do you know? For a expectant mother, in addition to her physical and nutrition, stable emotions are also an important factor in ensuring the healthy growth of her children. The happiness of a family, the existence and transmission of positive energy are the primary criteria. In addition to inheriting DNA from parents, a person also inherits emotions and subconsciousness. Only by recognizing these deep subconscious can we change our destiny.
Why some children are very well-behaved and obedient when they are born, some are naughty and naughty. Those "bad children" who are uneasy in the traditional sense are actually not really "bad", they just have stronger vitality. Why do some children be smart when they are young, and the more ordinary or even worse they get older? Perhaps it is because we parents do not really understand the life state of their children.
"Let Love Go Home", this is a popular science book in family psychology that is worth thinking deeply. The author, Mr. Li Xinyi, has been engaged in psychological counseling and research for 35 years. He is the founder of Zhonghe Life and Xinyi Psychology brand. He has helped countless problem children, problem couples and problem families solve problems, and led hundreds of thousands of families out of difficulties and "Let Love Go Home". The book
is divided into eighteen chapters, which tell us about the growth needs of a family and a child from the perspectives of the birth of a child, the growth environment, the parents' thoughts, the way of raising a child, the psychological empowerment and other aspects. Every child is an independent body of life, presenting different vital signs. When it is never born, it feels the thoughts of parents and family, and combines its own characteristics to grow into its own appearance bit by bit. Therefore, no matter what kind of expectations each parent has for his or her heart, he or she needs to respect his or her children and accompany them to grow better with rational and scientific thoughts. In the book, a person's personality is divided into ten types according to the strength of the state, namely, big tree type, flower type, sun type, candle type, earth type, chocolate type, big knife type, small knife type, sea type and pond type.
seems novel and interesting classification standards, but are actually summarized based on the principles of ancient Chinese " Yijing " and combined with the personality status and characteristics of living organisms. Among them, people with big trees and flowers and plants are related to wood. Wood is responsible for liver and gallbladder. They are usually full of courage, but people with big trees are better at handling big things, while people with grass and trees are more resilient; people with sun and candles are related to fire, and they are usually more etiquette and passionate, while fire represents the heart, and the heart is open to the tongue, so they are better at expressing; people with earth and chocolate are more honest and do not promise others easily, and have solid muscles and love to be clean; people with big swords and small swords have good logic and good thinking, and are good at calm observation, and are lacking in fire; people with sea and ponds have novel ideas and strong creativity, and are free and casual, but can dilute many things.
Every type of people has different personality traits, so every type of children should also have different growth guidelines. Today's society and education emphasize too much unity, and often ignores the personalized development of children. Reading the book "Let Love Go Home" not only allows us to learn to change our minds, but also helps us further understand our children.
In the 11th chapter of the book, "Everything may not be inferior, not only high school reading" also tells us that children's learning is divided into three states. The first is the top student type, the second is the type of backward student type, and the third is the type of subject-oriented. In real life, a large number of children are subject to the academic type. If parents are blindly affected by the surrounding environment and make their children study hard and anxiously and paranoidly, they may cause their children to lose confidence and even lose their expectations for their future life.
Finally, Teacher Li Xinyi told us: If people want to live happily, they must first complete the transformation of negative energy in the entire body and mind, and then they can achieve the ascension of positive energy. Wherever our energy rises, we understand it.Change our entire psychological state at the moment and make our lives better.
self-cultivation and family management and building a good family tradition is the first thing to do is to "set your ambition" and tell yourself what kind of person you want to become. Then there is "studying things" and learning to be aware; next, we must "realize knowledge", "sincerity", and "correct the mind", and finally achieve "cultivation of oneself". "Eliminate parents' worries and change children's destiny", the book "Let Love Go Home" allows us to learn more useful family education knowledge through a large number of real cases, allowing us to learn little by little, and finally continue to make continuous progress and bring love home.
