Mommy Xiaoxin’s daughter is already 6 months old, and this is the time to add complementary foods. When the baby has just entered the period of supplementary feeding, the mother will always be particularly excited. She can't wait to bring the most nutritious and delicious food in the world to her child.
While at work, Xiaoxin also kept telling her mother-in-law: The baby has just added complementary food, so she must eat nutritious food, and she must not save on this aspect.
The mother-in-law also agreed to Xiaoxin, but after Xiaoxin came home from get off work, she found her mother-in-law feeding the baby porridge. There was not much nutritious food added to these porridges. Xiaoxin also disliked the mother-in-law feeding her granddaughter porridge.
The neighbor happened to be a pediatrician and heard their argument. The pediatrician said: I looked carefully at the porridge, it was very thin, and the rice has also been crushed. This kind of breakfast is very good for babies who are new to complementary foods.
After carefully listening to the pediatrician's words, he fell silent. The doctor said: The baby has just started to add complementary foods. It is not advisable to eat too nutritious food at once. It is not good for the baby's stomach development. Such a light diet Porridge is more beneficial to her physical development.
Nowadays, more and more young people dislike the feeding methods of the elderly, and they often argue with them over such issues. Why is this?
There are clues behind young people’s dislike of the elderly’s feeding methods
Everyone grows up in a different environment and is raised in different ways, so their views on parenting are also different. For young people, they all hope that their children can live a better life.
The elderly are more diligent and frugal, and their education is also different. This also causes them to often dislike the feeding methods of the elderly, and feel that they cannot recognize the feeding methods of the elderly.
Many improper feeding methods of the elderly were also published on the Internet, and their impact was also announced. Many parents couldn't help but break into a cold sweat after reading it.
Because these news are often seen on the Internet, many young parents will be affected by online public opinions. When sees that the old man's feeding method is different from his own, he will immediately dislike the old man's feeding method.
The reason why young people dislike the elderly is also because they do not trust the elderly enough. This kind of thing often happens to daughter-in-law, because the daughter-in-law was not raised by her mother-in-law, nor did she grow up in such a growing environment.
They still have grudges against their mother-in-law and are wary of them.. They just had no choice but to leave their children to the care of the elderly. When they see the elderly feeding their children, they will immediately dislike their feeding methods.
Young people should stop old people from feeding their babies like this.
Although many people dislike the old people’s feeding methods, not all the old people’s feeding methods are wrong. If the elderly use the following methods to feed their children, everyone should stop them.
. Chasing to feed the baby
We can often see such a situation in the streets and alleys: the old man is holding a bowl behind, panting and chasing his grandson. After finally catching up to his grandson, his grandson was willing to take a bite or two and then continue running.
If this is the feeding method, everyone should stop it after seeing it. Because this kind of feeding method is prone to accidents, it can also cause gastrointestinal indigestion in children.
. Feed the baby before feeding it.
The elderly also have a heart of doting on their children. This is also the love of the elderly. When feeding their children, the elderly are worried that the children will be burned and choke, so when feeding their children, they will put the food into their own mouths, chew it with their teeth, and then spit it out to feed the children.
There are many bacteria in the mouths of adults.If is passed through the mouth first and then fed to the child, it will also bring bacteria to the child , which is detrimental to the child's physical development. Only when we see this situation, we should stop it.
. Overfeeding children
As old people, we all experienced famine when we were young, and we all experienced the feeling of hunger. After having a grandson, wished that his grandson could eat more and stop feeling hungry.
We often see many elderly people advising their children to eat more. They will overfeed their children, but the children who overfeed will also be overweight. This will have a certain impact on their appearance, self-confidence, and physical health.
Many people will have disagreements with the elderly about feeding methods, but when there are differences between us and the elderly, , we can do this to avoid conflicts.
After having children, we should deepen our parenting knowledge with the elderly. We can read more to the elderly about some scientific parenting methods. In this way, not only can I learn some professional parenting knowledge, but I can also update their parenting knowledge in a timely manner to avoid the emergence of these bad parenting methods.
Conclusion:
It is inevitable that there will be differences in parenting styles between young people and the elderly. As long as we know how to use the above methods to resolve them, there will be no conflicts between the two.
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