In fact, if your parents-in-law were able to check in when they knew your mother was seriously ill, and then gave her 2,000 yuan to buy nutritional supplements, they are already relatively reasonable in-laws. You should be grateful and express your gratitude.
After all, your mother is just your biological mother and has nothing to do with your husband's family. Not to mention your parents-in-law, even your husband, legally speaking, does not have the responsibility or obligation to support and care for your parents, let alone your parents-in-law who are one floor away.
You should take care of and support your own parents. Don’t think about relying on others to help you support and care for them.
Because legally speaking, the responsibilities and obligations of supporting and caring for the elderly are only the responsibilities and obligations of their biological children!
Therefore, you must have enough time, energy, and money to support and take care of your parents. Now it is your mother’s job to take care of her when she is sick!
From your point of view, your mother is seriously ill and you must take care of her. You have no time and energy to think about pregnancy and childbirth, and it is not the right time to become pregnant and have children!
However, from the perspective of your parents-in-law, your mother's illness will drag on for who knows how long. Do you have to wait forever?
Besides, if your mother passes away, it would not be good to have a child right away. It would be better to have a child now!
So, what you have to do is to first analyze to your husband the disadvantages of having children now, that is, you need to go to the hospital frequently to see your mother, or accompany your mother to take care of your mother!
Let’s not talk about whether mother’s fatigue will have an impact on the child. How can pregnant women often go to the hospital or come into contact with seriously ill people? What would you do if your mother passed away during your pregnancy?
Didn’t you even attend the funeral of your biological mother? A lifelong regret!
Besides, tired pregnant women and grieving mothers are particularly bad for the development and physical and mental health of their children. If your husband is smart, he will know how to choose.
Therefore, you must have a good communication with your husband, and then let him stand on your side and agree not to have children for the time being, and communicate with his parents to stop their efforts to have children.
It is best to ask your husband to analyze the disadvantages of having children now with his parents, and tell them that he does not want children now, because he is afraid that under the current circumstances, it will be harmful to the child's development and health, in case he raises one. What should I do if my child has any physical defects?
Then, ask your husband to tell his mother that it is better to wait until your mother's condition is stable before considering having a child. This will be better for the child and everyone.
As a family, it is better to respect each other and understand each other.
