After the college entrance examination, no matter whether it is good or bad, it is time to rewrite the story.
After the college entrance examination, some people will be happy and some will be sad. Children who do well in the exam begin to look forward to their college life. It is also time to ask for some rewards from their parents. After all, good grades can also make their parents look good.
But even students who do not do well in exams still deserve respect. After all, most of them will not choose to repeat this path, and they have to face forward no matter what.
Grandsons and grandsons also took the college entrance examination, but the "rewards" given by the old man were frustrating.
A grandmother in Hainan was very happy this year. Both her grandson and grandson took the college entrance examination and achieved good results. This made the grandmother feel very happy. I am gratified and allow myself to accept the attention and blessings of others.
On the second day after the results were released, grandma couldn't control her emotions and couldn't help but want to reward the little meritorious officials, so she gathered the whole family together and had a reunion dinner. Everything went smoothly at first, but towards the end, grandma took out two red envelopes from her pocket and gave them to the two children respectively.
This operation was completed under the watchful eyes of the whole family. Everyone can see that the thickness of the two red envelopes is completely different, one is thicker and the other is smaller, and they are very large. Even if they are placed in the red envelopes, they are clearly visible.
Apparently the bigger red envelope was given to the grandson, and the other one was in the hands of the grandson. In this way, although the two children were calm for some reason, the daughter couldn't sit still and directly asked her grandma what she meant. Obviously my son's grades are higher.
Faced with her daughter’s question, the grandmother said calmly: What is your son’s surname and what is my surname? The children you marry and are born into your husband’s family have nothing to do with us, right? Now that I can still think of him, he is already very kind and righteous!
Is the relationship between grandma and grandson always so awkward?
The water thrown out by a married daughter
In today's lifestyle, there are no longer too many constraints. Even a married daughter can move around freely with her parents' family. She will not be poked in the back by others like in the past. . But even so, not everyone can change their minds.
Especially in families with both sons and daughters, the elders will throw their married daughters out. They always feel that they have nothing to do with their own family. No matter how they live, they don't need their parents to get involved.
In this way, when facing the child born by the daughter and son-in-law, there will also be some grudges. Maybe it is because of the child's surname, or maybe it is just that you can't get over this hurdle. When you interact with the child, you can't explain it clearly. of embarrassment.
Grandma will basically not spoil her grandson.
Compared to grandma who tolerates her grandson without any bottom line, grandma is obviously much more rational. Even if there is a reason for to be close to from another generation, when encountering problems and different situations, they will still proceed from the truth, and favoritism and doting will not appear in their dictionaries.
Perhaps the grandma has other expectations and requirements for her grandson, and good guidance can save her daughter some worries. But because of this, the relationship between many grandchildren and their grandmothers is not very good. After all, children also know how to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, and he knows who is good to him.
Even if the grandmothers and grandchildren do not have much contact, the grandmothers will not change their established ideas and requirements and will consistently demand the same from their children. It seems a bit cruel to the children, but it is the best arrangement for the children.
Such a situation is directly related to the mother.
If the mother could become the bridge between the child and grandma in life, the situation might not be so embarrassing. No matter what grandma does, the mother can enlighten the children and tell them what grandma means, and the possibility of the children getting into trouble will decrease drastically.
After all, the child's ability to judge grandma's behavior is far from adequate. If his mother stood by his side at this time and gave him more security, the child would not resent grandma too much, and maybe he would be more considerate. What a surprise!
Today’s summary:
In your family, how is the relationship between grandma and grandson? What role did you play in the middle? Feel free to share your thoughts with us!
