tell . But if the child's comprehensive ability improves, maybe on the road in the future, he can spread his wings no matter where he is.
So are you anxious, right?
